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Cast Your Vote:

    • Yes for any race -- Votes: 11
    • Only if you are black -- Votes: 6
    • No it is unacceptable for anyone -- Votes: 49
    • It is only unaceptable for whites -- Votes: 6
Always♥Faithful 2 kids; CHERRY POINT, North Carolina 21738 posts
Nov 6th '12

I think the word is absolutely disgusting no matter who uses it. It makes me sick hearing it.

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23736 posts
Nov 6th '12

Oh just to clarify, n***a and n****r are exactly the same, imo

Mama Rice 34 kids; North Las Vegas, Nevada 11987 posts
Nov 6th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" Oh just to clarify, n***a and n****r are exactly the same, imo"</blockquote>



I think so too....that is why I said any variation. I don't say any and would not allow my children to either.

Always♥Faithful 2 kids; CHERRY POINT, North Carolina 21738 posts
Nov 6th '12
Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" Oh just to clarify, n***a and n****r are exactly the same, imo"

Agreed. Or nigg@ which immediately got this chick defriended on my FB.

Rob's Living Dead Girl Royersford, Pennsylvania 4296 posts
Nov 6th '12

I really don't think it's acceptable for anyone to use it, but I will admit that I am a bit more tolerant of hearing it among African Americans than Caucasians. Maybe because I'd automatically think to myself that it isn't meant to be used out of hate. =/

Tani. 2 kids; California 1076 posts
Nov 6th '12
Quoting B-Baby:" unfortantly is is only accepted (around here) if your black and say it and if your white and say it oh ... [snip!] ... cracker just because were white.. i thinks its wrong no matter who you are.. but sadly that not how everyone else thinks.."


What I have heard from another black person who uses the word is, "I feel like we can say it to each other as a way to connect and show that...that word doesn't bother us anymore. We are over it, and it's a joke now." However, that to me is bull...because if it truly didn't bother you than a white person saying it would not offend you.

B-Baby 1 child; 1 angel baby; CARROLLTON, Virginia 1869 posts
Nov 6th '12
Quoting Tani.:" What I have heard from another black person who uses the word is, "I feel like we can say it to each ... [snip!] ... now." However, that to me is bull...because if it truly didn't bother you than a white person saying it would not offend you."


exactly!

Mama to J ♥ 1 child; Atlanta, GA, United States 2039 posts
Nov 6th '12

I think the word itself is just ridiculous and it sounds REALLY stupid when trashy wanna be white girls say it or use it on a daily basis. I hate when people use it to fit in or be funny....like....its not funny....

Rob's Living Dead Girl Royersford, Pennsylvania 4296 posts
Nov 6th '12
Quoting Mama to J ♥:" I think the word itself is just ridiculous and it sounds REALLY stupid when trashy wanna be white girls ... [snip!] ... be white girls say it or use it on a daily basis. I hate when people use it to fit in or be funny....like....its not funny...."


Lol, agreed! I always thought this when I heard a white girl say it and try to act tough or whatever. :)

Mama to J ♥ 1 child; Atlanta, GA, United States 2039 posts
Nov 6th '12
Quoting RosalieHTwiFan:" Lol, agreed! I always thought this when I heard a white girl say it and try to act tough or whatever. :)"

I think so too. I have a girl on my FB that I went to school with and the only word out of her mouth seems to be "n***a this...blah blah." Its annoying. lol

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
Nov 6th '12

I don't think it's ever acceptable.

user banned 1 child; Golden, Colorado 28482 posts
Nov 6th '12
Quoting Mama Rice:" Is using any variation of the N word okay? A friend of mine (she is black and her DD is 6 and half black ... [snip!] ... that word. She told me it is okay for her DD to say it because she is half black, it is only offensive if white people use it."


It's a horrid, disgusting word and I don't think it's EVER okay to say it unless it's in an education setting (like To Kill a Mockingbird, like if reading a book like that out loud).



Otherwise, I don't care if you are black, white, or frickin purple... it's a disgusting word to say in any aspect. My foot would be up Lils ass if she said it!

bellatiff 1 child; Devonshire, DV, Bermuda 5180 posts
Nov 7th '12

I'm black and I really don't care who uses the word. :lol:

*Turtles* 2 kids; Someplace, UT, United States 6098 posts
Nov 7th '12
Quoting FroggysMommy:" It's a horrid, disgusting word and I don't think it's EVER okay to say it unless it's in an education ... [snip!] ... black, white, or frickin purple... it's a disgusting word to say in any aspect. My foot would be up Lils ass if she said it!"


:!:

Alicia Holz 2 kids; Fond du Lac, Wisconsin 603 posts
Nov 7th '12

i think it depends my hubby and i have a friend who is black so we say it to him but he knows were just joking its like you have that really good friend that you can say f off too and they know you are joking...but like my hubby says its not what you say but how you say it