I cheated because I also wanted to get out of an abusive relationship . I have no regrets because it led me to my wonderful husband ! :)
Because he cheated.
I thought it was "true love", tried to forgive him & work through it... One night my best guy friend walked to my house from the next town over, climbed through my window & read me a letter about how he truly felt about me. I was a sucker for the sweetness & one thing led to another. And yeah... I never planned to get revenge on anyone by cheating, but I knew what I was doing was wrong in the moment, so I don't know if I could say it "just happened".
I admitted it, after getting caught. A female friend told on me & I didn't think I could keep up a huge lie. I felt like such a p***e o* s**t admitting it. Even though he had convinced me it was my fault he had cheated on me.
I don't regret it because I might have actually married the guy I cheated on, had I not cheated... At the same time I regret it horribly because the guy I cheated on beat the shit out of my best friend in a parking lot in front of me. My friend wouldn't fight back because of me, he just took it. I tried so hard to stop it but I didn't think he was ever going to quit. I've never screamed so loud or felt so desperate in my life. I still feel so shitty about the whole mess & it was 9 years ago.
Because I felt neglected. However, he found out. We worked on our issues, he has stood by me for the past 2 years since it happened. I think about it every day and how I regret ever doing that to DH.
We both have flaws though.