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Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting Jennybananna:" 16 and in the UK she might not even be in school anymore."

Oh, that must be nice :D

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Dec 11th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jessica-Jade:</b>" I am in the uk so no planned parenthood. The reason i can't go is because at the moment i live with ... [snip!] ... whilst not pregnant and if anyone here has ever got pregnant on the implant or had periods/negative tests during pregnancy."</blockquote>



If you can get out to have sex you can get out to go to the doctors

MommaAngel 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Killeen, TX, United States 385 posts
Dec 11th '12

this is my first pregnancy and to me when my baby moves right now it feels like butterflies or the flutters like you mentioned you said you feel. but every woman says it feels diffrent to them. you defanintly NEED prenatal care at this point if you are. anyone can get a false negative in a home urine test due to a low pregnancy hormone count but if you are it will show up in a blood test only a planned parenthood or hospital can give you. If you feel you cant go to your parents for help you need to go to some adult you trust that can. for your health safety and your possible babies health safety as well. Good luck!!!

Jessica-Jade Due December 9; Japan 9 posts
Dec 11th '12

Have already been to the doctors whilst here and she refused to let me go alone she came with me. Due home next week, would be able to go to the doctors whilst at home as my mum is less strict so just want to know chances etc before i go doctors. Not in school at the moment, starting college when i go back home.

Bettinas Due August 14; 2 kids; Australia 2223 posts
Dec 11th '12

If you're coughing up phlegm, just tell her that you have a cough and want to get it sorted out. Or tell her about the headaches and just say that you want to see about them because they're worrying you. I'm sure that she will want you to be in good health and take you to a doctor.

I♡C&R. 2 kids; Collinsville, IL, United States 25562 posts
Dec 11th '12

You will be OK if you're going to go home next week. I'd just go right away when you get home.

MommaAngel 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Killeen, TX, United States 385 posts
Dec 11th '12

If you choose to wait till you get home to find a way to get to a doctor then when you get home you need to go see the doctor AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!!!

Jessica-Jade Due December 9; Japan 9 posts
Dec 11th '12

Thanks for everyones replies. And as i explained i believe im 14 weeks pregnant at the least. I haven't had sex in 2 months as ive been here for 2 months, haven't even seen my boyfriend in 2 months so can't get out even for sex.

♔ BαtMαɳ Due April 8; Gotham, DC, United States 91106 posts
status Dec 11th '12
Quoting Jessica-Jade:" Thanks for everyones replies. And as i explained i believe im 14 weeks pregnant at the least. I haven't ... [snip!] ... had sex in 2 months as ive been here for 2 months, haven't even seen my boyfriend in 2 months so can't get out even for sex."


Well good luck to you.

ᗋuτumnαl ~, OO, United States 76532 posts
Dec 11th '12

It would probably be a good idea to leave him if he's that controlling. :?



Find a way to get yourself to a clinic or hospital to be tested.

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
Dec 11th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting sταrry skies:</b>" It would probably be a good idea to leave him if he's that controlling. :? Find a way to get yourself to a clinic or hospital to be tested."</blockquote>




It's her grandma not the boyfriend

ᗋuτumnαl ~, OO, United States 76532 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting Jennybananna:" <blockquote><b>Quoting sταrry skies:</b>" It would probably be a good idea ... [snip!] ... :? Find a way to get yourself to a clinic or hospital to be tested."</blockquote> It's her grandma not the boyfriend"


Ah. My bad.



Either way, you still need to find a way to get yourself tested.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5419 posts
Dec 11th '12

I wouldn't worry too much, my friend got the implant when she was 16 and actually experienced every single thing you have said and wasn't pregnant. Everyone was convinced she was, even her Mother, she had the hard swollen pregnant looking belly and everything but it turned out it was just the implant seriously messing with her body. That being said you should still get to a Dr. and get blood test done. Also I'm from the UK and at 16 you're legally an adult, there is no way your Gran can force herself in the Dr. Office. If she wants to come along you tell her fine, then when the Dr. calls you in you just politely say "You can wait here, I'm going in by myself." They will not allow her to come in with you. I think it's high time you tell your Grandmother you may be living under her roof but as a 16 year old adult you are perfectly capable of attending a Dr. appointment on your own. Medically it really isn't any of her business why you're attending a Dr. anyway, wether it be for the flu or a suspected pregnancy. Also again your 16 years old, the legal age of consent, a legal adult here so wether or not you're having sex and who with is not her business either.

Katelyn TTC♥ TTC since Jan 2013; 1 child; Nauvoo, Alabama 1482 posts
Dec 11th '12

I had crazy symptoms like that turns out it was just my BC! Go to doc just to be sure!

AaliyahVal'sMommy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Cleveland, Ohio 1364 posts
Dec 12th '12
Quoting I♡C.:" Just go to Planned Parenthood or something. You NEED to get blood work done to see if for sure you are ... [snip!] ... to see if for sure you are or not. And if need-be a doctor can run an ultra sound if Planned Parenthood thinks it needs done."

Planned parenthood only does urine tests.