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Cast Your Vote:

    • Have and liked it -- Votes: 12
    • Have and didnt like it -- Votes: 10
    • Havent but would try it -- Votes: 16
    • Wouldn't ever try it -- Votes: 35
Kimber's Mommy 1 child; South Carolina 4272 posts
Feb 1st '13

it's currently being considered, actually.

Lilia's Mama (TTC#2) TTC since Aug 2013; 1 child; Florida 3592 posts
Feb 1st '13

I would kick the girls ass for touching my husband. It would never work.

...lll 1 child; Rutland, Vermont 1400 posts
Feb 1st '13

im not going to vote because its complicated, if your in a relationship and sharing that person its a bad idea. i did it that way and we split not long after because he kept wanting them and i felt like he was going to start cheating and i lost trust in him. i also had one when the three were in no way a relationship... just all friends and it was great! my best friend had one with her bf and bestfriend and loved it! she set down lots of rules, the guest doesnt spend the night, oral only, no kissing ext... you have to do what you feel comfortable with.You have to make sure that if you do, all three of you know and respect the rules. You cant really jump into one and expect it to be like a porno. you cant hold it against him cause i dont know many guys that wouldnt want one. SO does and well.. tuff noogies.

smASHface 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Chicago, IL, United States 62008 posts
Feb 1st '13

Just not that confident I guess. Or I'm too jealous. I can't even think of my SO being with girls in the past. I used to not mind him talking about things he'd done but not now so there's no way I could do it.

Brock Obama 1 child; Spain 6372 posts
Feb 1st '13

Would like to try one. Not with the hubs though. That'd be awkward.

Lilia's Mama (TTC#2) TTC since Aug 2013; 1 child; Florida 3592 posts
Feb 1st '13

ewww.. im sorry the thought of my husband giving a chick oral and then kissing me the next day, makes me wanna barf

DJones62611 Due June 2; 2 kids; Southfield, Michigan 91 posts
Feb 1st '13

I would not couldn't imagine another woman with my husband. I don't even like to think of him with people before me.

624582 Neilton, Washington 9312 posts
Feb 1st '13
Quoting Derpy Hooves:" I offered SO one, but HE declined. I don't know whether I really want to but it's kind of like a checklist thing."


That's why DH and I had one, for my 'checklist', lol.



When we began dating I asked him if he ever had a t*******e, he has had several so for some reason I felt I needed to have one. DH was against it from the start, he couldn't even get hard during it, and I puked, lol.



So...we kind of had a t*******e, but it was enough for me to say 'been there, done that'.

⚓Misty⚓ 4 kids; Keenesburg, Colorado 7276 posts
Feb 1st '13

Hhhhhhhhhhhh

AA&L Due June 23; TTA since Mar 2012; 1 child; Florida 721 posts
Feb 1st '13

I answered wouldn't do it right away and then read some answers and it made me remember a period in my life that I've obviously tried to forget lol I have done it, several times actually - it was always 2 guys, never 2 girls. Back then I thought it was awesome, but I was in a very different period in my life back. I don't feel the same way now, it's almost embarrassing to think about my behavior back then ><

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
Feb 1st '13

The thought of DH with another woman boils my blood so I don't see that working out. I also would feel disgusting having sex with two guys at the same time. It'll make me feel like a wh**e.

Lilia's Mama (TTC#2) TTC since Aug 2013; 1 child; Florida 3592 posts
Feb 1st '13
Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):" The thought of DH with another woman boils my blood so I don't see that working out. I also would feel disgusting having sex with two guys at the same time. It'll make me feel like a wh**e. "

:!:

smASHface 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Chicago, IL, United States 62008 posts
Feb 1st '13

glad I'm not the only one who hates even thinking of the girls he was with before me. :lol:

Brock Obama 1 child; Spain 6372 posts
Feb 1st '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" I'd have one if I wasn't in a committed relationship."


This!

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
Feb 1st '13
Quoting M walls:" ..... Don't quote."


This also. I'd be wondering well, "was she better than me." "Is he still contacting her?" "Are they having sex behind my back now." Even though, man say I don't mind I'm sure the same questions would run through his head.



Maybe I'm over thinking it but if I were a man, I'd would have me questioning why my women decided to have a t*******e with another man and not a woman. Like do I not satisfy her enough, etc. lol.