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Mrs. Conan O'Brien 3 kids; Colorado 21082 posts
Nov 21st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting paula h:</b>" not where i live also i live a hour away from the nearest one"</blockquote>

That's not that far.

✿LilyBear09✿ 1 child; Oregon 5006 posts
Nov 21st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting paula h:</b>" I have a ride to my friend s I dont have a phone and i dont have anything really to sell im trying to ... [snip!] ... up and leaving with nothing really doesn't sit will with me I dont want to leave my son I just so lost on what i should do"</blockquote>

If you leave him, it will be hard to get him back.. If you can. I don't know if your SO and his mom are close, but I guarantee that if you file for custody, they will claim you abandoned him.

What does not having a phone have to do with this??

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 3 kids; Colorado 21082 posts
Nov 21st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting paula h:</b>" I have no where to go I live with my mother in law right now my SO wants me to leave him alone and never ... [snip!] ... and i trying to decide if i should pack both of are stuff and leave or leave my son till i can get a job house and come get him"</blockquote>

There are a lot of resources out there. Utilize them. Don't just leave your kid with someone for who knows how long...

Lin Brown TTC since May 2015; 2 kids; Tunnel Hill, Georgia 1941 posts
Nov 21st '12

what is best for you and your child is you find somewhere that you BOTH could go to, if you take off and try and come back for him later then your SO or his mom can say that you abandoned your child and the courts will more then likely grant them custody since who knows when you'll actually be back to get him. why would you even consider leaving him behind, i would rather die then leave my kids more then 24 hours.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
Nov 21st '12

I may leave my daughter with someone so I could work two jobs or something for awhile to jumpstart our lives alone, but it doesn't seem like a good idea to chose your soon to be ex's family.