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Im a crying mess. user banned
Jan 31st '13

Today I had my first session with a therapist and we did the usual gathering background information and talking about my issues. It made me realize I don't loved. :( I'm starting to feel loved by my mom she started spending time with me at night but I don't feel closer to my dad at all and I don't feel like he loves me. I just want to spend more time with my mom. My dad gotjealous that she's been spending more time with me. I know I'm an adult but I just want my mom. :( I don't know why I'm such a weepy baby right now.

Meℓony ♥ 1 child; Huntsville, AL, United States 3800 posts
Jan 31st '13

:( I'm sorry. I hope things get better. Hopefully he won't be so jealous. And you all can spend time together.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Jan 31st '13

You went to a therapist and left more upset and unhappy about more things, and feel like you have more problems?

♔ BαtMαɳ Due April 8; Gotham, DC, United States 90954 posts
Jan 31st '13

I'm sorry mama :( I am sure this is a stepping stone to things getting better!!

user banned 2 kids; North Pole, Alaska 12410 posts
Jan 31st '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" You went to a therapist and left more upset and unhappy about more things, and feel like you have more problems?"


I didnt realize it until I got home..My mom was rubbing my shoulders and I started crying.

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
Jan 31st '13

Yeah, therapy is rough. I say it's like having to rebreak a bone so it sets right. Or it ripping open wounds so they can heal correctly. I find it usually gets worse before it gets better because you are actually confronting issues instead of pretending they aren't there.



*hugs*

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Jan 31st '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" You went to a therapist and left more upset and unhappy about more things, and feel like you have more problems?"</blockquote>




About half of the time I leave the therapist's office worse off than I came in. In the long run though its better.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Jan 31st '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" You went to a therapist and left more upset and unhappy about more things, and feel like you have more problems?"


Thats how therapy works!




And heather... I know the feeling.. Well you KNOW I know the feeling lol. CAll me if you want <3

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Jan 31st '13

Continue being honest. It'll help in the long run :)

user banned 2 kids; North Pole, Alaska 12410 posts
Jan 31st '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Thats how therapy works! And heather... I know the feeling.. Well you KNOW I know the feeling lol. CAll me if you want <3 "


<3 I'll probably call you tonight.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Jan 31st '13
Quoting Sam Winchester:" <3 I'll probably call you tonight."


Ok. Ill be up.

user banned 2 kids; North Pole, Alaska 12410 posts
Jan 31st '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Ok. Ill be up. "


Okay.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Jan 31st '13
Quoting Sam Winchester:" Okay."


Ill be LoZ but yeah lol. :D