Quoting Kimber-lily:" When I first had my oldest I was 18, and posted on here that I didn't want her. Then someone started ... [snip!] ... http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about2023094.html Anyways, I kind of find it ironic.Thought I would share, some of her douche-ness"
Why don't you want anyone to look it up? Scared of both sides of the story coming out? And hiding the date won't change the difficulty of looking things up.
Quoting Kimber-lily:" Oh, I am sorry you had a kid at 16, and then 17... Wait, did I just judge you like you did me for having to put my baby down?.. My bad. Here: "
Why are you sorry? I'm not. I manage quite well actually. And I don't need the recognition of an "award" either. You we're dead ass wrong for what you did to that child and it's obvious you still haven't learned that because all you're doing is taking up for yourself as if you have a valid defense. I wouldn't even be so outraged if you would just admit you were wrong and in a bad place and just didn't know what to do. That's more respectable than bringing up someone else's tragedy (and I mean the child, not Andrea) to compare to your story for whatever purpose you had. This was wrong and you know it.
Quoting S*its & giggles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [31 WEEKS!]:</b>" She should've gotten help when ... [snip!] ... why are you depressed what do you want me to do about it? So I couldn't get help till I broke down and called his mom for help."
Okay - and what about Andrea? You think a mentally healthy mom does whatever she did? How does that differ? Perhaps her mental state was just a worsened version of what you felt to the point it did get out of control....
IDK if this should have been brought back up or not or whatever. I just know it makes me very very sad. At the time she wrote stuff, she could have even been a good mom & then hit issues with mental illness or drug abuse.
I just wish I could unread the whole thread because it just breaks your heart.
I know most people aren't exactly as you might be envisioning, but I would think most aren't abusing their kids either.
Quoting Rd.:" I didn't read all 5 pages, they're moving too fast lol... But I think this got blown out of proportion. ... [snip!] ... life, as many people do, but that doesn't put her anywhere near the level as the woman she's talking about. Yall are bitchez :D"
Quoting Brendan&Bethany'sMom:" LETTING A 3 MONTH OLD BABY CIO IS WRONG YOU f**king RETARD. YOU COULDN'T HANDLE HER CRYING FOR 2 DAYS? ... [snip!] ... that you have conceived a child let alone still have custody... unless you don't and are hiding things just like Andrea. "
I did this with my daughter.. she was colicky and I'm pretty sure I suffered from some form of PPD, even talking to my OB about it she thinks I had PPD. People do this all the time and then VENT because they are frustrated and at their wits end. Good for you, you didn't get that frustrated. People get frustrated and put their babies in their cribs to CIO for a few while they collect themselves so they don't do something worse.. Like shake their baby. SMFH.
<blockquote><b>Quoting justanothamotha:</b>" Okay - and what about Andrea? You think a mentally healthy mom does whatever she did? How does that differ? ... [snip!] ... heart. I know most people aren't exactly as you might be envisioning, but I would think most aren't abusing their kids either."</blockquote>
No I don't think andrea was mentally fit either. I wasn't arguing that Andrea was in the wrong or anything. I wasn't even talking about her at all. I was talking about OP and ppd
Quoting Piecey.:" has been crying constantly for 2 days straight. Nothing I fricken do is good enough for her anymore.. ... [snip!] ... it out by herself.. and figure out whatever the f**k it was that crawled up her ass. askldfjalkdfja;sljdkf Stupid Children!"
Sounds like a mom frustrated this a mom site and instead of moms jumping on eachother we should jump to help eachother this sounds like someone at the end of her rope ...
but OP you should have left this alone
the person who made that comment is a sick person, we all know that you did not need to further point that out
Quoting BubbleLush:" Sounds like a mom frustrated this a mom site and instead of moms jumping on eachother we should jump ... [snip!] ... left this alone the person who made that comment is a sick person, we all know that you did not need to further point that out"
That was my entire point.
Well this was weird.
<blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" Well this was weird. "</blockquote>
Quoting Kimber-lily:" <blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" Well this was weird. "</blockquote> What was?"
The whole thread.
You're no peach yourself sweetheart. You have admitted to saying horrible things about your children just to get a rise out of people. That's pretty sick too. Do you get off on reading the shit people bash you for? Leave the past in the past.
Quoting Devil's Advocate:" You're no peach yourself sweetheart. You have admitted to saying horrible things about your children ... [snip!] ... rise out of people. That's pretty sick too. Do you get off on reading the shit people bash you for? Leave the past in the past."
That is a ridiculous question. Lol.