Quoting jo-jo:" Racism (in my opinion) is interpreted differently by each individual so what I might see as racist others ... [snip!] ... realistically though I am sure that there are people out there that would firstly blame race rather than there actions kwim?"
I do know what you mean!
I was not raised to see color. I treat everyone with respect regardless of their race. I live in and grew up in Alabama. Which people perceive as a racist state due to it history. A lot of people assume I am racist because I am white and live in Alabama. Which couldn't be further from the truth.