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deleted Magnesium C, IL, United States 8499 posts
Feb 19th '13

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Momma Rawks 1 child; Iowa 7403 posts
Feb 19th '13

Does he pay rent there? Maybe she doesn't want him to move out 'cause she wants his money.



Either way, it's none of her business and I don't know why anyone would want to stick their nose into your relationship. If he really is that obnoxious to live with, she ought to be thanking you for getting him off of her hands.

allison erin 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Somewhere Over the Rainbow, Wa, United States 13428 posts
Feb 20th '13

She is either:
A. Telling the truth.
B. Stirring the pot.
C. Venting her frustrations.
D. Watching too much Jersey Shore.



Whatever it is, the only way to know for sure is to make your own unbiased decisions and experience the proposed living situation on your own. If you don't want to hear her rants, politely let her know.

human making in progress 2 kids; Port Orchard, Washington 7986 posts
Feb 20th '13

lmfao. I would just tell her if he is living under her roof, and he is paying rent, talk to him. its not your problem. she does understand that he is a grown man right??
If someone had problems with my husband and came to me about it, I would tell them to talk to my husband. he is a big boy, he can handle it.

~Raylan's Mama~ 1 child; Tennessee 2116 posts
Feb 20th '13

Jealous maybe? It might not have anything to do with you personally, she may just not like that you have a better relationship with him than she does. My SO's cousin did the same stuff to me (he lived with her mom). He doesn't help me much now but I'm a SAHM and he works his ass off so I don't expect him to.

Magnesium C, IL, United States 8499 posts
Feb 20th '13
Quoting Momma Rawks:" Does he pay rent there? Maybe she doesn't want him to move out 'cause she wants his money. Either way, ... [snip!] ... your relationship. If he really is that obnoxious to live with, she ought to be thanking you for getting him off of her hands."

He pays $100 a month for rent and the rest his income he uses to buy groceries for everyone..and I agree with you..he will be my problem when we move in together..

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Feb 20th '13

She's not his f**king mommy and neither are you. Stop entertaining this b***h and get him the hell out of that place.

Magnesium C, IL, United States 8499 posts
Feb 20th '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" She's not his f**king mommy and neither are you. Stop entertaining this b***h and get him the hell out of that place."

Believe me, I am working on it.. I will call my landlord in the morning and tell him I want the place I looked at today..he will get it set up and move-in ready hopefully by the end of next week..I am so anxious to get shit going..we've dealt with enough crap and I am ready to put my foot down........

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Feb 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Crazzzy Mel:</b>" Believe me, I am working on it.. I will call my landlord in the morning and tell him I want the place ... [snip!] ... end of next week..I am so anxious to get shit going..we've dealt with enough crap and I am ready to put my foot down........"</blockquote>




Seriously. Don't even entertain her anymore.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
Feb 20th '13

i find it really friggin weird he shares a room with her son..

Magnesium C, IL, United States 8499 posts
Feb 21st '13

Yesterday "Jay' wanted to know the address to the house because he has tomorrow off..I wouldn't tell him because something seemed a bit funny so I asked him if he could wait till I showed him the place because I couldn't remember the direct address..he tells me he is in town and wants to see the house..he was with "Teeah" and she wanted to see it too! she wanted to see the house but only to criticize it the whole time...... and that's all she did...f**k that b***h! ahh!

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Feb 21st '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Crazzzy Mel:</b>" Yesterday "Jay' wanted to know the address to the house because he has tomorrow off..I wouldn't tell ... [snip!] ... too! she wanted to see the house but only to criticize it the whole time...... and that's all she did...f**k that b***h! ahh!"</blockquote>




I think you need to start figuring out what's really going in between him and this girl.

AwkwardTurtle 34 kids; Syracuse, NY, United States 2085 posts
Feb 21st '13
Quoting Crazzzy Mel:" Yesterday "Jay' wanted to know the address to the house because he has tomorrow off..I wouldn't tell ... [snip!] ... too! she wanted to see the house but only to criticize it the whole time...... and that's all she did...f**k that b***h! ahh!"


That sounds like a really odd relationship the two of them have. Even more odd that he shares a room with her child. I would really think about weather moving him with him is a good idea. If you have to withhold an address from your fiancee because hes with his roommate the relationship sounds unhealthy all the way around.

~Raylan's Mama~ 1 child; Tennessee 2116 posts
Feb 21st '13

Yeah she sounds like she's jealous...you may want to look into why before making the step to move in. She could just be jealous of you're relationship in general. Or something could be going on that you don't know about.

Cherry Davis Due March 11 (boy); 2 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 83 posts
Feb 21st '13

I agree with everyone else I would definitely be looking into their relationship. If he isn't giving her much money but she is trying to get you to see what a "screw up" he is then there is a reason she wants him to stay at HER house. Two she has NO input on your house and shouldn't be calling YOU to complain about your man. I would ever so sweetly but seriously let her know to step the hell back, before the situation got out of hand!