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Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
Nov 10th '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" I don't mind SO's belly. He's naturally husky, he's literally running around at work all day, and eats ... [snip!] ... and eats really healthy now, and he's still larger. I really do think that for some men, it's genetics, same as some women."


What I see when DH walks around naked is unhealthy. I have worried about his health for years. He eats horribly. I worry he'll have a heart attack or something :(

shotofwhiskey ✨ TTC since Jan 2013; 1 child; 1 angel baby; -, -, United Kingdom 75054 posts
Nov 10th '12
Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Some men are sexy bigger....some aren't. Sometimes it's their personality and some times it's just because ... [snip!] ... very big but he isn't thin either...he has a gut but I am attracted to him of course. Different stroked for different folks."


:!: Agreed.

Hy'ska 2 kids; Nope, Az, United States 50865 posts
Nov 10th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" Big and beautiful only goes so far. There's no reason to be over 200 lbs for most and all the health ... [snip!] ... out, eat a balanced diet not perfect but not junk junk junk. And if a dude has bigger tits than me, that's unacceptable!! Lol"</blockquote>




Most men are over 6 ft. 200 is very acceptable

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59258 posts
Nov 10th '12
Quoting kthx.:" Though, I've only ever been with small(er) guys... until SO. He's 6'7 and 275 lbs. Though... he's ... [snip!] ... fat. I think it's because of his height... he has more muscle and is just... thick. LOL. I don't know how to explain it :lol:"


He doesn't look fat from here.
and 6'7", nice:D i love tall. I dated a 6'7" dude during my & jason's separation, he was dumb as hell, but so...tall :P

Hy'ska 2 kids; Nope, Az, United States 50865 posts
Nov 10th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" Though, I've only ever been with small(er) guys... until SO. He's 6'7 and 275 lbs. Though... he's ... [snip!] ... fat. I think it's because of his height... he has more muscle and is just... thick. LOL. I don't know how to explain it :lol:"</blockquote>




From pics I've seen he looks barrel chested not fat

Destinite 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Paradise, FL, United States 35130 posts
Nov 10th '12
Quoting Spencer Pratt:" Obesity is not aesthetically pleasing on a male or female. IMO"



This

kthx. TTC since Mar 2016; 1 child; Harrison, OH, United States 69889 posts
Nov 10th '12
Quoting Brink:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" Big and beautiful only goes so far. There's ... [snip!] ... dude has bigger tits than me, that's unacceptable!! Lol"</blockquote> Most men are over 6 ft. 200 is very acceptable"


:!:

kthx. TTC since Mar 2016; 1 child; Harrison, OH, United States 69889 posts
Nov 10th '12
Quoting KNZ.:" He doesn't look fat from here. and 6'7", nice:D i love tall. I dated a 6'7" dude during my & jason's separation, he was dumb as hell, but so...tall :P "


I love it! I'm only 5'7" :lol: So even though I'm a bigger girl.... he can toss me around like a rag doll 8)



Anyways..... :lol:

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59258 posts
Nov 10th '12
Quoting kthx.:" I love it! I'm only 5'7" :lol: So even though I'm a bigger girl.... he can toss me around like a rag doll 8) Anyways..... :lol:"


hahah that's awesome :D i'm 5'4, so, i feel ya :wink:

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
Nov 10th '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" SO's been to doctors, he's worked out, dieted... and NOTHING has helped. :( His blood pressure's fine, ... [snip!] ... healthy, with the exception of his weight. No one can figure out why he can't lose any significant amount of weight. "


DH won't eat healthy. He says he will but he just won't. And forget about working out. I wish he would. He used to be very muscular.

kthx. TTC since Mar 2016; 1 child; Harrison, OH, United States 69889 posts
Nov 10th '12
Quoting Brink:" <blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" Though, I've only ever been with small(er) guys... ... [snip!] ... thick. LOL. I don't know how to explain it :lol:"</blockquote> From pics I've seen he looks barrel chested not fat"


I have no idea what that means :lol:



I can't find a good full body shot of him. They're all either standing next to someone, so his belly is hidden... or his shirt is poofin' out.



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nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
Nov 10th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brink:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" Big and beautiful only goes so far. There's ... [snip!] ... dude has bigger tits than me, that's unacceptable!! Lol"</blockquote> Most men are over 6 ft. 200 is very acceptable"</blockquote>




Oh yeah my SO is 6'3" and 220 but I ment women and dudes that aren't anywhere near 6 ft , that's why I just said most don't need to be over 200. Should of been more specific

P Pickle Pants 98 kids; California 20532 posts
Nov 10th '12

I don't find skinny people attractive, nor do I find obese people attractive at all. You can be a little overweight and healthy, but obesity is NOT healthy and its just not attractive.



My DH has a 6% body fat and I'd eat him alive if I weren't on pelvic rest!



I was obese and FELT healthy for 10 years and my docs tests were all normal. In had good cholesterol and BP and such. Perfectly healthy by the books---after losing 30 lbs, I can tell you I only THOUGHT I was healthy. I feel SO much better on a day to day basis now and have so much more energy and confidence.



Can't wait til this baby comes (mostly because I want my healthy baby!) so I can get by body back even trimmer and more fit so that I can be an awesome example for my kiddos!!!

Pey and Trista's mommy Due January 5; 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42503 posts
Nov 10th '12

I have always had issues with my weight and my periods...yup turned out to pcos so after this baby I need to talk to my doc and see what needs to happen next and now I know I need to work even harder than I was before.

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
Nov 10th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brink:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" Big and beautiful only goes so far. There's ... [snip!] ... dude has bigger tits than me, that's unacceptable!! Lol"</blockquote> Most men are over 6 ft. 200 is very acceptable"</blockquote>




Oh yeah my SO is 6'3" 220 lbs, I should of been more specific, I ment women and dudes that are nowhere near that tall. That's why I said most don't need to be weigh that much if they aren't working out and eating healthy