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Elle With FOUR! 4 kids; Wichita, KS, United States 18964 posts
Jan 3rd '13
Quoting Brodys Mamabear:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Elle With Three &1/2:</b>" lmfao...the governement prevents ... [snip!] ... advice on circ when all moms should he well informed before they pick. Which is my opinion not necessarily right nor wrong."


Well yeah, cause calling them judgmental f**ks will TOTALLY show them that you can voice your opinions in a mature *MANNER*.

Amy mommy of 4 Due June 27 (boy); 51 kids; Arlington, Washington 361 posts
Jan 3rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brodys Mamabear:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" Unfortunately, the admins make and enforce ... [snip!] ... If someone asks why I choose to not circ I will explain but if they ask me to stop cuz they are uncomfortable I will stop."</blockquote>




I don't believe in circs either unless it's a religious belief. I hate how society made uncIrcimzied p***s's gross or all that. I p***s is a p***s. They all look the same hard to me... it's like giving a poor baby boy all that pain just to fit in. News flag more kids are uncircumcised now. Its gonna be the norm. I use to have to assist docs with their circs and I would cry with those poor babies. This is all jmo I'm not going to judge people who do it. I just seen what those baby's go through. It opened My eyes.

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
Jan 3rd '13

This thread gave me a migraine.

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 18492 posts
Jan 3rd '13

It sounds like circumcision topics have started a lot of drama in the past and the admin has ruled that topic to be not allowed simply to avoid drama. Let it go.

Mommy of 4 :) 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Edmonton, Alberta 2170 posts
Jan 3rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Elle With Three &1/2:</b>" Well yeah, cause calling them judgmental f**ks will TOTALLY show them that you can voice your opinions in a mature *MANNER*."</blockquote>




I ment in my head not on their wall LOL

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 18492 posts
Jan 3rd '13

Also, Mara is an exceptionally liberal forum admin. But there are still some things you just don't say on BG and you can be banned for them.

Mommy of 4 :) 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Edmonton, Alberta 2170 posts
Jan 3rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amelia Margaret:</b>" Also, Mara is an exceptionally liberal forum admin. But there are still some things you just don't say on BG and you can be banned for them."</blockquote>




Yes but will she banned people for stating their opinions? I don't think mara would

Elle With FOUR! 4 kids; Wichita, KS, United States 18964 posts
Jan 3rd '13
Quoting Brodys Mamabear:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Amelia Margaret:</b>" Also, Mara is an exceptionally liberal ... [snip!] ... be banned for them."</blockquote> Yes but will she banned people for stating their opinions? I don't think mara would"


Because flexibility works for BG. It doesn't, however, deal for every site - especially a site geared towards teens who, like it or not, are more likely to act irresponsibly than adults are.

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 18492 posts
Jan 3rd '13
Quoting Brodys Mamabear:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Amelia Margaret:</b>" Also, Mara is an exceptionally liberal ... [snip!] ... be banned for them."</blockquote> Yes but will she banned people for stating their opinions? I don't think mara would"


Like I said, she is exceptionally liberal. I've been involved with many online forum communities throughout the years and it is uncommon for there to be no taboos. Most forums have rules regarding what can and can't be posted.

Mommy of 4 :) 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Edmonton, Alberta 2170 posts
Jan 3rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kennedi's Momma:</b>" I don't let personal feelings get involved. As long as no one is being hateful. Like if someone says ... [snip!] ... down to it, it isn't your child to make decisions for. I mean your as in a general sort of term. You can PM me if you'd like."</blockquote>




What really pisses me off though and I known you only used it as an exaple but exactly what you said two moms bitchong well what about the moms who do circ that call our sons "dirty, and not accepted by God" I never see anyone get in shit for attacking an intactivist only moks who express their opinuons about not doing it. Same with breastfeed. Moms who breast feed get attacked more for bfing in public instead of one who formula feeds. I think people need to look at both sides before deciding which one is wrong and out of line

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 18492 posts
Jan 3rd '13
Quoting Brodys Mamabear:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kennedi's Momma:</b>" I don't let personal feelings get involved. ... [snip!] ... instead of one who formula feeds. I think people need to look at both sides before deciding which one is wrong and out of line"


That's the culture of pretty much every motherhood forum.

Mommy of 4 :) 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Edmonton, Alberta 2170 posts
Jan 4th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kennedi's Momma:</b>" I wouldn't let that fly either. Because that is just as mean and hateful. I don't see that end as much. ... [snip!] ... spout off and be hateful. I wish people could be a little nicer. There's no sense in being mean. Especially on the internet."</blockquote>



I got told my son is going to resent me because I didn't get my boy done. I find mothers who are not informed to be the annoying ones who will fight about this stuff. I hate it when people accuse me of being to poor to get it done. Yea I was poor but even if I had the money I wouldn't have because I belieVe different. I did research but that won't make anyone think I'm a good mom if someone made up there mind. Some guy started talking about spanking that I won't disipline my son but I will spank while having sex which pissed me off. No I won't spank since I was a victim of child abuse from the age of 2. If your well informed your not closed minded and won't attack someone for what they dI'd with there child. I won't bash a mom ever for it.



I am passing out my head hurts thanks for listening to my rant ladies