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Jan 21st '13

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user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
Jan 21st '13

I decline requests all the time. I also delete people left right and centre.

Commander Shepard TTC since Aug 2016; 2 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 6447 posts
Jan 21st '13

I decline it. If they message me, I ignore it. If they're persistent, I block them.

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
Jan 21st '13

If someone tries to add me that I don't want to deal with, I just ignore their friend request. As long as you don't delete it they can't re add you and if they message you you have the option to block them. Then it's only awkward if you run into them irl lol.

loser mom 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, Norway, ,,, Europe 12277 posts
Jan 21st '13

I would ignore the message and friend request. :)

I believe you can change your account settings so that no one can "search" for you. But if they see you on a mutual friend's page, you're probably screwed.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Jan 21st '13
Quoting Commander Shepard:" I decline it. If they message me, I ignore it. If they're persistent, I block them."



This!!!

Fairy [God] Mother Due February 23 (girl); 17 kids; Stratham, New Hampshire 7085 posts
Jan 21st '13

I simply decline it, they will get the hint. As for messages, I have my settings set that only my friends can message me

meliaaa 2 kids; 2 angel babies; California 8333 posts
Jan 21st '13

In your settings you can make it to where people can't search your name, they can only see you or try to add you if you have mutual friends. You can also make it so that only your friends can send you messages.



Or you could completely block them, so then they won't see you, and you won't see them.

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
Jan 21st '13

I have the same problems regarding FB. I ignore them and I remove people who aren't contributing to my page positively. However I automatically accept the people I see everyday, because you know this is serious shit for some people lol

Tay L 1 child; St Paul, Minnesota 719 posts
Jan 21st '13

You can decline it. If you decline it, it now asks if you know them outside of fb and if you say no, it wont let them add you again. You can always ignore messages and delete them.

user banned Ohio 4193 posts
Jan 21st '13
Quoting loser mom:" I would ignore the message and friend request. :) I believe you can change your account settings so ... [snip!] ... account settings so that no one can "search" for you. But if they see you on a mutual friend's page, you're probably screwed."


Word

user banned Ohio 4193 posts
Jan 21st '13
Quoting Fairy [God] Mother
user banned Ohio 4193 posts
Jan 21st '13
Quoting Rd.:" I have the same problems regarding FB. I ignore them and I remove people who aren't contributing to my ... [snip!] ... positively. However I automatically accept the people I see everyday, because you know this is serious shit for some people lol"


I could see this being serious shit

*Mary Moon* 1 child; New York 3606 posts
Jan 21st '13

I decline them. If people didn't feel the need to be my friend in high school are we suddenly in this realm of friendship where they need the play by play of my life and vice versa? Nope.

user banned Ohio 4193 posts
Jan 21st '13
Quoting *Mary Moon*:" I decline them. If people didn't feel the need to be my friend in high school are we suddenly in this realm of friendship where they need the play by play of my life and vice versa? Nope."


Well that's the thing...