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    • has a point -- Votes: 44
    • has no point -- Votes: 66
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Jan 23rd '13

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Amanduuuh 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Texas 5315 posts
Jan 23rd '13

Has a point but shouldn't have said it.

.free. 2 kids; Arkansas 36040 posts
Jan 23rd '13

That is NOT something you say to someone who just MC'd. :cry: :?

LA REINA™ New York, NY, United States 16690 posts
Jan 23rd '13

She has a point but she definitely did not need to voice it, especially at that moment.

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
Jan 23rd '13

I do believe everything happens for a reason but that reason wouldn't be because she is only 18. More likely because the embryo has a genetic problem. I believe it's natures way.



I have had 4 miscarriages.

Boobo&bugs 2 kids; Simpsonville, South Carolina 8124 posts
Jan 23rd '13

I think they had a point. But the timing was horrible and it should never have been said aloud.

MomNextDoor 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8351 posts
Jan 23rd '13

As horribly insensitive and stupid as it is to say to someone, yes I think there is a point to what was said. The idiot probably was trying to cheer her up. Poor thing. :(

*~AngelEyes~* 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 11214 posts
Jan 23rd '13

Has a point, but it was very rude to say... shouldn't have been said most definitely.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
Jan 23rd '13

I think she was wrong. No one says a baby at 18 screws your life up. I got pregnant at 18, my daughter was born when I was 19. It delayed some things, yes, but I don't feel that my life was in any way screwed up by it.

bloopbloop♥ TTC since Sep 2016; 1 child; Illinois 14328 posts
status Jan 23rd '13

That is probably one of the most insensitive things someone can ever voice out. Especially while its happening. Disgusting.

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
Jan 23rd '13

No. Just because she's 18 doesnt mean she wouldnt be a wonderful mom. IMO I wouldnt be living life to the fullest if I didnt have kids. I never wanted to do anything besides have a family, and my son and DH and unborn son ARE my life. I am not missing out on anything.
Plus she was freaking miscarrying. That was the worst day of my life and I would have punched someone if they said that to me.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
Jan 23rd '13

I see where the guest was coming from. But it wasn't the right way to go about it. And the tech should have shut her damn mouth. That's bitchy and completely unprofessional.

katxo 18 kids; Florida 7270 posts
Jan 23rd '13
Quoting L☮J:" That is NOT something you say to someone who just MC'd. :cry: :?"


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...lll 1 child; Rutland, Vermont 1400 posts
Jan 23rd '13

Im not even going to vote. The people who said it clearly thought they had a point and have every right to think it but when she is in distress like that it was clearly rude and uncalled for to say it. Poor girl. I somewhat agree that she has her whole life ahead of her but that is not the time to try and pep talk her like that. I mean, I gave a baby up for adoption at birth when i was 20 because I wasnt ready. Im now 27 and have a baby girl. Im so glad I did what i did and im ready now. I new i wasnt ready then but i didnt know how not ready i was then until i had my daughter. I wouldnt have mentally been able to do the things i do now back then.

katxo 18 kids; Florida 7270 posts
Jan 23rd '13
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" No. Just because she's 18 doesnt mean she wouldnt be a wonderful mom. IMO I wouldnt be living life to ... [snip!] ... Plus she was freaking miscarrying. That was the worst day of my life and I would have punched someone if they said that to me."

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