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PhoenixLilith Due March 26; Palm Bay, Florida 14 posts
Dec 1st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Not judging and really don't have time to get into anything but how at 14 are you able to provide for your baby?"</blockquote>

October2011 Due August 5; 2 kids; Pennsylvania 8748 posts
Dec 1st '12
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Not judging and really don't have time to get into anything but how at 14 are you able to provide for your baby?"


yes. i'd love to know that as well..and babysitting family doesnt count.



PhoenixLilith Due March 26; Palm Bay, Florida 14 posts
Dec 1st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Not judging and really don't have time to get into anything but how at 14 are you able to provide for your baby?"</blockquote>




I have a very wealthy family, and the father of my child makes a God amount of money.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Dec 1st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" yes. i'd love to know that as well..and babysitting family doesnt count. "</blockquote>




Yep

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Dec 1st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" ... [snip!] ... for your baby?"</blockquote> I have a very wealthy family, and the father of my child makes a God amount of money."</blockquote>




Family doesn't count. And what if he leaves? I'm assuming he's 15-17 if he's not then you have bigger issues than money

October2011 Due August 5; 2 kids; Pennsylvania 8748 posts
Dec 1st '12
Quoting PhoenixLilith:" <blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" ... [snip!] ... for your baby?"</blockquote> I have a very wealthy family, and the father of my child makes a God amount of money."


being wealthy has nothing to do with RAISING a child. sure money makes things easier...I think she asked how YOU know what its like to raise a child.

PhoenixLilith Due March 26; Palm Bay, Florida 14 posts
Dec 1st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" yes. i'd love to know that as well..and babysitting family doesnt count. "</blockquote>



Ha, should i write my whole life story or something? I'm not trying to start something but I'm just trying to say, some peope actually do make it.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Dec 1st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" yes. i'd love to know that as well..and ... [snip!] ... my whole life story or something? I'm not trying to start something but I'm just trying to say, some peope actually do make it."</blockquote>



YOU put it out there you are 14 and pregnant. I'm just honestly curious how you are going to provide for a baby. To rely on your parents and baby's father isn't a good plan to be honest. What if they stop supporting your baby but continue to support you? There's nothing illegal about that. What if he runs off? Like I said I'm assuming he is your age but younger than 17. And there's bigger issues if he is older. Such as he could get arrested.

October2011 Due August 5; 2 kids; Pennsylvania 8748 posts
Dec 1st '12
Quoting PhoenixLilith:" <blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" yes. i'd love to know that as well..and ... [snip!] ... my whole life story or something? I'm not trying to start something but I'm just trying to say, some peope actually do make it."



I never said you werent gonna make it. I believe you will...because you are a mom now..you have no choice really. You stated that you know what its like to raise a child. and i beg to differ. To be soley responsible for the entire wellbeing of an individual 24/7..making all their life's decisions...i dont think so.

PhoenixLilith Due March 26; Palm Bay, Florida 14 posts
Dec 1st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Family doesn't count. And what if he leaves? I'm assuming he's 15-17 if he's not then you have bigger issues than money"</blockquote>




We already talked things out and what would happen if we didn't make it. I don't live in a fantasy land and I'm definitely not dumb. No matter how old someone Is, they will never know how to perfectly raise a child. I'm not stupid, I'm graduating high school when i turn 16, since I'm in accelerated classes. its not like I'm dropping out.
I know its going to be a hard process but i know for sure I'm going to make it through. I'm not going to sit here and try to explain to you how I'm mature enough to understand and know what's going on and how serious this is.
Goodnight :)

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Dec 1st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" ... [snip!] ... and try to explain to you how I'm mature enough to understand and know what's going on and how serious this is. Goodnight :)"</blockquote>



I WANT to believe you because there are people that have done it but alot don't. I just hope you are prepared for alot of things.

PhoenixLilith Due March 26; Palm Bay, Florida 14 posts
Dec 1st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" ... [snip!] ... said I'm assuming he is your age but younger than 17. And there's bigger issues if he is older. Such as he could get arrested."</blockquote>



In Florida its legal for us to be together. Our case got dropped, but honestly I'm so tirec. thanks, but i already know all of the risks of me being pregnant
Night :)

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Dec 1st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Our case got dropped, but honestly I'm so tirec. thanks, but i already know all of the risks of me being pregnant Night :)"</blockquote>



Ok I wish you luck

Noahs Mommy ❤ 16 kids; Arizona 628 posts
Dec 1st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" ... [snip!] ... and try to explain to you how I'm mature enough to understand and know what's going on and how serious this is. Goodnight :)"</blockquote>




Theres nothing too be proud of cause ur 14 and pregnant.
But hey, its life everything happens for a reason. Every baby deserves to live
Apply for cash asst. And food stamps :)
Im 16 and pregnant, im not proud of it. But im making it the best out of it <3
I work at paradise bakery and ima be doing beauty classes after my little man is born =] Im here if u need to talk!