thanks ladies! ...............................................
I think ur mom is a very *weird* person... and maybe should keep some of her opinions to herself... I am batshit crazy, and my mother has never discouraged me from having more kids, she has always been supportive, we always talked about my personal life and who I was dating, and when I got preg with my now husband she was happy for me, if it didn't work out with me and him, she would still love and back up any choices I make, I have 3 kids by 2 men, and there's plenty of women who find good men after they have a child/children already...
I wouldn't listen to her too much, and try and get back on ur feet as soon as u can and get out of there...
Your mom sounds kinda mean, and definitely not in touch with reality. I would just let everything she says go in one ear and out the other. Also, move as soon as possible.
Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" I think ur mom is a very *weird* person... and maybe should keep some of her opinions to herself... I ... [snip!] ... already... I wouldn't listen to her too much, and try and get back on ur feet as soon as u can and get out of there..."
thats bullshit!! dont listen to your mom!
it seems shes trying to bring you down. these mamas are right about men out there will treat her just like his own & you never know about more kids! forget her, focus on taking care of you and Madison.
Damn...your mom sounds like my mom did after I left my ex...she flat out told me I shouldn't have any more kids, or date, or see people...needless to say as usual I didn't listen to her and did my own thing...now I'm happily married to my best friend, our 4 year anniversary is this Halloween...he loves my sons unconditionally and we have an almost 18 month old together. She wasn't happy when I told her I was dating my now DH, didn't like it when I told her I was getting married (she didn't even come to the wedding) and was pissed when I told her I was having a baby...but now that she can see how well we are together she's mellowed out alot and is really happy for me.
Ignore your mom, get on your feet and get your life back to some resemblance of stability...then do as you please...there are guys out there who will love you and your LO if you ever feel like dating again. Right now just focus on taking care of you and your LO
know shes your mom and her opinion matters to you but its not right for her to put you down like she does my mom wasnt happy about me getting pregnant with either of my boys but she loves them both so much and wouldnt trade me having them for anything and i live with her as well and my son is 19 months old and hes basically going through his terrible twos as well and i have a 3 week old and i know its hard on her sometimes but she would never say the things to me that your mom does and dont just go back to your ex because of your mom if you dont want to be with him than you shouldnt be with him live your life for you and your daughter and thats it