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Dating? II need serious help TeenMommyOnBoard 1 child; 1 angel baby; Ontario 66 posts
Nov 2nd '12

Okay mamas, i need some help i am a single teen mom, ive been single sense my daughter was 6 weeks old. So my daughter is now 9 months old and i have met some one finaully, now he flirted with me i flirted back, he toke me on 4 dates and than when it came to going out..he says he still has feelings for his ex girlfriend.
Im so confussed and i dont know what to do..i actaully really like this guy and i do want to have a relationship with him.
Any mamas go through this or are going through this?
Please help

Jackie Burkhart 1 child; Baltimore, MD, United States 7276 posts
Nov 2nd '12
Quoting TeenMommyOnBoard:" Okay mamas, i need some help i am a single teen mom, ive been single sense my daughter was 6 weeks old. ... [snip!] ... like this guy and i do want to have a relationship with him. Any mamas go through this or are going through this? Please help"


Let it go. You have no time for a b***h ass guy hung up on an ex.

*~Stella's Momma~* 1 child; Missouri 1654 posts
Nov 2nd '12

Sounds like a douche. Stay single.

~*Lette*~ 50 kids; Kailua, Hawaii 710 posts
Nov 2nd '12

Why do you feel the need to be dating right now? Focus on your child instead of guys. There's plenty of time to date later.

khigh 1 child; Fort Sill, Oklahoma 8101 posts
Nov 2nd '12

Let him go. You should be concentrating on school, your baby, and learning the English language right now and not on dating.

Michael Myers 2 kids; visalia, CA, United States 3504 posts
Nov 2nd '12

Stay single, you and your baby deserve better then that.

Jackie Burkhart 1 child; Baltimore, MD, United States 7276 posts
Nov 2nd '12
Quoting khigh:" Let him go. You should be concentrating on school, your baby, and learning the English language right now and not on dating."


:lol:

TeamPink ♥ Due May 18 (girl); 2 kids; California 62 posts
Nov 2nd '12

I honestly feel you shouldn't be getting into anything serious right now. Just focus on you and you baby trust me you'll have plenty of time to date and all of that you're still young. I mean I know being a single mom gets lonely sometimes but you gotta do what you gotta do.

Kylees Mama 1 child; Faribault, Minnesota 4193 posts
Nov 2nd '12

It happens to a lot of people. Not just "teen moms", so you could drop that title now. There's other fish in the sea, and you're still young. You probably don't want to hear this, but you should focus on your school work and your child. Most boys your age are probably going to be real intimidated by the fact you have a child.

TeamPink ♥ Due May 18 (girl); 2 kids; California 62 posts
Nov 2nd '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting khigh:</b>" Let him go. You should be concentrating on school, your baby, and learning the English language right now and not on dating."</blockquote>



Exactly!

TeenMommyOnBoard 1 child; 1 angel baby; Ontario 66 posts
Nov 2nd '12

Oh i know that, but he says he has feelings for me as well so i just dont know.
I know i shouldnt be worrying about this but yes i am lonely, i was cheated on while pregnant and have felt lonely sense than. I am almost done school but i guess well my friends had put me on a blind date with this guy. He doesnt care that i have my daughter he's great with her. And hes older than i am hes not a teen hes 20.

Michael Myers 2 kids; visalia, CA, United States 3504 posts
Nov 2nd '12
Quoting TeenMommyOnBoard:" Oh i know that, but he says he has feelings for me as well so i just dont know. I know i shouldnt be ... [snip!] ... date with this guy. He doesnt care that i have my daughter he's great with her. And hes older than i am hes not a teen hes 20."


Not to be rude but he probably just wants to f**k.

khigh 1 child; Fort Sill, Oklahoma 8101 posts
Nov 2nd '12
Quoting TeenMommyOnBoard:" Oh i know that, but he says he has feelings for me as well so i just dont know. I know i shouldnt be ... [snip!] ... date with this guy. He doesnt care that i have my daughter he's great with her. And hes older than i am hes not a teen hes 20."


If he is 20 and you are 16....most places that is illegal.

*~Stella's Momma~* 1 child; Missouri 1654 posts
Nov 2nd '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting TeenMommyOnBoard:</b>" Oh i know that, but he says he has feelings for me as well so i just dont know. I know i shouldnt be ... [snip!] ... date with this guy. He doesnt care that i have my daughter he's great with her. And hes older than i am hes not a teen hes 20."</blockquote>



You seriously need English classes.



He's using you as a rebound cause he's still hung up on his ex. Quit wasting your time.

Kylees Mama 1 child; Faribault, Minnesota 4193 posts
Nov 2nd '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting TeenMommyOnBoard:</b>" Oh i know that, but he says he has feelings for me as well so i just dont know. I know i shouldnt be ... [snip!] ... date with this guy. He doesnt care that i have my daughter he's great with her. And hes older than i am hes not a teen hes 20."</blockquote>




Then maybe he realizes a relationship with you could put him in jail? If he still wants his ex, just drop him.