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user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
Nov 8th '12
Quoting ~Ice Princess~:" Eh, I have an iPhone and am on assistance...owell. It was free and my grandma put me on her plan. ... [snip!] ... guy said I could get the iPhone. Same price monthly, so why not? I never assume anything about anyone because I don't know..."


i have nice tings but usually because they were given to me..

all my vera bradley bags ( but one) and coach bags were all gifts to me..

my MIL got my iphone,
my parents gave me a honda odyssey mini van. BUT im not on assitance, but if i needed it, id hate to judged for those.. because i didnt buy any of them.

Party of FIVE! 3 kids; Romania 37572 posts
Nov 8th '12
Quoting ~Ice Princess~:" Eh, I have an iPhone and am on assistance...owell. It was free and my grandma put me on her plan. ... [snip!] ... guy said I could get the iPhone. Same price monthly, so why not? I never assume anything about anyone because I don't know..."


Yeah I understand that that can happen, but not always. Chances are someone didn't gift someone a car, new clothes, a new phone and take them to get their weave and nails done.

......... nowhere, NW, United States 25972 posts
Nov 8th '12
Quoting Party of FIVE!:" Yeah I understand that that can happen, but not always. Chances are someone didn't gift someone a car, new clothes, a new phone and take them to get their weave and nails done."



How do you know the difference though?



I have a newer car, not brand new, but again, my grandma got the loan. I do have to pay payments but she would never let me drive around in a car that was junk with the kids.
Clothes? That's pretty hard to tell what is new. I buy things with tags still on them at second hand stores for just a couple of bucks.
I've even had my hair and nails paid for by family. Not because I ask either. I would never do that.

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
Nov 8th '12
Quoting Party of FIVE!:" Yeah I understand that that can happen, but not always. Chances are someone didn't gift someone a car, new clothes, a new phone and take them to get their weave and nails done."



in cincinnati it was bad... i saw it all the time. from some "friends" as well.. and family members..
i was just lucky with my family adn the timing of things.. my parents moved out of the country..couldnt take the van, i was pregnant with my 3rd... they gifted me the van. which is so awesome and im SOOO thankful for.

......... nowhere, NW, United States 25972 posts
Nov 8th '12
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" i have nice tings but usually because they were given to me.. all my vera bradley bags ( but one) ... [snip!] ... odyssey mini van. BUT im not on assitance, but if i needed it, id hate to judged for those.. because i didnt buy any of them."


Exactly.
Some families are great. I have a great family and would be lost without them. Of course they don't mind helping (with what they can b/c they're not rich by any means) because they see me actually trying. My SIL paid 75 bucks the last time she was in town for my mani/pedi. She thought I deserved a treat...I was like okay...lol I'm very grateful for things like that.

......... nowhere, NW, United States 25972 posts
Nov 8th '12
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" i have nice tings but usually because they were given to me.. all my vera bradley bags ( but one) ... [snip!] ... odyssey mini van. BUT im not on assitance, but if i needed it, id hate to judged for those.. because i didnt buy any of them."


Oh, yeah, I have a Coach purse my grandma bought me.
3 bucks at a second hand store...and it's real...lol

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
Nov 8th '12

You do realize they are both people and politicians who are republican and pro choice I hope. Because I am a pro choice republican, my governer and senators are also

Sweet Little Lies 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Deception, WI, United States 6900 posts
Nov 8th '12

A little late but...We had a political ad here with this woman and she said "I am a pro life woman who was raped and was offered plan b and declined. However Todd Akin would make it illegal for a woman to get plan b and I don't think a woman should ever be denied, and for that reason I am voting Claire McCaskill.



Umm isn't she pro choice then?

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
Nov 8th '12
Quoting Gemma Teller Morrow:" A little late but...We had a political ad here with this woman and she said "I am a pro life woman who ... [snip!] ... I don't think a woman should ever be denied, and for that reason I am voting Claire McCaskill. Umm isn't she pro choice then?"



one would think.. but i guess all logic is thrown out the window when it comes to politics.

Sweet Little Lies 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Deception, WI, United States 6900 posts
Nov 8th '12
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" one would think.. but i guess all logic is thrown out the window when it comes to politics."

Guess you're right. Glad the ads are over. But it bugged me so much!

Party of FIVE! 3 kids; Romania 37572 posts
Nov 9th '12
Quoting Gemma Teller Morrow:" A little late but...We had a political ad here with this woman and she said "I am a pro life woman who ... [snip!] ... I don't think a woman should ever be denied, and for that reason I am voting Claire McCaskill. Umm isn't she pro choice then?"


Not necessarily. One can be pro-life for them selves, but not for others.

The Doctor 2 kids; Boulder, CO, United States 60774 posts
Nov 9th '12
Quoting Party of FIVE!:" Not necessarily. One can be pro-life for them selves, but not for others."


I must disagree there.



Pro-choice means that choice should be legal, pro-life means abortions should be illegal.



You can be pro-choice and choose to not have an abortion for yourself.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
Nov 9th '12

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Kaleighshaleigh 3 kids; USA 7098 posts
Nov 9th '12

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Yep...then it's actually the responsibility of the people that actually created that baby. Imagine that. Personal responsibility. Maybe a bit more thought should have been given before the sexual act so the pregnancy would have been prevented, but then again that goes back to personal responsibility and apparently there are many that think that is too much to ask.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
Nov 10th '12
Quoting Kaleighshaleigh:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" "</blockquote> Yep...then ... [snip!] ... but then again that goes back to personal responsibility and apparently there are many that think that is too much to ask."


Yeah, b/c birth control is 100% effective. :roll:



Accidents happen, and no woman should be forced to carry a pregnancy against her will. What a woman does with HER body is HER business.