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[[His_MuM]] 1 child; 3 angel babies; Bangor, ME, United States 979 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting khigh:" Yeah. Dowries are illegal there, but they still do it in the smaller villages because that's how it's ... [snip!] ... to have their daughters married, so they just don't have daughters. I really can't wait to get over there and start helping!"


Where is that? I've heard about India, South Asia, China and others. I think its awful, i wish i had the money to adopt i would in a heart beat =[

~Elliott's.Mommy~ TTC since Dec 2015; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Eugene, Oregon 3817 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting khigh:" Do you want to tell me, a prolife advocate, why you want to make our fight for life harder by spewing ignorance?"

Please reword your question. I have issues with comprehension due to being dead a birth. (just wanted to throw that out there so i dont get attacked by not understanding you)

[[His_MuM]] 1 child; 3 angel babies; Bangor, ME, United States 979 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting LolaMcKitten:" True, to an extent, but I have seen TOO many children go through the hell of the foster care system, which, quite honestly, can be almost as bad. Some of those foster parents are complete monsters. "


:!:

my brother in law still to this day has problems because of what the foster mother did to him & no one believed him. I had the same problem when i was put in foster care.

khigh 1 child; Fort Sill, Oklahoma 8101 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting ~Elliott's.Mommy~:" Please reword your question. I have issues with comprehension due to being dead a birth. (just wanted to throw that out there so i dont get attacked by not understanding you)"


Okay. I am a prolife advocate and member of the NRLC (National Right to Life Council). We fight/protest for the right of babies to be born in the US.

Why would someone claiming to be prolife (you), say ignorant things that HURT the prolife movement?

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
Nov 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting LolaMcKitten:</b>" True, to an extent, but I have seen TOO many children go through the hell of the foster care system, which, quite honestly, can be almost as bad. Some of those foster parents are complete monsters. "</blockquote>




Very true. The foster care system is horrible and for that reason I think the government should make it easier for qualified people to adopt. So many hoops to jump through, I honestly can't blame someone for adopting over seas.

khigh 1 child; Fort Sill, Oklahoma 8101 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting [[usmcwife]]:" Where is that? I've heard about India, South Asia, China and others. I think its awful, i wish i had the money to adopt i would in a heart beat =["


India. I'm specifically going to volunteer at an orphanage for girls for a month in Sikkim province during my summer break from school in Bangalore.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
Nov 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting khigh:</b>" Okay. I am a prolife advocate and member of the NRLC (National Right to Life Council). We fight/protest ... [snip!] ... to be born in the US. Why would someone claiming to be prolife (you), say ignorant things that HURT the prolife movement?"</blockquote>




To be pro-life in general is ignorant. Prolifers care more about a fetus before it is born but don't want to pay for programs that would give them a chance at life after they are born. Pro-choice people worry more about the quality of life while prolifers focus too much on the quantity of lives.



Not your uterus, not your choice.

[[His_MuM]] 1 child; 3 angel babies; Bangor, ME, United States 979 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting khigh:" India. I'm specifically going to volunteer at an orphanage for girls for a month in Sikkim province during my summer break from school in Bangalore."


thats awesome, i've been trying for 2 years to join the peace corps but still no luck? i don't get why.
i also do a lot with child abuse and DV. i volunteer for the woman and children shelter (i guess you could say) and help the moms with their children, educate on being aware of child abuse and all that but have been wanting to travel outside the US. it's an amazing thing your doing.

~Elliott's.Mommy~ TTC since Dec 2015; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Eugene, Oregon 3817 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting khigh:" Okay. I am a prolife advocate and member of the NRLC (National Right to Life Council). We fight/protest ... [snip!] ... to be born in the US. Why would someone claiming to be prolife (you), say ignorant things that HURT the prolife movement?"


What makes them any different than us? why do we get to live but not them? Im not exactly sure of how Im supposed to answer this. I came off as a b***h, but thats how I feel about abortion. Im pro-life when it comes to abortion. I believe that baby should be able to live. If Im not making sense then Im sorry, I dont know how else to put this.

[[His_MuM]] 1 child; 3 angel babies; Bangor, ME, United States 979 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting Back to Noob Status:" <blockquote><b>Quoting khigh:</b>" Okay. I am a prolife advocate and member of the ... [snip!] ... more about the quality of life while prolifers focus too much on the quantity of lives. Not your uterus, not your choice."



i've always agreed with that but i figured that out more as soon as i got attacked for having an opinion lol
not being rude towards anyone reading this! everyone has an opinion though.

LolaMcKitten Due May 30 (girl); 27 kids; Beverly Hills, California 15496 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting ~Elliott's.Mommy~:" What makes them any different than us? why do we get to live but not them? Im not exactly sure of how ... [snip!] ... abortion. I believe that baby should be able to live. If Im not making sense then Im sorry, I dont know how else to put this."


But you are only being pro-life when it comes to fetus' - not people. You can't claim to be pro-life and then say people should die.

LolaMcKitten Due May 30 (girl); 27 kids; Beverly Hills, California 15496 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting Back to Noob Status:" <blockquote><b>Quoting LolaMcKitten:</b>" True, to an extent, but I have seen TOO ... [snip!] ... it easier for qualified people to adopt. So many hoops to jump through, I honestly can't blame someone for adopting over seas."


Yeah, I hate how they pass over perfectly wonderful, loving families for some of the ridiculous reasons that they do - like being homosexual, certain medical issues, things like that.

~Elliott's.Mommy~ TTC since Dec 2015; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Eugene, Oregon 3817 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting LolaMcKitten:" But you are only being pro-life when it comes to fetus' - not people. You can't claim to be pro-life and then say people should die. "


didnt know there were rules to being prolife.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
Nov 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting LolaMcKitten:</b>" Yeah, I hate how they pass over perfectly wonderful, loving families for some of the ridiculous reasons that they do - like being homosexual, certain medical issues, things like that. "</blockquote>




I remember listening to a speech given by a gay man. He said it would be easier to adopt as a single man than with a gay partner. Ridiculous.



Also, even Sandra Bullock had to wait four years (married too) in order to adopt her son Louis and she is a millionaire with a clean record!

LolaMcKitten Due May 30 (girl); 27 kids; Beverly Hills, California 15496 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting ~Elliott's.Mommy~:" didnt know there were rules to being prolife."


Do you not understand what "life" is.....if you are pro-life and then sit there and say people should die, then you are NOT pro-life, you are pro-fetus because you don;t give a shit about the lives of PEOPLE, only unborn fetus'.



I don't how this is so f**king hard to understand.