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Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
Oct 12th '12
Quoting [wtf] i'm heather.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" Since when does BFing, changing diapers ... [snip!] ... *raises hand* I'm a bad parent then. I prefer stories during the day. Bedtime stories never worked out for us."


Time to call CPS on your ass! :wink:

Ellie. 2 kids; Arizona 25443 posts
Oct 12th '12
Quoting Back to Noob Status:" And I'm supposed to know this...how? "


By not judging people and giving them the benefit of the doubt until you're proven otherwise????

Executionista Due May 20; 3 kids; Chatsworth, Georgia 568 posts
Oct 12th '12
Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" By not judging people and giving them the benefit of the doubt until you're proven otherwise????"


<3

Hy'ska 2 kids; Nope, Az, United States 50865 posts
Oct 12th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:</b>" By not judging people and giving them the benefit of the doubt until you're proven otherwise????"</blockquote>




^^
What she said :D

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
Oct 12th '12
Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" Lol. Calm yourself. They were just examples for the sake of conversation. Of course I know there is ... [snip!] ... because of a few shitty tattoos. oh well. That's how you're going to think of people and that's all there is to it. so.... :)"


"But obviously they are not doing anything to HURT children if they impose their values on their kids."



I disagree. It does a child a great disservice to raise them to be Nazis and I can't believe someone is arguing against that point.

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75118 posts
Oct 12th '12
Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" That's the whole point. Yes, they may be a hateful person THEMSELVES, but that bares NO WEIGHT on whether ... [snip!] ... can breastfeed, change a diaper, love on, or tuck their children in at night and read them a story, meeting their basic needs."

I'd still consider them bad parents. Someone putting their kids in an environment of hate like that isn't a good parent, even if they breastfeed and read their child books at night.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
Oct 12th '12
Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" By not judging people and giving them the benefit of the doubt until you're proven otherwise????"


Meh....I typically don't stand around talking to Nazis, but whatever floats your boat!

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
Oct 12th '12
Quoting Δ ☮ ∂:" I'd still consider them bad parents. Someone putting their kids in an environment of hate like that isn't a good parent, even if they breastfeed and read their child books at night. "


Finally! Someone who gets it!

Ellie. 2 kids; Arizona 25443 posts
Oct 12th '12
Quoting Back to Noob Status:" "But obviously they are not doing anything to HURT children if they impose their values on their kids." ... [snip!] ... It does a child a great disservice to raise them to be Nazis and I can't believe someone is arguing against that point."


Differences of opinions and lifestyles. I dont agree with people raising their kids to be bleeding heart liberals (love you Charyse!) but I certainly cant say that it's "hurting" the kid even if I disagree with it.

And for the record, I'm not saying I'm pro-nazi or anything. It's disgusting.... but while it may be fucked up, I'm sure it's not CPS worthy. ;)

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
Oct 12th '12
Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" Differences of opinions and lifestyles. I dont agree with people raising their kids to be bleeding ... [snip!] ... I'm not saying I'm pro-nazi or anything. It's disgusting.... but while it may be fucked up, I'm sure it's not CPS worthy. ;)"


Wow...you are comparing liberals to Nazis? Okay then...



And I never said it was CPS worthy either, but it definitely is shitty parenting in my book.

Ellie. 2 kids; Arizona 25443 posts
Oct 12th '12

What I'm trying to say is coming off wrong. Yes, it is less than ideal for a kid to be raised in that environment. Is it abusive? kind of (mentally)... is it wrong? yes.



MY POINT... is that you cannot assume by looking at someone, that they ARE instilling those values in their children.



That's all. I'm not trying to rally the troops to support a neo nazi lifestyle.

GTFOGTFO 6 kids; Italy 5611 posts
Oct 12th '12
Quoting Ravey Candyass:" the only people who still give a f**k are you, and her. making a new thread, that had absolutley nothing to do with it?"


....and the people coming to the thread and still commenting? How do you not give a f**k?

Ellie. 2 kids; Arizona 25443 posts
Oct 12th '12
Quoting Back to Noob Status:" Wow...you are comparing liberals to Nazis? Okay then... And I never said it was CPS worthy either, but it definitely is shitty parenting in my book. "


Being a liberal is something I dont agree with... just like you dont believe in the other thing. Was just trying to make a comparison... I'm trying to be funny and lighthearted. She'll know what I mean

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
Oct 12th '12
Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" What I'm trying to say is coming off wrong. Yes, it is less than ideal for a kid to be raised in that ... [snip!] ... instilling those values in their children. That's all. I'm not trying to rally the troops to support a neo nazi lifestyle."


The OP, however, was asking about taking someone's appearance at face value, and let's face it, we ALL judge people based on appearances whether we like it or not. To me, if I saw someone dressed like a KKK member or Nazi, my gut instinct is that they are racist bastards who are exposing their children to racist ideology. Why? To prevent their kids from mixing with "lesser races."



I can't help my knee jerk response. I'm not going to treat someone with a Nazi tat rudely or anything, but I'm certainly not going out of my way to be their friend.



That being said, I see what you are saying though. :)

GTFOGTFO 6 kids; Italy 5611 posts
Oct 12th '12
Quoting Back to Noob Status:" Wow...you are comparing liberals to Nazis? Okay then... And I never said it was CPS worthy either, but it definitely is shitty parenting in my book. "


No, she wasn't at all. She is debating and I believe you are taking what she says the wrong way of what she is really saying.