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Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56012 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting [[usmcwife]]:" No, should always be pro-choice, because of rape, health problems with mother & baby, etc.. but i ... [snip!] ... her so I just didn't respond at all. ABORTION IS NOT A FORM OF BIRTH CONTROL. sorry lol i feel very strong about this subject."



How do you know that that girl wasn't on BC and it failed?



The instances of women using it as BC is extremely low.

Devil Puppy Tyson's Mom 1 child; Budapest, Hungary 299 posts
Nov 18th '12

Each party has the right to express themselves (pro-life or pro-choice), I belive that they should not be pressurizing and emotionally blackmailing. That will not help anyone.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting [[usmcwife]]:" No, should always be pro-choice, because of rape, health problems with mother & baby, etc.. but i ... [snip!] ... her so I just didn't respond at all. ABORTION IS NOT A FORM OF BIRTH CONTROL. sorry lol i feel very strong about this subject."


Yes abortion is a form of birth control. It stops birth from happening.

Ny's Mommy 9-14-07 34 kids; Norristown, Pennsylvania 528 posts
Nov 18th '12

I think stopping abortion would cause a lot of harm. as many young girls that have unwanted babies & kill them or leave them on the side walk now that number would probably quadruple. There is also rape and simply women who get pregnant who aren't ready mentally or financialy. Think about the stories we hear about child abuse now I'd imagine it would only get worst. But I also don't approved of people using them as birth control.

[[His_MuM]] 1 child; 3 angel babies; Bangor, ME, United States 979 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" How do you know that that girl wasn't on BC and it failed? The instances of women using it as BC is extremely low."


I wouldn't assume it if she didn't say that she was having unprotected sex. I never assume anything like that with people, but when they know they are at risk to get pregnant and still take that chance and then if they dont like it they can just get an abortion...? thats wrong. but thats also my personal opinion.

[[His_MuM]] 1 child; 3 angel babies; Bangor, ME, United States 979 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Yes abortion is a form of birth control. It stops birth from happening."


IMO.. no its not, it's suppose to be used for actually problem situations.. Not because your dumb, and don't use or get protection.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting [[usmcwife]]:" IMO.. no its not, it's suppose to be used for actually problem situations.. Not because your dumb, and don't use or get protection."


So the only "problem situations" would be in your opinion rape and fetus death?



Not all people are stupid that wantabortions. And if you bring up that they cando adoption, do you know how many kids are in the system because the adoptive parents want perfect babies [majority of white babies also].

Nameless Ghoul 2 kids; Sweden 6452 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting AmberTastic!:" "


awww ya beat me to it :lol:

The Master Due September 8; 2 kids; Perth, Australia 20023 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting [[usmcwife]]:" No, should always be pro-choice, because of rape, health problems with mother & baby, etc.. but i ... [snip!] ... her so I just didn't respond at all. ABORTION IS NOT A FORM OF BIRTH CONTROL. sorry lol i feel very strong about this subject."


Of course its a form of birth control ... it stops birth doesn't it? What I think you mean is its not a form of pregnancy control like condoms and the pill (though some pills don't stop pregnancy just cause an abortion within the first couple of days)

[[His_MuM]] 1 child; 3 angel babies; Bangor, ME, United States 979 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" So the only "problem situations" would be in your opinion rape and fetus death? Not all people are ... [snip!] ... do you know how many kids are in the system because the adoptive parents want perfect babies [majority of white babies also]. "


For one, I didn't say people who wanted abortions are stupid. I simply said, "IMO.. no its not, it's suppose to be used for actually problem situations.. Not because your dumb, and don't use or get protection." anyone who doesn't want kids but doesn't use protection is a little dumb, sorry. and two I didn't leave it at just rape and health problems, I'm sure there are plenty other situations where someone needs the abortion thats why i put "etc." & three, yes I do know how many are in the system because I use to be in the system along with my husband and his siblings and I know plenty of friends who were as well, I also work with some foster kids. But I guess I'm not understanding where you're going with the whole adoption thing.... I know it's an option but why make a decision between abortion and adoption if you can avoid it by using BC if you don't want kids to begin with?

[[His_MuM]] 1 child; 3 angel babies; Bangor, ME, United States 979 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting The (super kinky) Master:" Of course its a form of birth control ... it stops birth doesn't it? What I think you mean is its not ... [snip!] ... like condoms and the pill (though some pills don't stop pregnancy just cause an abortion within the first couple of days)"


Yeah that is what I mean i guess i didnt say it right, but I kind of thought saying BC anyone would think of pills, condoms, any type of portection to prevent unwanted pregnancy.
When I say abortion is not a form of BC i mean when you hear people say "i had unprotected sex, i dont want a baby, an abortion will work."
I'm not saying anything against people who actually need it. So sorry to anyone who thinks I was.

The Master Due September 8; 2 kids; Perth, Australia 20023 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting [[usmcwife]]:" Yeah that is what I mean i guess i didnt say it right, but I kind of thought saying BC anyone would ... [snip!] ... an abortion will work." I'm not saying anything against people who actually need it. So sorry to anyone who thinks I was."


Plan B and lower dose hormonal pills (as well as non-hormonal uterine implants) all by definition cause abortion, in that they either prevent an already fertilized ovum or a zygote implanting or forces the implantation to fail.

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56012 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting [[usmcwife]]:" Yeah that is what I mean i guess i didnt say it right, but I kind of thought saying BC anyone would ... [snip!] ... an abortion will work." I'm not saying anything against people who actually need it. So sorry to anyone who thinks I was."



Do I have to say it?



I'm in the middle of a pregnancy scare right now



I had unprotecteds sex, I don't want a baby, if I am pregnant, i will abort.



oops. Shit happens

[[His_MuM]] 1 child; 3 angel babies; Bangor, ME, United States 979 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting Sami&Baby Silas:" Birth control can fail."


I know it can, and when it does if the person wants an abortion thats their choice, but at least they took the proper way of trying to prevent it. Instead of being unprotected, getting pregnant, then saying I want an abortion. Unless you do the plan B and in that three day window go and take that pill thats suppose to stop the implantation? i believe.. i don't know a lot about that pill. Hopefully then the person would get on BC.

[[His_MuM]] 1 child; 3 angel babies; Bangor, ME, United States 979 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting The (super kinky) Master:" Plan B and lower dose hormonal pills (as well as non-hormonal uterine implants) all by definition cause ... [snip!] ... abortion, in that they either prevent an already fertilized ovum or a zygote implanting or forces the implantation to fail."


yeah there is that, i dont know much about it just that you have a 3 day window to get it right?