So my mom had me out ALL day yesterday, it was just supposed to be the morning/early afternoon... So needless to say getting home at 7 pm after hauling around my almost 10 month old, and being pregnant, I was dying. I literally couldn't sit, lay down, stand. I had stabbing pains at the top of my stomach, between my breasts, so bad I could hardly breathe and ended up puking from the pain. She had agreed to watch my son today so we could do some homework, since I was gone ALL DAY doing her shopping yesterday and couldn't. She gets here this afternoon and trips and starts cussing me out because she tripped on a blanket, the on wipes and a shoe. Uhh those, and a keyboard for the baby to play with and a dog toy are about all that on my floor and you're pissed at me because you can't see passed your fat belly (Yes she can't even see her feet or the floor) and because I have a load of dishes needing done. Seriously.. So. Sick. Of. Her. I wish we could have moved.
Did you tell her buh bye now?
<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:</b>" Did you tell her buh bye now?"</blockquote>
I've tried 3 times. I've told her she doesn't need to watch him we will manage and she can leave. But I guess she needs to feel like grand/mother of the year.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" So she offers to watch your child while you do housework i.e. clean....but then she complains about the ... [snip!] ... as she walks in? That would aggravate me too. OT but your due date was the same as mine last year but DS came on the 17th. :)"</blockquote>
Kinda yeah. So I could do homework uninterrupted. Cleaning didn't get done because I was gone all day yesterday and too sick after I came home and this morning to do it. I was going to while I was supposed to be doing classwork while she had the baby but apparently... yeah b***h fest already.
After an hour and both of us telling her she didn't have to watch him she went on about how she has to do it because I'd be mad at her. Then I told her that we would come over after I clean my house since you can't walk through my living room. She then proceeded to throw her lunch trash on my floor fling stuff around and storm out and slam my door and tell me to shut the hell up.
Here is my family room right now... sorry mobile so its a link.
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" After an hour and both of us telling her she didn't have to watch him she went on about how she has to ... [snip!] ... now... sorry mobile so its a link. http://i226.photobucket.com/albums/dd25/terragreenland/20130203_160216_zps231eb29e.jpg"
Ugh.. WTF is her deal?
<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" Um that looks 100% better than my living room floor. If you saw it right now you would die lol. At least she's gone. She sounds.......unhappy. "</blockquote>
I picked up a towel and her trash before I took it. But yeah she is unhappy to say the least.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:</b>" Ugh.. WTF is her deal?"</blockquote>
She is a massive c**t?
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:</b>" Ugh.. WTF is her deal?"</blockquote> She is a massive c**t?"
Wow.. I mean my mother and I aren't exactly the closest, but man.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" Oh I read it wrong, I thought you took a picture before she came over. I was like, what is she complaining about? There's almost nothing on the floor lol. "</blockquote>
That is what it looked like except a towel on the floor too.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:</b>" Wow.. I mean my mother and I aren't exactly the closest, but man."</blockquote>
Mine is very.... selfish. And unloving.
Quoting Supafly★:" She's either a neat freak or a drama queen. Or both. My stepmother is like this too. I can't stand her. "
Drama queen. She does no housework, my dad does it all. All she does is b***h about him spending money on soda, cigarettes, and folds laundry. He was at his same job for 25 years and is now retired, and she wants him to get a job so he isn't so pissy about her spending money. Yet she works just below full time for $8/hr.
I don't understand how you can continue having any contact with her. All I've gathered from what you've said about her is that she's unloving, has the maturity of a child, and is incredibly hurtful to an emotionally abusive point. Did she curse and tell like that in front of Rory, too? I know she's your blood, but she sounds unstable and horribly mean. I couldn't let someone like that stay in my life, and definitely not Liam's.
Not trying to make you feel bad for choosing to still see/talk to her, because it's not my life nor my position to make that decision - just wanna understand why you keep the relationship going when it seems so rotten.
Quoting kr.r:" I don't understand how you can continue having any contact with her. All I've gathered from what you've ... [snip!] ... life nor my position to make that decision - just wanna understand why you keep the relationship going when it seems so rotten."
Yeah he was there too :evil:
She lives 2 miles away so no avoiding her really. Especially because my father is great, he's a really wonderful man. I want him and Rory to have as much of a relationship as possible, so with that we have to see her too. It's one major reason we want to move. To get her out of our daily life and just see her a couple times a year.
But overall you have her pretty well pegged. You see her crap on facebook too I'm sure.