cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
Nov 24th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting familyLivin':</b>" Honestly my SO and I are 4 years apart, I was 15 when I got pregnant with OUR first 16 when I had him ... [snip!] ... to yourself, it's rude and uncalled-for! OP My SO signed the birth certificate and never got charged but I am in Canada."</blockquote>




Actually, yeah... If he was a 19 year old MAN and knocked your 15 year old Child-self up with Y'ALL'S (like it'd be anyone else's...?) child... Yeah... He was gross. Y'all staying together and him continuing to have sex with a child doesn't make him less gross ha

kthx. TTC since Mar 2016; 1 child; Harrison, OH, United States 69890 posts
Nov 24th '12
Quoting familyLivin':" Honestly my SO and I are 4 years apart, I was 15 when I got pregnant with OUR first 16 when I had him ... [snip!] ... to yourself, it's rude and uncalled-for! OP My SO signed the birth certificate and never got charged but I am in Canada."


It is gross. It's awesome that he's there for you and the babies.... but the fact still remains that an adult raped a child (at least here it's rape... at 15 you can't give consent to sex, and you're still considered a minor until 18 ).




I'll be DAMNED if my 14 year old daughter starts dating an 18-19 year old. I was in that spot... 13 and lost my virginity to an 18 year old. And I'm completely disgusted that I let a MAN do that to me. Someone out of high school should not be interested in someone who has barely started high school. It's gross. Period.

familyLivin' 3 kids; Windsor, Ontario 173 posts
Nov 24th '12
Quoting ::1st:: Time Mommy:" THIS! You phrased everything so well! I am glad everything worked out really well for you!"


ty :)

CoreyLynn Due November 27; California 50 posts
Nov 24th '12

I am happy to see that others are coming forward and offering her support. It is what she needs right now. I might sound like a broken record...but the judgmental posts were also. Thank you to those who are offering kind words to this young woman.

kthx. TTC since Mar 2016; 1 child; Harrison, OH, United States 69890 posts
Nov 24th '12
Quoting Lovelyyy KD*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting familyLivin':</b>" Honestly my SO and I are 4 years apart, I ... [snip!] ... Yeah... He was gross. Y'all staying together and him continuing to have sex with a child doesn't make him less gross ha"


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cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
Nov 24th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting CoreyLynn:</b>" It is two teenagers who had sex and got pregnant. It is not ideal for them at all, but it is not uncommon either. What do you suggest that she do with her current situation? "</blockquote>



He might be 19, but he's also an adult. A grown man. He has no business even looking at a 15 year old. "/

kthx. TTC since Mar 2016; 1 child; Harrison, OH, United States 69890 posts
Nov 24th '12
Quoting CoreyLynn:" I am happy to see that others are coming forward and offering her support. It is what she needs right ... [snip!] ... like a broken record...but the judgmental posts were also. Thank you to those who are offering kind words to this young woman."


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.t a y l o r. 3 kids; Indiana 3847 posts
Nov 24th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lovelyyy KD*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting CoreyLynn:</b>" It is two teenagers who had sex and got pregnant. ... [snip!] ... He might be 19, but he's also an adult. A grown man. He has no business even looking at a 15 year old. "/"</blockquote>




Let a 19 year old man even say hi to my 15 year old daughter. See what happens.

cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
Nov 24th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Fancy Asparagus Beef:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lovelyyy KD*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting CoreyLynn:</b>" ... [snip!] ... at a 15 year old. "/"</blockquote> Let a 19 year old man even say hi to my 15 year old daughter. See what happens."</blockquote>



Right!!? Maybe this is all just absurd to me because my boyfriends 19. He wouldn't look at someone that young as anything other than a child. He's old fashioned and alllll man, tho. I have to remind myself he's only 19 sometimes. Lol

::1st:: Time Mommy 1 child; Sumner, Washington 255 posts
Nov 24th '12
Quoting Fancy Asparagus Beef:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lovelyyy KD*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting CoreyLynn:</b>" ... [snip!] ... at a 15 year old. "/"</blockquote> Let a 19 year old man even say hi to my 15 year old daughter. See what happens."


I am pretty sure if you daughter goes to the mall there are people she talks to, the guy she buys her meal from in the food court, the guy selling her her sunglasses etc. Alot of them are young either Jr or Sr in High school some freshman in college. I am sure a 19 yr old male has said hello to your daughter atleast once. Movie theater mall, etc. Just to point it out. And I am sure none of them were hitting on here

cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
Nov 24th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ::1st:: Time Mommy:</b>" I am pretty sure if you daughter goes to the mall there are people she talks to, the guy she buys her ... [snip!] ... to your daughter atleast once. Movie theater mall, etc. Just to point it out. And I am sure none of them were hitting on here"</blockquote>




Okay captain smartass. I'm pretty sure that's not what she meant.

kthx. TTC since Mar 2016; 1 child; Harrison, OH, United States 69890 posts
Nov 24th '12
Quoting ::1st:: Time Mommy:" I am pretty sure if you daughter goes to the mall there are people she talks to, the guy she buys her ... [snip!] ... to your daughter atleast once. Movie theater mall, etc. Just to point it out. And I am sure none of them were hitting on here"


Don't be so f**king dense. She didn't mean literally TALKING. I talk to 8 year olds... am I a predator?



Jesus. She meant FLIRTING.

.t a y l o r. 3 kids; Indiana 3847 posts
Nov 24th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ::1st:: Time Mommy:</b>" I am pretty sure if you daughter goes to the mall there are people she talks to, the guy she buys her ... [snip!] ... to your daughter atleast once. Movie theater mall, etc. Just to point it out. And I am sure none of them were hitting on here"</blockquote>




Holy Christ, is all intelligence lost on you or just sarcasm?

familyLivin' 3 kids; Windsor, Ontario 173 posts
Nov 24th '12
Quoting Lovelyyy KD*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting familyLivin':</b>" Honestly my SO and I are 4 years apart, I ... [snip!] ... Yeah... He was gross. Y'all staying together and him continuing to have sex with a child doesn't make him less gross ha"


There is also the fact of girls in their teens being on average 3 years more mature than boys. I still agree that it should not happen and yes I would be pissed if an 18 year old wanted to be with my 14 year old, however calling my SO or the father of her child gross will not change the fact that it happened. It will just make this poor girl feel like shit and that is not what she needs right now.

::1st:: Time Mommy 1 child; Sumner, Washington 255 posts
Nov 24th '12

You guys seem to think there is only one way for her to handle the situation, abortion or adoption. She choose to keep her child and raise it, regardless of her boyfriend gets introuble (from what i am understanding) and that takes alot of strength. So since your opinion has been said do you need to continue telling her how disugusted you are with her and or her boyfriend?