Will it ever happen Living on hope. California 1047 posts
Feb 21st '13

I'm so infertile it's sad. :( it's causing my depression to rise again. :( it sucks I can't do one thing right. I've seen a dr but all she did was lecture me on being young and dumb. I've had 3 losses and its all just killing me.
Sorry this was just a ramble I'm just sad. :(

Dazzled TTC since Oct 2015; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Gales Ferry, CT, United States 3946 posts
Feb 21st '13

How young are you? I'd be looking for another fertility doctor if I were you.

The Doctor 2 kids; Boulder, CO, United States 60775 posts
Feb 21st '13

Why is your DOCTOR telling you you're dumb?

Find a new one.

blessed Due May 10 (girl); 1 child; Maine 321 posts
Feb 21st '13

I know the feeling all to well after 7 years Of trying we did Ivf, never give up!! My ds is 3 and im due in may with a girl both Ivf babies! Miracles do happen! Never give up!

user banned 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Indiana 75866 posts
Feb 21st '13

I'm sorry. :( Your doctor actually said you were young and dumb? I think it's time to change doctors. Have you gone through any testing? After my third loss, I was able to get some testing done. They tested me for every clotting disorder under the sun. Turns out I have MTHFR and additional clotting factors. I'm on Lovenox (a blood thinner) daily, and I'm 17 weeks along. So far, so good! I hope you can get some answers.

*beck-i* {JAS08} Due January 8; 3 kids; Prattsburgh, New York 4812 posts
Feb 21st '13

I would look for help elsewhere... I don't think a Dr. should judge anyone no matter what the situation.

InkDMomma 35 kids; Clinton Township, Michigan 27418 posts
Feb 21st '13

Find a new doctor, mine said the EXACT same shit to me. "oh you're young it doesn't matter"
I'm 24 years old... with 2 kids and I'm married why the hell does it matter?

I found a new doctor and they were AMAZING, did my testing and got me on the right track. Now I'm 14 weeks pregnant!
You can do it :D just find a doctor that fits YOUR needs.

Living on hope. California 1047 posts
Feb 21st '13

She was just a regular ob but she grilled me on why I wanted a child so young I'm 22 going on 23 this year. How am I going to handle morning sickness when I couldn't stay on the bc for more than a week to regulate my cycle. I've since changed drs my period is on a long cycle yet again. I just want to know why. Last time I asked her to run test she gave me a prescription for provera no test or anything told me to come back if it didn't show up in a month. I have an appt with my new ob next week. She was there for my 2nd misscarriage but due to insurance problems I ha to stop going to her and had to go to the free hopefully she will finally answer the questions.

Michayla08 18 kids; California 989 posts
Feb 21st '13

I know exactly how you feel sweetie. I'm glad you switched doctors. I do think its important for them to run some tests and go from there. Btw 23 is not too young... That's how old I was when I had DD. Also, not every pregnancy results in morning sickness... I never had any with both.

I got pregnant with DD instantly. Then when we TTC again I had a loss... Then it took us 2 1/2 years to get pregnant with DS who was just born January 4th. I felt completely hopeless and discouraged. I finally came to terms with what is. I then got pregnant shortly after that. I am a Christian so for me personally God helped me through it all. If u need anybody to talk to feel free to pm me... It helps to vent. <3