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** 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Conway, Arkansas 3579 posts
Dec 11th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:</b>" I'm against it as well. I'm just ... [snip!] ... like this."</blockquote> And in return, her parents can choose not to support her kid. Which OP needs to think about."</blockquote>




Yes..but to coerce her into abortion isn't being a very.good parent either...Iif my baby were to get preggo at 13 I would want her to abort, but I wouldn't ridicule her for not wanting to..I would then want her to adopt..but again I wouldn't ridicule for her not wanting to...when it comes to the big picture...I would not be done raising her yet..therefore to do my job as a parent I would still parent although she would be working her ads of to make life as easy as possible for me considering....

vagina. 3 kids; Titz, No, Germany 30934 posts
Dec 11th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:</b>" It's true that some people can have kids young and still make it in life... but it's honestly very, ... [snip!] ... to stay on her feet... but I'm sure she must have had a wonderful support system. It appears that, sadly, OP has no support. "</blockquote>



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I♥RYLEIGH Due March 3; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Windsor, Ontario 10504 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting Monika Dawn:" The fatc of the matter remains as such; At 13 you live in THEIR house. So they can choose to not support ... [snip!] ... the abortion completely, pick adoption. At least then you have a say in not having your child instead of a county-run service."


You're only 4 years older than this little girl.............. lol you're not even an adult yourself

Youngteenmom12 Due July 30; Japan 23 posts
Dec 11th '12

I'm more comfortable with an abortion I know that's what my parents want but I don't feel ok with it like I do with being a parent adoption I really don't want day to day would I see him or her it's the same reason I don't want an abortion and I'm not telling about my bf because he's a lot older

** 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Conway, Arkansas 3579 posts
Dec 11th '12

Op you just have to think of every option hun...you don't have to do anything you don't want but think about things like this....your parents statistically will most likely take custody if you chose to parent and no matter how nurturing you are..you can't provide for it so they would most likely grant it...also it will kill your childhood...darling I was almost 18 when I had mine... I have lost put on so many things in life...ajd where I do not regret my babies..I do regret my age when I had them...because they could have been so much better off if I would have adopted out...really...I am just getting my life back on track..finally starting school again, I have good jobs, I'm married now he has a good job...and we are STILL in poverty . I am 23 now, and still really young to be having babies...please if you are wanting to avoid abortion..open adoption could be a wonderful expireience! You will get to watch your baby grow up with everything you've ever wanted him her to have and then some.. it will be loved by so many people and raised put of poverty and struggles. Just think about that..think about the type of nursery you would give it and stuff..and then think about it having it. Adoption isn't an easy way out, but its one of the most selfless loving amazing acts that anyone could ever do for their child!

mehhhhh Minnesota 368 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:" You're only 4 years older than this little girl.............. lol you're not even an adult yourself"


4 years can make a world of difference.
Not to mention I have a very wonderful support team.
And the ability to support myself.



My age has nothing to do with a 13 year old with no support wanting to keep a baby.

I♥RYLEIGH Due March 3; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Windsor, Ontario 10504 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:</b>" You're only 4 years older than ... [snip!] ... little girl.............. lol you're not even an adult yourself"</blockquote> 17 and 13 is a huge difference dear."


Meeeeeeh not really.

I♥RYLEIGH Due March 3; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Windsor, Ontario 10504 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting Monika Dawn:" 4 years can make a world of difference. Not to mention I have a very wonderful support team. And ... [snip!] ... team. And the ability to support myself. My age has nothing to do with a 13 year old with no support wanting to keep a baby."


You're still 17 years old.

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:" You're still 17 years old. "

The Father of her child is in the picture, he can work, she can work and she has a Family support system. Not to mention is almost done or is done with School. There's a huge difference. The OP isn't even in High School yet.

mehhhhh Minnesota 368 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:" You're still 17 years old. "


Point being?
I feel you're just bored now. There's really no reason to call me out for my age when I'm neither a; asking for advice or b; doing anything to prove I'm not perfectly capable of parenting.

Bad Things Blacksburg, SC, United States 21226 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:" Meeeeeeh not really. "


Yes, really.



At 17 year old doesnt have to worry about child labor laws, can drive, and graduate high school, and in a year buy a house. Their minds and bodies are also a lot more developed than a 13 year old.

mehhhhh Minnesota 368 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" The Father of her child is in the picture, he can work, she can work and she has a Family support system. ... [snip!] ... system. Not to mention is almost done or is done with School. There's a huge difference. The OP isn't even in High School yet."


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This.

see ya stalkers 1 child; 1 angel baby; Georgia 603 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting Youngteenmom12:" I'm more comfortable with an abortion I know that's what my parents want but I don't feel ok with it ... [snip!] ... would I see him or her it's the same reason I don't want an abortion and I'm not telling about my bf because he's a lot older"


are you saying that you are more comfortable with adoption or abortion? im confused

.t a y l o r. 3 kids; Indiana 3847 posts
Dec 11th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:</b>" You're only 4 years older than this little girl.............. lol you're not even an adult yourself"</blockquote>




I had a great support system at 17. I was able to maintain my job and school as well as escape and get past an abusive relationship. I had a license and a car.
Sure, I needed help from my parents as far as babysitting and it wasn't ideal, but a 17 year old at least has the capability of providing for their baby whereas a 13 year old doesn't.

** 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Conway, Arkansas 3579 posts
Dec 11th '12

O.o how much older is he?