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BJs, how often.. Me+ (3) 3 kids; Lima, OH, United States 2355 posts
Feb 23rd '13

For those of you who give your SO oral, how often do you give it?



SO has been wanting oral since I've had DD and I've only done it once (she's 9 days old)



just curious as to how often everyone else does it for their SO.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59258 posts
Feb 23rd '13

Every time we have sex.



ETA: your baby's 9 days old?..he could probably lay off the oral demands on you.

thats me. :) 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Edmonton, Alberta 3385 posts
Feb 23rd '13

NEVER.



I have a very strong gag reflux.
Unless he is wearing a flavoured condom, then why not.



ahaha.

user banned Due January 20; 33 kids; North Carolina 14662 posts
Feb 23rd '13

Right now, not as often as I'd like since he's deployed.
But when he's home, at least once whenever we have sex. I love giving it, and whenever I give to him, he gives back to me :wink:

user banned California 36390 posts
Feb 23rd '13

Usually once a week. He likes really sloppy blowjobs so I usually only do it in the shower.

saageex3 2 kids; New York 6667 posts
Feb 23rd '13

Almost never lmao

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16080 posts
Feb 23rd '13

2-3 times a month.

Clopton Due November 27 (girl); 2 kids; Tulsa, OK, United States 3277 posts
Feb 23rd '13

Damn. DS is 12 days old and DH has been jokingly asking for a "handski" and "blowski". I've got too much other things going on right now to worry about bjs.

☆Mrs. Mathers☆ 3 kids; Greenway, OH, United States 26551 posts
Feb 23rd '13

probably about 5 times a week on average.



you just had a baby though...i wouldn't wanna do anything sexual at all lol

Addi&Aria'smama 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Florissant, Missouri 7691 posts
Feb 23rd '13

ehhh probably 15 times a month. I am not big on them but DH loves them. I don't do it while I am pregnant though. Sex makes me puke, I can only imagine what a blowjob would do.

I♥RYLEIGH Due March 3; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Windsor, Ontario 10504 posts
Feb 23rd '13

Never. I haven't given SO a BJ since the summer. Not confident enough in myself lol. He is way more experienced than I am. :cry:

Me+ (3) 3 kids; Lima, OH, United States 2355 posts
Feb 23rd '13
Quoting ✩BG Addict✩:" probably about 5 times a week on average. you just had a baby though...i wouldn't wanna do anything sexual at all lol"


Yeah, I don't.. at all.
he feels the need to keep grabbing my ass and b**bs.
and my b**bs have been so engorged so he about got his ass handed to him over it the other day..

Mamas 1144 Due March 12; 1 child; Kilgore, Texas 249 posts
Feb 23rd '13

At least once a week sometimes more. After our son was born I gave him one like everyday until I was 4 weeks PP and we could have sex again.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; f**king, Austria 36337 posts
Feb 23rd '13

Hardly ever.. Bad memories..

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
Feb 23rd '13

Never. Never have. Never will and he is ok with that. I have a terrible gag reflex. I get sedated for a teeth cleaning. Lol I do "play" a bit but, sex for us isn't as much for physical gratification as it is to fill my husbands emotional needs. Yes, I said that. He validates our relationship with physical affection. Long story but this was discovered during marriage counseling. I would be good if I never had sex again. I am popped with these kids. Lol