Working it out MomDIA TTC since May 2008; 81 kids; Warminster, Pennsylvania 3812 posts
Dec 4th '12

My sons father and I called it quits months ago, we had a rough patch for a while where we didn't get along at all. Now we are going to work things out, we have been trying for about a month now. We decided that I would move back home and we would see how it works. I am just worried it won't work again, On top of it we are talking marriage. :( I don't want to rush things, but we have been together for almost 8 years. Should I take more time or am I just thinking too much into it?

Pointless I know. Just needed to vent.

marsupialjoe TTC since Jun 2003; 3 kids; Vancouver, Bc, Canada 454 posts
Dec 4th '12

Nothing wrong with trying to work it out. But work it out before you start talking marriage. Divorces are costly and time consuming.. I've been going through mine since August 2011 and still haven't had it go through the courts completely.

JeNnAs MoMoM 2 kids; Pennsylvania 3090 posts
Dec 4th '12

I think after 8 years, marriage wouldn't really be rushing anything. However, if you don't think he's the one then don't do it. You seemed miserable a few months back. I hope things work ou for you! <3