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*Turtles* 2 kids; Someplace, UT, United States 6098 posts
Oct 9th '12

DOUBLE POST! Sorry.

DaniellaEllaElla Due February 23; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Burgaw, NC, United States 14583 posts
Oct 9th '12

I wonder if the credit card was in her name, not his. Why would a man with no job have a credit card?

*Turtles* 2 kids; Someplace, UT, United States 6098 posts
Oct 9th '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" I really don't see how she can believe him. I have mail that he sent me with the lingerie with their ... [snip!] ... it so he might have to tell the truth for the flight and hotel but what am I supposed to do about the other stuff I bought?"


Do you still have the mail packaging he sent to you?

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19630 posts
Oct 9th '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" I really don't see how she can believe him. I have mail that he sent me with the lingerie with their ... [snip!] ... it so he might have to tell the truth for the flight and hotel but what am I supposed to do about the other stuff I bought?"


Was this over a period of even like two months? Could some of that stuff be on previous card statements? That could be your proof that this wasn't "sprung" on her or him. And also, it's not rock solid evidence, but disproving that he didn't give you permission for the flight/hotel will definitely help your case that you were using the card per his instructions. Do you maybe have texts that correspond with the purchase of certain items? Like "I really like that new blue dress you bought with my card" or something. Idk.

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
Oct 9th '12
Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:" Over what period of time were you using the card?"


3 months.



The card was in his name. I think she might have given him the money to pay the bill off to keep her from finding out. I don't know how it works and she only requested the bill because she wasn't able to buy anything on it?

Pey and Trista's mommy Due January 5; 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42508 posts
Oct 9th '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" I really don't see how she can believe him. I have mail that he sent me with the lingerie with their ... [snip!] ... it so he might have to tell the truth for the flight and hotel but what am I supposed to do about the other stuff I bought?"


Well I would def keep all the mail info and pretty much think that just the gifts kind of proof that he had no concerns about buying you all you wanted.

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
Oct 9th '12
Quoting *Turtles*:" Do you still have the mail packaging he sent to you?"


Yes. The last one he sent me I still have it as well as text messages telling me to come online so he could see me in it.

*Turtles* 2 kids; Someplace, UT, United States 6098 posts
Oct 9th '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" Yes. The last one he sent me I still have it as well as text messages telling me to come online so he could see me in it."


Keep those just in case.

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
Oct 9th '12

I do feel bad about it though and if I had the money I think I would pay it back. It makes me feel bad that she wasn't able to feed her kids and she even mentioned it but in her message she didn't blame her husband once - just me. I was the two bit wh**e stealing money from her family and her children and that made me feel worse.

DaniellaEllaElla Due February 23; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Burgaw, NC, United States 14583 posts
Oct 9th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:</b>" I have a card in my name and I'm a sahm. My husband doesnt have access to the card but he pays it every month. "</blockquote>




If that were the case here, she wouldn't be able to request a statement, no?

Pey and Trista's mommy Due January 5; 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42508 posts
Oct 9th '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" I do feel bad about it though and if I had the money I think I would pay it back. It makes me feel bad ... [snip!] ... husband once - just me. I was the two bit wh**e stealing money from her family and her children and that made me feel worse."


It is easier to blame the person you don't live with.

SoonToBeProudMommyOf3 Due March 10 (girl); 34 kids; Oklahoma 441 posts
Oct 9th '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" I do feel bad about it though and if I had the money I think I would pay it back. It makes me feel bad ... [snip!] ... husband once - just me. I was the two bit wh**e stealing money from her family and her children and that made me feel worse."


Like I said before, she said they've been together 8yrs. She's not going to believe anyone but him. I'm sure that even when the pics are in her face, she'll be in denial. Best bet is to hold on to any and all evidence of the relationship. That way it's not likely they can say you stole the card. xo

JeNnAs MoMoM 2 kids; Pennsylvania 3090 posts
Oct 9th '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" I do feel bad about it though and if I had the money I think I would pay it back. It makes me feel bad ... [snip!] ... husband once - just me. I was the two bit wh**e stealing money from her family and her children and that made me feel worse."

Their finances are not your problem. Don't blame yourself! You're not the married one who was cheating on your spouse! Make him do the explaining and don't answer any phone calls or texts from EITHER of them.

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
Oct 9th '12
Quoting ProudMummyOf2♥Expec:" Like I said before, she said they've been together 8yrs. She's not going to believe anyone but him. ... [snip!] ... bet is to hold on to any and all evidence of the relationship. That way it's not likely they can say you stole the card. xo"


That's true and I will. There is a lot of messages so this might take a while but I'll do whatever I have to.

onehitsgirl Due January 27; 50 kids; 3 angel babies; Springfield, il, United States 5787 posts
Oct 10th '12

if you have the chats saved up emails from him sendingg you the card info and also sending you things u should be ok