Cast Your Vote:

    • Yes -- Votes: 24
    • No -- Votes: 80
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Feb 15th '13

You didnt think they were attractive?

Vindictive Due July 23; 50 kids; Switzerland 31001 posts
Feb 15th '13

Nope. Sure couldn't.

Sofie+#2 2 kids; Sheffield, So, United Kingdom 7799 posts
Feb 15th '13

I voted yes, but only to an extent.. It's hard.

Nut ღ Meg Beverly Hills, CA, United States 40262 posts
Feb 15th '13

Hm, yes and no.

brodyzmom Due December 18 (girl); 1 child; 3 angel babies; Huntsville, Alabama 2792 posts
Feb 15th '13

No, although I've been attracted to different people for different reasons.

tooodles 240 kids; Thailand 5075 posts
Feb 15th '13

Nope there needs to be some level of physical attraction for me. Its not all about looks by any means but I couldn't be with someone I found repulsive.

Arks Mama! ಠ_ಠ 1 child; Utah 2578 posts
Feb 15th '13

I'm assuming you mean appearance? I answered no.. I find someone attractive by their personality, you can be drop dead gorgeous but if you're an a*****e, you're not attractive to me and I wont find you...good..looking anymore, as your assholeness overrides the good looks.. KWIM?

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
Feb 15th '13

I say yes because when I first met DH I though he was cute but wasnt really attracted to him. That all changed once we had sex lmao! Now I think he's soo hot and I'm so attracted to him. I saw how great of a guy he was and how good he treated me, made me laugh and how hard he worked so I overlooked the attraction thing at first. It's weird how things can change.

Commander Shepard TTC since Aug 2016; 2 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 6447 posts
Feb 15th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting :*:CHRiSTiNe:*::</b>" Nope there needs to be some level of physical attraction for me. Its not all about looks by any means but I couldn't be with someone I found repulsive."</blockquote>


TheyCallMeMOMMY♥ 3 kids; Albuquerque, New Mexico 6825 posts
Feb 15th '13

I think yes, I know I thought SO was cute when I first meet him but totally not my type. As time went on I feel in love with his personality and everything else just feel into place. I find him more attractive now after knowing his in's and outs.

GTFOGTFO 6 kids; Italy 5611 posts
Feb 15th '13

I've dated guys who I initially found physically unattractive, but have oddly become more attractive to me because of their intelligence or humor.

I dated a SUPER nerd once who I didn't find particularly attractive, but he was so funny and so smart that I always wanted to jump his bones. bahaha.

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16901 posts
Feb 15th '13

no, my best friend is in love with me, hes the sweetest guy ever, and would do anything for me..he isnt bad looking but im just not attracted to him at all

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
Feb 15th '13

I need to be attracted to the person I'm with. When I first met my husband I didn't find him attractive at all. He wasn't the type I had previously dated and actually my college roomie made out with him one night (before we were ever together) and I made fun of her endlessly and called him "beer goggles guy". He isn't ugly by any means but I was use to dating very athletic clean cut guys. He was nerdy and skinny and had tattooed and pericings with a mohawk and beard and was politically active. His intelligence and humor became such a turn on as I got to know him, and he's no longer peirced or has his Mohawk but still tattooed (obviously)and bearded and his personality is exactly the same and I find him to be unbelievably sexy now. I don't think it would matter what he looked like at this point, he's my match.

I actually find men with beards and tattooed to be super sexy now, thanks to him. Haha!

So I voted that no I couldn't be with someone I didn't find attractive, but I think physical attraction is subjective and can be an acquired thing.

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
Feb 16th '13

f**k no! Call me shallow but if I'm looking at you everyday you better be as pretty as me.

Lol I'm jk!!! Honestly no though, most guys wouldn't dare a girl they weren't attracted to so neither would I. But I don't have ridiculously high standards

624582 Neilton, Washington 9312 posts
Feb 16th '13

Yes, but only because my brain gets warped when I'm in a relationship. I don't find the guys unattractive until after we split.

Nearly every one of my friends have told me at some point or another that I date guys that they'd never peg me to be attracted to. I'm definitely not known as shallow, lol. Even with DH I heard that a lot, but I found him attractive from the moment we met. He's the closest to my "type".