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    • I would be pissed -- Votes: 24
    • I wouldnt care -- Votes: 1
    • Id choke both kristin and him out. -- Votes: 41
Would yu put up with this from your SO? Switzerpuss 17 kids; Nebraska 2281 posts
Nov 18th '12

excuse typos. Im on a phone,

DD isnt Mikes ( my SO's) daughter. Her father is a drug dealing crack head ( i had issues in the past) who is in and out of prison and isnt in her life at all. Mike lost his son, and has pretty much picked up daddy role for my daughter. hes been with us every single day since she was about 4 months old and shes 13 months now.

But anyways. His ex kristin. They dated for 4 years prior. They were already broken up for awhile when me and him got together. Needless to say- Kristin hates me. Shes ALWAYS trying to sabotage me and mikes relationship. She told mikes family i used to be stripper and now they all hate me. SHe literally called them up and told them. for no other reason then to make them hate me. Several people have told me she is CONSTANTLY talking shit about me. ABout me being a single mom. Being an ex stripper. Telling mike ( iv seen the texts and messages) That she wants him back and he shouldnt be with a "dumb stupid slut" like me. Basically- shes a crazy b***h.

Well, mike told me he quit talking to her because " He respected me and didnt want to be friends with someone who treated and talked about me so poorly"... ANyways- i have a verizon plan. His sprint phone plan was up. He didnt want to join my plan because he wanted to keep his sprint phone. He said he asked his dad to add him to his plan so it would be cheaper, and he agreed. I didnt think twice about it. About two months went by and i thought nothing of it. They i went to my moms and he called my parents home phone and the caller ID said f**king kristin.

COme to find out- she added him to her phone- not his dad. They text, talk, and hangout on a regular basis. WHile they do this- he tells me hes working, at a meeting, etc.
He says its completely innocent, and i have no reason to be pissed.

I would also like to add he doesnt work and i support him.

He says he hangs out with her since " thats the least he can do for her adding him to her phone plan". ANd he does admit when they hangout she does spend the large majority of the time talking shit about me, ANd like iv said iv seen the texts of her says she wants to be back with him and blah blah blah.

Yould you put up with this? or am i wrong for being upset?

nendhsiwjru 6 kids; Denver, Co, United States 37137 posts
Nov 18th '12

Dude,he's taking advantage of you...and playing you real good.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
Nov 18th '12

dump him,,,,,

Tikaytasha 17 kids; New York 11503 posts
Nov 18th '12

f**k that. He's being sneaky as hell about it and I deff wouldn't put up with it, nor would I trust her ass.

Amanduuuh 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Texas 5315 posts
Nov 18th '12

Wait.... He says he's working but doesn't work??

Id leave him.

bia. ., ., Portugal 102185 posts
Nov 18th '12

Uh yeah no, dump his ass!

Gir! Due March 2; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Ohio 7552 posts
Nov 18th '12

f**k no! Get out of that mess

~The Lunar Flower~ 2 kids; Alabama 6748 posts
Nov 18th '12

f**k that. Drop his ass. he's going behind your back. Don't support a p***e o* s**t

Katie[ღ]Siℓas 17 kids; Grand Haven, Michigan 2071 posts
Nov 18th '12

If it is so innocent why does he feel the need to HIDE it? :roll: No I wouldn't put up with that.

*~Stella's Momma~* 1 child; Missouri 1654 posts
Nov 18th '12

You're being played, hunny...time to move on.

Liam's Mama TTC since Nov 2016; 1 child; North Carolina 5492 posts
Nov 18th '12

Oh HELL no. f**k that! Exes are meant to stay exes for a reason. Who knows what they've been doing behind your back. :(

[♥]Mrs. Taylor 18 kids; Texas 12250 posts
Nov 18th '12

So why did you even believe that he was "working" and in meetings I'd he doesn't work and you support him?
Dump him, he's cheating. Even though he has been there for Dd, he is not her dad and as time goes on she won't even remember him.

Holly Marie Read 1 child; Mississippi 346 posts
Nov 18th '12

Of course he says it's completely innocent.
I'd assume he's cheating... if nothing else he is lying big time and that's not ok.
Her hate could be coming from the fact that she's "the other woman".
I would run away as fast as I could.

.t a y l o r. 3 kids; Indiana 3847 posts
Nov 18th '12

1. If its not anything for you to worry about, why is he hiding it and lying about it?
2. Why does he need to be on her phone plan if you offered to have him on your's? (That's what I gathered at least)
3. Someone needs to be kicked to the curb. It's unfortunate for your daughter, but he's a leech and absolutely no good.

¬°VinHaute! Kansas City, MO, United States 47544 posts
Nov 18th '12

Hail to the naw