Quoting AubriesMom:" im so sick of living like this! im 2 secs from living my SO. i cant do it. i still love him and i wish ... [snip!] ... up in this. im heartbroken and yet angry sorry for typos i have nobody to talk to about this so wanted to get it off my chest"
I would make him leave now if I were you. If it got physical u should have called the cops. I am sorry u are going through that.
If he "got physical" with you at all, call the cops. They will escort his piece-of-shit ass out of YOUR house and he will not be allowed to contact you until the charges are decided upon and executed. Abuse in any form is NEVER okay and you, as a mother, cannot let your daughter witness or potentially be a part of that- no matter who her father is. This is not going to stop between you and him, and it has great potential to get worse.
Please, please call the police and have him taken away so you and your daughter are not in any sort of danger any more.
Quoting AubriesMom:" it wasn't bad...he has a scratch from me but i have no marks. i wasn't punched or slapped just stupid ... [snip!] ... n him hate each other sometimes.its so stupid...the argument shouldn't of happened and it defiantly shouldn't of gone that far "
The level of the physicalness doesn't matter! He had the intent and even if you defended yourself (which is sounds like you did) it WILL get worse and you are in danger, let alone that your CHILD is possibly in danger from his anger issues. He needs therapy and you need a paper trail in case something really bad goes down.
Quoting Satin&Roses +1:" The level of the physicalness doesn't matter! He had the intent and even if you defended yourself (which ... [snip!] ... possibly in danger from his anger issues. He needs therapy and you need a paper trail in case something really bad goes down."
I agree with This 100%
Quoting AubriesMom:" its 1a.m here, he still wont stop talking about it and this all went down at like 7 p.m. its raining ... [snip!] ... our mind and we need to go our separate ways and he says im living in a fantasy world and sticking my head in the sand. wtf "
Call. The. Police.
They will come out, no matter the time or weather, and remove HIM from YOUR residence where YOU live with your child. Time frame, weather, time of day it happened, whether or not he's apologized... None of it matters. Get yourself and your child some protection.