What the f**k do you do A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
Jan 19th '13

When you find out your SO of over a year is living a complete lie that you have believed all this time. MAJOR SHIT that he has perpetuated lies about?! Like... I don't even know what to do. Do you just block any and all contact? I'm lost right now. I feel sick :-(

A&Ms Mommy 2 kids; North Carolina 10863 posts
Jan 19th '13

Depends on what it is really & if we had kids together.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
Jan 19th '13


i'd just cry. yes, cut all contact.

Nikkie Beee Due January 29; 2 kids; Victorville, California 3968 posts
Jan 19th '13

This exact thing has happened to my sister 3 times in a row! Block all contact. It's always gonna be a lie to cover up all the lies you discovered. So not worth it.

*101314* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; x*x, OH, United States 4357 posts
Jan 19th '13

Yikes :/ idk momma I'm sorry you're going thru this tho :(

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
Jan 19th '13

depends what it is. But if you're that upset over it, probably just leave and cut off contact. I'm sorry :(

MommaNoodle 2 kids; Pennsylvania 13115 posts
Jan 19th '13
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" :( i'd just cry. yes, cut all contact."

same here.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
Jan 19th '13

As long as you don't have a kid together block all calls and move on. I hope you know none of what is going on is your fault. Some people are able to live double lives/lie extremely well. At least you found out now and not after you we're married or had a child.

Mommy2Kay Due April 20; 1 child; Florida 4303 posts
Jan 19th '13

Yup! I would, it has happened to me before. My ex told me was in the Navy for 5 years, turns out he was in jail the whole time :?

XxWhite_RosexX 1 child; United Kingdom 1975 posts
Jan 19th '13

im so sorry sweetie if you need to talk you can pm me x

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 3 kids; Colorado 21082 posts
Jan 19th '13

definitely block all contact & move on. No way should you give the guy another chance, ever.

A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
Jan 19th '13

No kids together. I feel horrible right now. I can't even believe it. Too many lies to even list them all. But it's more one BIG HUGE lie that he had to tell millions of other lies to cover up.

Turtley Mikey Due October 31; 2 kids; California 50611 posts
Jan 19th '13

It would really depend, but most likely yes to everything you've asked.

melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5425 posts
Jan 19th '13
Quoting 3+1=4:" Depends on what it is really & if we had kids together."


DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 8830 posts
Jan 19th '13

I've had 2 men get other girls preg while with me...

I even threw 1 a shower, because she lived with us after she came out that she was preg :( it was so weird...

Depending on what it was, I would try to fix things, but if its all a big lie I would cut contact at least for a while to get my head together...