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I♥RYLEIGH Due March 3; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Windsor, Ontario 10504 posts
Feb 23rd '13
Quoting Not tellin:" Never. Never have. Never will and he is ok with that. I have a terrible gag reflex. I get sedated for ... [snip!] ... but this was discovered during marriage counseling. I would be good if I never had sex again. I am popped with these kids. Lol"


I could definitely live without sex as well and I don't even have kids yet! lol.

user banned California 36390 posts
Feb 23rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Not tellin:</b>" Never. Never have. Never will and he is ok with that. I have a terrible gag reflex. I get sedated for ... [snip!] ... but this was discovered during marriage counseling. I would be good if I never had sex again. I am popped with these kids. Lol"</blockquote>




I do that too. Is that bad?

Inglebert Humperdink 3 kids; New Jersey 121 posts
Feb 23rd '13
Quoting 2+ Courtney:" For those of you who give your SO oral, how often do you give it? SO has been wanting oral since I've ... [snip!] ... I've had DD and I've only done it once (she's 9 days old) just curious as to how often everyone else does it for their SO."


SO loves it and so do I, so it happens quite frequently.. multiple times during sex and just randomly throughout the day I'll pounce on him and give him a little oral gratification. He always returns the favor so that's a bonus too.

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16080 posts
Feb 23rd '13
Quoting Not tellin:" Never. Never have. Never will and he is ok with that. I have a terrible gag reflex. I get sedated for ... [snip!] ... but this was discovered during marriage counseling. I would be good if I never had sex again. I am popped with these kids. Lol"


That's kinda how I feel. I mean I like sex but I don't care enough about it to NEED it. It's more for DH.

user banned California 36390 posts
Feb 23rd '13
Quoting Robert Downey Jr.:" That's kinda how I feel. I mean I like sex but I don't care enough about it to NEED it. It's more for DH."


OT but your avi is smoking hot.

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
Feb 23rd '13

Hmmmmmmmmm....shiiittt....like 3 a day? He doesn't finish each time but he likes to tease each other until we get time alone to have sex. And then I do it also each time we have sex. He likes his blow jobs lol

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
Feb 23rd '13

Pretty rarely. I have this weird thing about mouths. I don't like spit and I don't like other people's mouths on me or my mouth on them. But I'd tell him to back the f**k off, you just had a baby. That shit takes a lot of work.

✮Sebastian's Momma 1 child; Portland, Maine 7953 posts
Feb 23rd '13

He's lucky if it's once a month, and I rarely do it to finish only like a few minutes. I am really not a fan of it but I do it to please him. He doesn't do oral on me often either so it's fair.

.:Stacy Renee:. 19 kids; Ohio 6585 posts
status Feb 23rd '13

As often as I can!! I absolutely love giving DH oral though!

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
Feb 23rd '13
Quoting 2+ Courtney:" For those of you who give your SO oral, how often do you give it? SO has been wanting oral since I've ... [snip!] ... I've had DD and I've only done it once (she's 9 days old) just curious as to how often everyone else does it for their SO."


during normal times, 3-5 times a week? (before sex, not just on its own)



no BJ's in place of sex if I can't have sex. Sometimes if I'm on my period and don't want to.



after a baby... f**k that. He doesn't get it just because I can't have sex.. AND>. I was busy taking care of newborns and exhausted after having babies

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
Feb 23rd '13

Everytime we have sex

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
Feb 23rd '13

Phew!!! I thought I was alone on that! Lol hubby comes home from a long hitch and I dread it. I know he is going to start gropping and pawing. I cringe. Lol I am like "get off me!" I know it is because I am exhausted and tired of taking care of everyone else. I think if he would just give me that little bit of time to unwind before he started in on another need/ chore, I might be more willing.



I am fortunate though, he never misses an opportunity to tell me that he loves me and still finds me as attractive as the day he met me. That was 10 years, 3 kids and about 40lbs ago. Lol



I swear, kids zap the sex drive right out of you if you are a SAHM. I find that when we are alone with no kids in the house (like when they are at gramma's) I am a little more likely to put out.

xluucyx Due August 20 (boy); Maidenhead, United Kingdom 36 posts
Feb 23rd '13

hmmm, probably about half the time these days, used to be more, but even though he's very clean down there pretty much all the time, the taste kinda makes me feel a bit sick sometimes since being pregnant for some reason unless he's literally just washed, I do enjoy doing it though, especially if I can make him all squirmy :twisted:



If we've had sex earlier that day already and not showered, then there's like 0 chance, gross

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
Feb 23rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Not tellin:</b>" Phew!!! I thought I was alone on that! Lol hubby comes home from a long hitch and I dread it. I know ... [snip!] ... I find that when we are alone with no kids in the house (like when they are at gramma's) I am a little more likely to put out."</blockquote>



I always find myself Worrying about dd waking up do I can't relax and enjoy myself :(

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
Feb 23rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Not tellin:</b>" Phew!!! I thought I was alone on that! Lol ... [snip!] ... likely to put out."</blockquote> I always find myself Worrying about dd waking up do I can't relax and enjoy myself :("</blockquote>




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