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Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
Dec 24th '12
Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:</b>" Yep i was the same way. I hated ... [snip!] ... at him instead lol kinda like you're missing a part of you but you can see and hold them. It's an amazing feeling! <3"

It really is. Just undiscribable.

Chris's Mommy 1 child; Seaside, California 2618 posts
Dec 24th '12
Quoting MX23:" ok ill try to make her feel better about it. that is gonna be awsome to feel it kick. when does that happen? does it hurt when it kicks?"


When you GF first starts feeling the movement, you won't be able to feel it. But probably late in the 2nd trimester you will feel it.



Sometimes it can be uncomfortable depending on what the little one is kicking, but my husband always enjoyed being able to feel our son.



I am currently 11 weeks along and I can kind of feel a little bit of movement, but I know that my hubby won't be able to feel anything yet.

Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
Dec 29th '12

Hey OP Haven't heard from you in awhile. How is everything going??

MX23 Japan 674 posts
Dec 31st '12
Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" Hey OP Haven't heard from you in awhile. How is everything going??"

hey not so good with me. gf is good tho so thats the main thing. shes a little stressed tho.



got atacked again by that f**king a*****e again. was going to see my gf and dad asked me to stop by work and pick up something he left on his desk. when i came out he was therer and i paniced. didnt know if i shoudl run back inside or to my car or try to fight him. i actually dont remember much after that but i got my ass kicked bad. spent 2 nights in the hospital and am home tho now but feel like shit. not really thinking str8 so sorry this doesn make sense.my. eyes are all messed up and i have a broken oribital bone ribs nose. im just all fucked upand am a f**k up in life.



it was all on cameras tho cuz my dad does some goverment contract stuff so he has to have camera all over so it got everything and even his car. cops said since he took my phone and keys that its even worse for him since he just left me laying there. i dont even rember trying to get hlep.. hes in jail now cuz he cant afford bail so glad he cant hurt me again but still scared to even leave.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Dec 31st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" hey not so good with me. gf is good tho so thats the main thing. shes a little stressed tho. got atacked ... [snip!] ... trying to get hlep.. hes in jail now cuz he cant afford bail so glad he cant hurt me again but still scared to even leave. "</blockquote>




Oh wow I'm sorry.

Kelly-Ann Louise 1 child; 1 angel baby; Australia 867 posts
Dec 31st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" hey not so good with me. gf is good tho so thats the main thing. shes a little stressed tho. got atacked ... [snip!] ... trying to get hlep.. hes in jail now cuz he cant afford bail so glad he cant hurt me again but still scared to even leave. "</blockquote>




So sorry to hear that :(
The good thing is he is in jail now.
Honestly what is that guys problem? He sounds crazy!
Rest up buddy.
None of this is your fault and you're not a f**k up. Everyone makes mistakes in life, but you have righted your wrongs and have come so far with your new responsibilities.
Don't let that guy bring you down.
He is the f**k up. Honest.
Do your girlfriends parents know?
How has everyone reacted?
Remember that we are all here for you and you can talk to us whenever, even if you think its just a stupid thought or question.

Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
Jan 1st '13
Quoting MX23:" hey not so good with me. gf is good tho so thats the main thing. shes a little stressed tho. got atacked ... [snip!] ... trying to get hlep.. hes in jail now cuz he cant afford bail so glad he cant hurt me again but still scared to even leave. "


OMG are you alright. Did they arrest him?

Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
Jan 1st '13
Quoting Kelly-Ann Louise:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" hey not so good with me. gf is good tho so thats ... [snip!] ... Remember that we are all here for you and you can talk to us whenever, even if you think its just a stupid thought or question."


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MX23 Japan 674 posts
Jan 1st '13
Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" OMG are you alright. Did they arrest him?"

im in alot of pain and bruised all over. my face hurts the worst and it sucks trying to sleep even tho im so tired.



they did arrest him and he cant deny it now cuz there is proof. he is still in jail so im glad about that. i guess he even tried to fight the cops when they tried to arrest him so they said hes gonna go for a long itme

Chris's Mommy 1 child; Seaside, California 2618 posts
Jan 1st '13
Quoting MX23:" hey not so good with me. gf is good tho so thats the main thing. shes a little stressed tho. got atacked ... [snip!] ... trying to get hlep.. hes in jail now cuz he cant afford bail so glad he cant hurt me again but still scared to even leave. "


Well I am sorry that he got to you again, but at least he is in jail now and can't deny that it wasn't him.



Get some rest and follow your doctor's instructions. Are you parents there to take care of you?

MX23 Japan 674 posts
Jan 1st '13
Quoting Kelly-Ann Louise:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" hey not so good with me. gf is good tho so thats ... [snip!] ... Remember that we are all here for you and you can talk to us whenever, even if you think its just a stupid thought or question."


my gf parents know and are glad hes in jail cuz they didnt want him seeing my gfs sister. they have been good to me. she is home now to and thats why my gf is stressed cuz she wont even talk to her. her sister is blaming me for all of this but her bf is the one that started the fights. i may have started it all cuz of what i said but he didnt have to do this to me.



my gf and parents have been really helping me so thats been good. i was supposed to go to school tomorwo but that wont happen. im worried about falling behind but my parents said they are gonna talk to them and see if they can get a tutor to talk to my teachers and have them come here and go over everything at home till im better to go

Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
Jan 1st '13
Quoting MX23:" my gf parents know and are glad hes in jail cuz they didnt want him seeing my gfs sister. they have ... [snip!] ... see if they can get a tutor to talk to my teachers and have them come here and go over everything at home till im better to go"


Sounds like a plan for school.

Just try to rest even tho it hurts. Listen to your doctors take your meds if they gave you any. and try not to focus on anything else but getting better. You dont need to stress out any more. and look forward to what you have to come this year. You get to meet your child. You graduate from high school. College.

Glad you have a great support team tho. And even though it sux what happened. things are turning around for you.

Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
Jan 2nd '13
Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" Sounds like a plan for school. Just try to rest even tho it hurts. Listen to your doctors take ... [snip!] ... College. Glad you have a great support team tho. And even though it sux what happened. things are turning around for you."


This.

OP- It's probably better you didn't fight back, just makes him look worse. Did you get a restraining order for when he comes out? I would keep track of when he gets out so maybe you can have someone watching out for you incase he comes back and I'd have at least pepper spray on you, he sounds like a f**king idiot who has nothing better to do with his time. I wouldn't stress it until then. And for school, the tutor sounds like a good idea! Don't beat yourself up, you're doing the best you can. You may not feel like it but you're a strong person, don't let that fag get in your way. He's just jealous because HE sucks at life and he know's it...he's a loser who will ALWAYS be a loser. :) YOU on the other hand...I believe you are going to be just fine as long as you keep doing what you've been doing, definitely on the right path. You're bad ass for going through what all you've gone through in a short period of time and you're still not letting it stop you from doing what you gotta do. 8) Just know we're all here for ya, and sounds like you have a great support system in real life too lol Keep posted!

Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
Jan 2nd '13
Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" This. OP- It's probably better you didn't fight back, just makes him look worse. Did you get a restraining ... [snip!] ... gotta do. 8) Just know we're all here for ya, and sounds like you have a great support system in real life too lol Keep posted!"

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Thorian's Mommy Due May 6; TTC since Jan 2016; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Westbrook, ME, United States 8464 posts
Jan 3rd '13

OP do you have Adult Ed at your school? If your a senoir and only have your basic classes left then you can transfer to adult ed and still get your diploma. It what my SO did.