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user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
Nov 15th '12
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" What do you mean by priority?"


how can I explain...



when your child/ren moves out on his/her/their own, starting their own family, wouldn't your husband then be the person who comes first?

user banned California 8675 posts
Nov 15th '12

My kids of course then dh then lastly me. Lmao. I love my little family but I will always be a mother first then a wife. Sorry but my kids are my number one pride and joy!

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18065 posts
Nov 15th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:</b>" does anyone agree with me that they would put their children first up until a certain age? like when they move out on their own or turn a certain age then they won't be your first priority anymore."</blockquote>




No until my death my child will come first

~T&C plus me~ 2 kids; .., OR, United States 4252 posts
Nov 15th '12

My son will always come first. Then My husband then me.

user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
Nov 15th '12

i'm not saying you will love your kids less but when its just you and your husband at home wouldnt he then move to first place?

*~Stella's Momma~* 1 child; Missouri 1654 posts
Nov 15th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:</b>" how can I explain... when your child/ren moves out on his/her/their own, starting their own family, wouldn't your husband then be the person who comes first?"</blockquote>



No.

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
Nov 15th '12
Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:" does anyone agree with me that they would put their children first up until a certain age? like when they move out on their own or turn a certain age then they won't be your first priority anymore."


When a kid becomes an adult, they're an adult. It doesn't mean I won't love them, but no, they're no longer my "top" priority. I'm not going to neglect my husband because my kids decide they want me to come make them dinner. At that point they will have their life and I'll have my life. The relationship changes. I will still love them but you can't really live for your kids, especially when they're adults.

user banned California 8675 posts
Nov 15th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:</b>" i'm not saying you will love your kids less but when its just you and your husband at home wouldnt he then move to first place?"</blockquote>




Wdym?

♔ BαtMαɳ Gotham, DC, United States 88656 posts
status Nov 15th '12
Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:" i'm not saying you will love your kids less but when its just you and your husband at home wouldnt he then move to first place?"


While my kids aren't there, yes. But the second my child needs me, he get's put on the back burner.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
Nov 15th '12
Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:" how can I explain... when your child/ren moves out on his/her/their own, starting their own family, wouldn't your husband then be the person who comes first?"


In the sense that you are no longer their primary caregiver, of course. But if you mean they take a back burner to him certainly not.

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 3 kids; Colorado 21081 posts
Nov 15th '12
Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:" i'm not saying you will love your kids less but when its just you and your husband at home wouldnt he then move to first place?"



no...

The Doctor 2 kids; Boulder, CO, United States 60774 posts
Nov 15th '12
Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:" i'm not saying you will love your kids less but when its just you and your husband at home wouldnt he then move to first place?"


.....why would it change?



Or......... are you just waiting for them to grow up so they get out of your way? :? I know that is going to piss you off, and I apologize. But, really.

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 3 kids; Colorado 21081 posts
Nov 15th '12
Quoting she nan igans:" When a kid becomes an adult, they're an adult. It doesn't mean I won't love them, but no, they're no ... [snip!] ... The relationship changes. I will still love them but you can't really live for your kids, especially when they're adults. "


uh I think that's different, no? I thought this was more important than them asking you to make them dinner :lol:

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
Nov 15th '12
Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:" i'm not saying you will love your kids less but when its just you and your husband at home wouldnt he then move to first place?"


Nope.



If my daughter is in need but my husband doesn't want me to go, I'll tell him to suck a fat one. She's more important than him. Forever.

Sweetheart...* Due July 30 (girl); 1 child; Florida 1290 posts
Nov 15th '12
Quoting The Doctor:" .....why would it change? Or......... are you just waiting for them to grow up so they get out of your way? :? I know that is going to piss you off, and I apologize. But, really."


i don't understand her logic...