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Bad Things Blacksburg, SC, United States 21226 posts
Dec 11th '12
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vagina. 3 kids; Titz, No, Germany 30934 posts
Dec 11th '12

In the end its your choice..noone can force you to.have an abortion..however there isn't a way for you to support your baby. you can't work..you still have atleast 4-5 years left of high.school..you can't drive yet. so you would be depending on your parents for everything.

AA&L Due June 23; TTA since Mar 2012; 1 child; Florida 721 posts
Dec 11th '12

It sounds like you have a very hard decision ahead of you, but it is your decision and yours alone. I do think that you should consider what kind of life you can provide your child with, realistically, and how it's going to change not only your life but the life of your whole family and his. I wish you the very best in whatever decision you make.

I♥RYLEIGH Due March 3; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Windsor, Ontario 10504 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" Uh, yeah. She is a minor. She needs to listen to her parents. She is 13 FFS. "


Not in situations like this though. I'm totally against her keeping this child but in all reality her parents cannot force her to go through with an abortion or an adoption.

Lilly and Laya's momma 3 kids; 4 angel babies; Chesapeake, Virginia 8559 posts
Dec 11th '12

Yes its possible as I don't believe age determines what type of parent you will be.

*Bobo&Hooey'sMommy* 34 kids; Springfield, Oregon 23585 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting Back to Noob Status:" I can't tell you what to do, but here is what I suggest: I would seriously consideran open adoption. ... [snip!] ... an open adoption. You could still get updates and yearly visits with your child AND get to be a kid. Focus on your education."


this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

♔ BαtMαɳ Due April 8; Gotham, DC, United States 90015 posts
status Dec 11th '12
Quoting Back to Noob Status:" I can't tell you what to do, but here is what I suggest: I would seriously consideran open adoption. ... [snip!] ... an open adoption. You could still get updates and yearly visits with your child AND get to be a kid. Focus on your education."


All of this.

Puff the Magic Dragon! 15 kids; Ontario 14235 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" Uh, yeah. She is a minor. She needs to listen to her parents. She is 13 FFS. "


yes, but they can only guide. They can not force. They do not 'OWN' her.
They parent/guide/support her.

I♥RYLEIGH Due March 3; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Windsor, Ontario 10504 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting Lillybutt's momma:" Yes its possible as I don't believe age determines what type of parent you will be. "


You believe a 13 year old child could parent another child?

Lilly and Laya's momma 3 kids; 4 angel babies; Chesapeake, Virginia 8559 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" Uh, yeah. She is a minor. She needs to listen to her parents. She is 13 FFS. "


No its her body no one can force an abortion:wink:

mehhhhh Minnesota 368 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting Lillybutt's momma:" Yes its possible as I don't believe age determines what type of parent you will be. "



If they're too young to get a job or even provide transportation for themselves, then it absolutely determines it.

Good Queen Bess Due December 27; 2 kids; Ontario 49564 posts
Dec 11th '12

Honestly, it will be almost impossible for you to parent at your age.



If you are uncomfortable with abortion, you should look into adoption.

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting Lillybutt's momma:" Yes its possible as I don't believe age determines what type of parent you will be. "

It does in the sense that she cannot financially provide for that child. She just can't. So yes, it does determine what type of Parent one can be in that aspect.

Bad Things Blacksburg, SC, United States 21226 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:" Not in situations like this though. I'm totally against her keeping this child but in all reality her parents cannot force her to go through with an abortion or an adoption."


So they don't get a say in having to raise another child?



They should'nt hold her down, no. But, she needs to listen to them and not be blinded by the illusion that she can take care of a child. She can't. They will have to. If they don't want to raise another baby, then it is their right to want her to abort.

laurenmik 3 kids; Aurora, Colorado 7225 posts
Dec 11th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Monika Dawn:</b>" If they're too young to get a job or even provide transportation for themselves, then it absolutely determines it."</blockquote>




This.