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what just happened *~Bunny~Hump~* 1 child; North Dakota 6820 posts
Nov 18th '12

So was seeing this guy since July. And just started dating him short of 16 days ago. We met on PoF. He did delete his profile before we started the relationship. Long story short. I made a fake profile. He sent it a message. And said he was looking for a good woman who loves sports. He told me he wasnt singling out women anymore and wasnt on the dating website. So I called confronted him said ur girlfriend loves sports. I called him 2 minutes after he sent the profile a message. He asked what i was talking about. I said I thought u werent on that dating website anymore. CLICK.



Now what. Do i let him talk first or?

Momma x 2 18 kids; Whiskey d**k Mountain, WA, United States 1372 posts
Nov 18th '12

I think the fact that you even thought to create a fake profile to lure him in the first place is a sure sign that the relationship is doomed. I'd just move on.

*TiffanyMae* 2 kids; Montana 6002 posts
Nov 18th '12

Sounds like my BD. I would let him go if it were me

~The Lunar Flower~ 2 kids; Alabama 6748 posts
Nov 18th '12

Well he's obviously still looking even though he's dating you. I'd drop his ass since he lied

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59258 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting Momma x 2:" I think the fact that you even thought to create a fake profile to lure him in the first place is a sure sign that the relationship is doomed. I'd just move on."


Basically this.

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
Nov 18th '12

Let him walk before you invest too much into the relationship. Obviously he's still looking for a woman, not worth your time

Raωkeℓ 1 child; Costa Rica 8257 posts
Nov 18th '12

Don't let him talk at all- he was lying to you; simple as that.

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75118 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting Momma x 2:" I think the fact that you even thought to create a fake profile to lure him in the first place is a sure sign that the relationship is doomed. I'd just move on."

:!:

Sweetheart...* Due July 30 (girl); 1 child; Florida 1290 posts
Nov 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Momma x 2:</b>" I think the fact that you even thought to create a fake profile to lure him in the first place is a sure sign that the relationship is doomed. I'd just move on."</blockquote>




!!!

Bri + 1.5 <3 Due October 20 (girl); 1 child; Florida 4350 posts
Nov 18th '12

Since it's so soon into the relationship, he is already being sketchy & you had to basically test him. I would say just end it now.

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
Nov 18th '12

Eh you are both in the wrong. A relationship without trust is NOT gonna last. Move on. Hopefully you find someone you trust enough not to create fake accounts to "trap" them in a lie.

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
Nov 18th '12

The fact that two weeks in you felt like you should make a fake profile to catch him and that he was already looking for girls, it's not worth talking at all. Just be thankful that it ended before it had a chance to get serious.
Also, if you're trying to lure your boyfriend of two weeks into a trap to catch him straying, I think you need to do some work on yourself before you try to start a relationship. That is incredibly immature.

Lilly and Laya's momma 3 kids; 4 angel babies; Chesapeake, Virginia 8559 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting MommaSav2:" The fact that two weeks in you felt like you should make a fake profile to catch him and that he was ... [snip!] ... him straying, I think you need to do some work on yourself before you try to start a relationship. That is incredibly immature."

This !! By the sounds of it you sound like you are in high school. You don't sound ready for any relationship

castaway 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 20306 posts
Nov 18th '12

Dump.




His.



Ass.



And.




RUN.




My exhusband pulled the bs....after we were married.



I wouldn't even bother saying another damn word to him. He isn't worth even that. Move on and don't waste any more time, and thank your lucky stars you found out sooner than later that he is a creep.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59258 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting MommaSav2:" The fact that two weeks in you felt like you should make a fake profile to catch him and that he was ... [snip!] ... him straying, I think you need to do some work on yourself before you try to start a relationship. That is incredibly immature."


This is a mixed message in my head, yet i agree with it.
Sure it's immature, but it's also how she found out so that she can hopefully be thankful that it ended before it got serious.
If she hadn't found out via. her fake account, chance are, she wouldn't have found out til they were further in the relationship.



So, it's just kinda a catch 22 situation.



But, i still agree, ha.