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S♡J=Malachi 1 child; 3 angel babies; Florida 3278 posts
Oct 20th '12

If y'all is just sleePing then no he don't own you a thing.

Iyahna :^P 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Disneyland, CA, United States 17518 posts
status Oct 20th '12

Sounds like a guy i dont want to mess with...he sounds like a loser who does.not know what he wants and playing games.red flag if hes going to you then his ex and back to you.

Aribean 1 child; California 11400 posts
Oct 20th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:</b>" So is that how it works then... you're either with someone completely or you're just some p***y? Legit ... [snip!] ... agree with you where I feel like he is just using me, and trying to do all of that to make me keep hooking up with him."</blockquote>




Exactly just that..



There really is no healthy in between.....it's clear as day that you can not handle "friends with benefits". You secretly want to just have a real relationship with him...
As far as not making things complicated..FwB is prob the messiest thing you can do.

That girl Amber +2 2 kids; California 6981 posts
Oct 20th '12

Not rude at all. And if you guys are just f**k buddies youre either gonna hafta get over the feelings youre catching or level with the dude

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
Oct 20th '12
Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:" So is that how it works then... you're either with someone completely or you're just some p***y? Legit ... [snip!] ... agree with you where I feel like he is just using me, and trying to do all of that to make me keep hooking up with him."


Honey, if you were more than sex, he wouldn't leave for 3 days and not tell you, he'd actually CARE about your feelings. Its just sex, thats all. If it was more, he'd be your boyfriend, not your playmate.

Thalamus Nut Sack Japan 22 posts
Oct 20th '12
Quoting Katie ♥ Eli:" If you're not in a relationship, I don't really feel either of you owe each other any explanations for ... [snip!] ... what you do. With that being said, I would be upset as well... Which is why I never do friends with benefits relationships."


Yeah I'm over it. This is the lamest way to go about being intimate with someone. I think for me, I just don't want anything official because I'm moving in about 6 months far away, and I don't want my child getting involved with anyone. He's been kind to my child when he's seem them, but generally just stays completely behind the scenes and sneaks out, which was perfect for me. Plus, I don't want to be a mother to anyone else's kids. I thought he wanted to be more or less unlabeled, not in a relationship, for the same reason, but maybe it's so he can have guilt free sex with whoever he wants while lying to my face about. Bastard.

Ecstasy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Perth, WA, Australia 7757 posts
Oct 20th '12
Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:</b>" So is that how it works then... you're ... [snip!] ... lays in your bed and says that he loves you but what he really means is that he loves laying in your bed and sleeping with you."


Agreed.



Unfortunately OP its pretty black and white in situations like this..



You either want it, or you don't.



If he wants a relationship he would have committed by now.. you guys are just friends with benefits & you are complicating things by getting attached.



Thats the problem with some women when it comes to having 'bed buddies'..
You make them orgasm and then they fall in love with you or get attached & complicate things :lol:8)

Thalamus Nut Sack Japan 22 posts
Oct 20th '12
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Thalamus Nut Sack Japan 22 posts
Oct 20th '12
Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" He'll find plenty of other pieces of ass, I'm sure. Sorry. "


Lol sure

Katie ♥ Eli 1 child; California 2259 posts
Oct 20th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:</b>" Yeah I'm over it. This is the lamest way to go about being intimate with someone. I think for me, I ... [snip!] ... for the same reason, but maybe it's so he can have guilt free sex with whoever he wants while lying to my face about. Bastard."</blockquote>



Some women can do it, some can't and there is nothing wrong with it.



But there is something wrong with pretending you're okay with a FWB situation when you're clearly not cut out for it.



End it. You'll just be hurting yourself by continuing it.

☆OGTattedmama07☆ 3 kids; Ghetto, Ca, United States 36827 posts
Oct 20th '12

you're like the b***y c**l he keeps extra nice to so you will keep being the b***y c**l...

you can't freak out when you said it yourself you don't want anything complicated.

Thalamus Nut Sack Japan 22 posts
Oct 20th '12
Quoting Katie ♥ Eli:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:</b>" Yeah I'm over it. This is the lamest ... [snip!] ... okay with a FWB situation when you're clearly not cut out for it. End it. You'll just be hurting yourself by continuing it."


I guess I just don't want to be alone, but I'm not in a position to have a relationship right now, even if I want one. He was the one who initially wanted a relationship with me, and I set it up like this. I just didn't realize how long we would continue seeing each other for or how many emotions would end up getting involved. He's the one that begged for me, and I've tried to dump him so many times and he practically harasses me. If it were just about sex, couldn't he just go f**k someone else? I told him that before too, and he's so insistent it's not and acts all hurt that I say that, but then does shit like goes camping without telling me. IF THAT EVEN REALLY HAPPENED.



Goddamn I am going psycho.

Thalamus Nut Sack Japan 22 posts
Oct 20th '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" I wonder if he's back with his baby's mom or something and cheating with you. "


Lol good riddens?

☆OGTattedmama07☆ 3 kids; Ghetto, Ca, United States 36827 posts
Oct 20th '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" I wonder if he's back with his baby's mom or something and cheating with you. "


:!::!:

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
Oct 20th '12
Quoting Katie ♥ Eli:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:</b>" Yeah I'm over it. This is the lamest ... [snip!] ... okay with a FWB situation when you're clearly not cut out for it. End it. You'll just be hurting yourself by continuing it."


Agreed. I for one cant handle it. I get attached too easily. Was in a FWB relationship for like 3 years on and off, and it KILLED me because i fell in love with him. He said he loved me too but just didn't want a girlfriend. Hell he told me i was the type of girl he'd marry and that he wouldn't mind kids with me. Not THE girl, just the type. Not WANTED kids, just wouldn't mind it. He played me hard core, and it about ruined me.
OP, cut your losses now before you get in too deep. It'll save A LOT of hurt on your end.