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MomNextDoor 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8351 posts
Feb 15th '13
Quoting Minion:" And I'm getting fat and I have no common sense at all. :( I get called retarded a lot. "


And if you lost weight, he'd tell you that you were too skinny. He's the definition of an abuser.



Manipulate, isolate, control. That's how they do things. He probably tells you that if you wanted to move in with your family/friends they wouldn't have you for various reasons, too. If he doesn't now, he will later.

Minion 3 kids; ., GA, United States 21802 posts
Feb 15th '13
Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :" And if you lost weight, he'd tell you that you were too skinny. He's the definition of an abuser. ... [snip!] ... wanted to move in with your family/friends they wouldn't have you for various reasons, too. If he doesn't now, he will later. "


He hasn't said that, but if I stay at my dad's longer than a couple hours on weekends he'll get irritated. I out of the blue went to my mom's house in South Carolina with the kids one day while he was at work. He was not happy.



Cαtwomαn 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Gotham, DC, United States 15131 posts
Feb 15th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" He hasn't said that, but if I stay at my dad's longer than a couple hours on weekends he'll get irritated. ... [snip!] ... out of the blue went to my mom's house in South Carolina with the kids one day while he was at work. He was not happy. "</blockquote>




You don't think he'd be sympathetic to your situation?

Minion 3 kids; ., GA, United States 21802 posts
Feb 15th '13
Quoting Killingℬird(8w):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" He hasn't said that, but if I stay at my dad's ... [snip!] ... while he was at work. He was not happy. "</blockquote> You don't think he'd be sympathetic to your situation?"


My daddy? If he knew all of this he'd demand that I move in with him immediately and he'd be at my house with a horse trailer to haul my stuff in less than an hour.

MomNextDoor 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8351 posts
Feb 15th '13
Quoting Minion:" My daddy? If he knew all of this he'd demand that I move in with him immediately and he'd be at my house with a horse trailer to haul my stuff in less than an hour."


Call your daddy, sister. :D

KTSKDR 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Indiana 258 posts
Feb 15th '13

i almost started crying for you:(. Im so sorry hes being that way. i hope you have a good day tomorrow and i think you should just go ahead and take your daughter out anyways. hes not the boss of you and thats both of yours daughter. maybe you should try writing him a letter telling him exactly how you feel idk sometimes me and SO do that it helps when the other one is being unreasonable. good luck mama and please dont let him ruin your time with your daughter

Minion 3 kids; ., GA, United States 21802 posts
Feb 15th '13
Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :" Call your daddy, sister. :D"


I love my daddy. :) He would also probably shoot SO while he was here, though. He's very protective. He's out of state at the moment, though. North Carolina for a funeral. :(



Minion 3 kids; ., GA, United States 21802 posts
Feb 15th '13
Quoting KTSKDR:" i almost started crying for you:(. Im so sorry hes being that way. i hope you have a good day tomorrow ... [snip!] ... it helps when the other one is being unreasonable. good luck mama and please dont let him ruin your time with your daughter"


I plan on getting up early, giving DD a bath, and be out the door by 8 in the morning. If I'm gone before SO is up, oh well.

KTSKDR 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Indiana 258 posts
Feb 15th '13
Quoting Minion:" I plan on getting up early, giving DD a bath, and be out the door by 8 in the morning. If I'm gone before SO is up, oh well."


good i really hope things work out for you no matter what happens. its not fair for you to deal with that. have sooooo much fun with your daughter. and stay strong

Minion 3 kids; ., GA, United States 21802 posts
Feb 15th '13

Also, I forgot to mention that I am about 85% sure he's cheating on me. Again. He's been absorbed in his phone lately and getting texts at weird hours like late at night or early in the morning. He gets up at 7 every morning and a few minutes later he'd get a text. He told me it was the wrong number and he didn't know why they wouldn't stop texting. Then one day he didn't have to go in until late so he slept late. He didn't receive a text at the usual time, but got one not long after he got up.
His text messages go off all the time. He rarely texts anyone but me.

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19630 posts
Feb 15th '13
Quoting Minion:" Also, I forgot to mention that I am about 85% sure he's cheating on me. Again. He's been absorbed in ... [snip!] ... at the usual time, but got one not long after he got up. His text messages go off all the time. He rarely texts anyone but me."


I'd check his phone while he's asleep. :P Anyway, go to bed, woman so you can get up with DD in the morning.

KTSKDR 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Indiana 258 posts
Feb 15th '13
Quoting Minion:" Also, I forgot to mention that I am about 85% sure he's cheating on me. Again. He's been absorbed in ... [snip!] ... at the usual time, but got one not long after he got up. His text messages go off all the time. He rarely texts anyone but me."


uh yeah id say so. thats a little fishy. actually thats a lot fishy. ugh..

Minion 3 kids; ., GA, United States 21802 posts
Feb 15th '13
Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" I'd check his phone while he's asleep. :P Anyway, go to bed, woman so you can get up with DD in the morning."


I totally should. I'll regret staying up all night in the morning.

how khuntastik 4 kids; California 1273 posts
Feb 16th '13

i hope to god you leave that cruel son of a b***h. from what i see you deserve way better and i hope you let your daddy know what this child has done to you. best of luck.

G[PLM] Due February 18; 18 kids; California 1012 posts
Feb 16th '13

Do not and I repeat do not marry him. It will only get worse!!