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A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
Nov 21st '12

PS. My sons father lives in a different state too. My local office did everything and cooperate with NY enforcement

Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45725 posts
Nov 21st '12
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Curlyheadedfck:</b>" He does not :("</blockquote> Maybe call DFS and see if they can do it through the state?"


I shamefully hate to admit this but I was on assistance when he was first born and they went after him for child support. He refused to cooperate with any information I needed adn they dropped the case.
I don't even know how to go about this :?

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59258 posts
Nov 21st '12
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Curlyheadedfck:</b>" I've tried repeatedly and he won't cooperate..."</blockquote> That's horrible! You didn't make your child on your own"


Exactly.
My daughter's father had visitation long before child support, and my parents were helping me out financially (while i was in school they paid for our place/our life/etc) and he hated them (for no good reason) yet they were the ones supporting his daughter, while he played with her a few hours a week. it wasn't even about the money to me, just the principal of it.
It can get so frustrating.



I hope it all goes smoothly for you, OP!

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 3 kids; Colorado 21082 posts
Nov 21st '12

What the... I thought you already did but the state like gave up

Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45725 posts
Nov 21st '12
Quoting KNZ.:" Exactly. My daughter's father had visitation long before child support, and my parents were helping ... [snip!] ... even about the money to me, just the principal of it. It can get so frustrating. I hope it all goes smoothly for you, OP!"


My sons father has never met him.
so I'll be damned if I keep struggilng while he sits in a cushy apartment being a wonderful part time daddy for his first child and doing whatever the hell he wants.
I didn't crawl ontop of myself and get pregnant.

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 3 kids; Colorado 21082 posts
Nov 21st '12
Quoting Curlyheadedfck:" I shamefully hate to admit this but I was on assistance when he was first born and they went after ... [snip!] ... He refused to cooperate with any information I needed adn they dropped the case. I don't even know how to go about this :?"


that's so stupid

AFK Australia 18873 posts
Nov 21st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting [mama♥buggs]:</b>" my daughter is three...and i still havent done it, just doesnt seem worth it ! but id contact your local child support office and theyll contact him and wprk it all out for you"</blockquote>




Can I ask why you don't think it seems worth it?



I mean, you obviously have no problem providing for your daughter on your own, most people don't if that's what they have to do but I mean why should she miss out on what she's entitled to from her father, just because he's a piece of crap. &Why should he get away with being a deadbeat dad?

Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45725 posts
Nov 21st '12
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HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Nov 21st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Curlyheadedfck:</b>" I shamefully hate to admit this but I was on assistance when he was first born and they went after ... [snip!] ... He refused to cooperate with any information I needed adn they dropped the case. I don't even know how to go about this :?"</blockquote>




I don't think it is anything to be shameful of! And what an a*****e :?

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59258 posts
Nov 21st '12
Quoting Curlyheadedfck:" My sons father has never met him. so I'll be damned if I keep struggilng while he sits in a cushy apartment ... [snip!] ... part time daddy for his first child and doing whatever the hell he wants. I didn't crawl ontop of myself and get pregnant."


Oh, seriously. sounds like my son's dad. but, i dont want anything from him, haha- just to stay away forever.
I hope it goes smoothly and quickly!

Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45725 posts
Nov 21st '12
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Curlyheadedfck:</b>" I shamefully hate to admit this but I ... [snip!] ... know how to go about this :?"</blockquote> I don't think it is anything to be shameful of! And what an a*****e :?"


oh he's a special brand of a*****e hahah.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Nov 21st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting [Boats&Hoes]:</b>" I just went down to the Child Support office and gave them all my info, the baby's info and his info. ... [snip!] ... They then filed an order for CS, but the judge set it to a $0 order. :? He was in jail at the time, so idk if that was why. "</blockquote>




Wow how is he supposed to support your child and help support with $0 a month

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Nov 21st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" Exactly. My daughter's father had visitation long before child support, and my parents were helping ... [snip!] ... even about the money to me, just the principal of it. It can get so frustrating. I hope it all goes smoothly for you, OP!"</blockquote>




Wow I'm sorry

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 3 kids; Colorado 21082 posts
Nov 21st '12
Quoting Curlyheadedfck:" I did! which is why I need to know how to do this where they WON'T give up. I'm tired of this Lex :( "


do you have anything on him now as opposed to before, like his address/job?



not that it should even matter, I mean I'm sure plenty of chicks still get their deadbeats served only w/ the name... shit dude idk. I'd be pissed

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Nov 21st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Curlyheadedfck:</b>" oh he's a special brand of a*****e hahah."</blockquote>




:(