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NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" If you really want to go for it then nobody can change your mind. Just keep it a secret for a LONG time. ... [snip!] ... in front of them and do not move in together!! This is a situation that needs to be taken very carefully and cautiously."


Carefully it has and will be taken care of with little steps just to make sure its something we really want!!

NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting MyPurrrtyBabies:" Sounds like your mind is made up ........so, Good Luck with that! "


:)

notafullbagofsugar Due February 29 (twins); 4 kids; 2 angel babies; stoke, uk, United Kingdom 5364 posts
Nov 26th '12

personally i could never do that, but i do and have seen it from the other side and i can work, my grandad married two sisters (not at the same time), the first sister he had 4 children with, one of which is my dad and two died (one SIDS and one was hit by a car at 3), because of these losses my nan ran away and left the children with my grandad, he couldnt cope on his own so my great aunty stepped in to help out, through their grief they found comfort in each other and went on to marry and have 3 children of their own, i class these as my uncles even though they are also my dads cousins, they have been married 30 plus years..so yes it can work and people should eventually come round

NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting T + H = My World:" personally i could never do that, but i do and have seen it from the other side and i can work, my grandad ... [snip!] ... are also my dads cousins, they have been married 30 plus years..so yes it can work and people should eventually come round "


So true thats kind of how it started he saw that my ex was doing nothing for his kids like a real father should and saw everything he was putting me through and just wanted to be there for me and the babies but more and more we are growing among eachother and feelings are building up for one another!

NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" You dont need opinions, your mind is already made up."


Never to late to ask rather someone mind is made up or not!

aℓyssa Due October 21 (girl); 1 child; Manhattan, KS, United States 18879 posts
Nov 26th '12

One of my best friend parents had her when they were seniors in high school, split, then a year later married her father's, brother and had kids with him.



So, her sister is her cousin, and her brother and sisters are only cousins, not siblings. It's a long mess of a situation and honestly, if you don't know them, you assume there's insest somewhere.



So, no. I would never. :lol:

notafullbagofsugar Due February 29 (twins); 4 kids; 2 angel babies; stoke, uk, United Kingdom 5364 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting NinaBonita:" So true thats kind of how it started he saw that my ex was doing nothing for his kids like a real father ... [snip!] ... be there for me and the babies but more and more we are growing among eachother and feelings are building up for one another!"


feelings - something you cant control

NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting T + H = My World:" feelings - something you cant control "


:)

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting T + H = My World:" feelings - something you cant control "


Incorrect. You can control your feelings. You can also control the impulse to act on said feelings.

N's Momma☆ 1 child; Spain 2346 posts
Nov 26th '12

Hell no. That's way too close for my liking. He's your kids UNCLE. :?

notafullbagofsugar Due February 29 (twins); 4 kids; 2 angel babies; stoke, uk, United Kingdom 5364 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting Not tellin:" Incorrect. You can control your feelings. You can also control the impulse to act on said feelings. "


no you cant not control your feelings physical or emotional but you can control how they make you act, take pain for example, you drop that can of beans on your toe your not going to think f**k it today i wont let it hurt me, or grief, some one close to you dies, you have some sort of feelings whether you show them or bury them inside, they are still there you dont decide how you feel on the inside, you can fake it but deep down your actual feelings are still there whether you like them or not




ETA: i have read this back and it sounds like random b******s lol, please ignore, its 12:30am here ive had a little drink and im tired so i will go bed and correct my idiot self in the morning/afternoon lol

user banned (boy); 2 kids; f**king, Austria 36337 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting T + H = My World:" no you cant not control your feelings physical or emotional but you can control how they make you act, ... [snip!] ... how you feel on the inside, you can fake it but deep down your actual feelings are still there whether you like them or not "

You feel the beans on the toes because you have involuntary sensory receptors in the skin. So that's not a good an analogy. lol

notafullbagofsugar Due February 29 (twins); 4 kids; 2 angel babies; stoke, uk, United Kingdom 5364 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting ℳary ℐane:" You feel the beans on the toes because you have involuntary sensory receptors in the skin. So that's not a good an analogy. lol"


i did say physical feeling too but that wasnt my point lol and i would still feel haye towards them beans for bruising me lol

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
Nov 26th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting T + H = My World:</b>" i did say physical feeling too but that wasnt my point lol and i would still feel haye towards them beans for bruising me lol "</blockquote>



Lmao!
I agree though you cannot help who you develop feelings for.

Monkey Nuts Australia 4572 posts
Nov 26th '12

I know someone who has kids by both brothers and married one of them.
It's weird but whatever.