Hathor + A Due December 23 (girl); 16 kids; Spring, Texas 12834 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" She stated she can afford three. If you don't want to be overwhelmed by children, don't have them."

Really? Really? You can't pick if you're going to have one then one.



Maybe if you have read and not skimmed then you would know she was adopted, she doesn't know if multiples runs in her family. Maybe she TTC one. Ever think of that. b***h.

Jacob & Caleb's mommy Due November 30 (boy); 2 kids; Wolcott, Connecticut 261 posts
Sep 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" Are you SERIOUSLY considering aborting a fetus because "you want to give them individual attention?" That is horrible. You're just going to....point at the screen and say "I don't want that one!""</blockquote>




I agree! so many women are dying to concieve and are not able to. I understand that you want to give them individual attention I would feel the same way but id never sacrifice one of my childrens lives for another.

Milk Monster 2 kids; Arizona 9089 posts
Sep 18th '12

OP you need to do what is best for you and your family. If that means reducing to two or even one then by all means do so. None of us know your situation so we can't say yay or nay except for basing it off of personal feelings.



You know what is best for you, your health, and your family. Keeping or terminating is completely up to you.



My only concern would be if the termination of one accidently ending the pregnancy all together.

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11905 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Get the f**k over it. That's all I can say. If you don't like my wording, oh well. Don't read it."

oh and anybody that says they are blank years young is ignorant.

Hy'ska 2 kids; Nope, Az, United States 50865 posts
Sep 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Elaina Layden:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" Are you SERIOUSLY considering aborting ... [snip!] ... want to give them individual attention I would feel the same way but id never sacrifice one of my childrens lives for another."</blockquote>




Someone else's infertility has nothing to do with OP.

Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45725 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" How can one say that they are going to be negligent while 7 weeks pregnant? I love psychics."


maybe she has a child and knows how much f**king energy and work go into raising one. I couldn't imagine raising 3 at once.

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7911 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting Mermaid Hathor Elaina-Wed:" Really? Really? You can't pick if you're going to have one then one. Maybe if you have read and not ... [snip!] ... would know she was adopted, she doesn't know if multiples runs in her family. Maybe she TTC one. Ever think of that. b***h. "


Every woman TTC runs the risk of having multiples. b***h. It doesn't have to "run in your family" to get knocked up with multiples.

Hathor + A Due December 23 (girl); 16 kids; Spring, Texas 12834 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" How can one say that they are going to be negligent while 7 weeks pregnant? I love psychics."

Because they know. What if you got pregnant with 4? Do you think you wouldn't have been overwhelmed.

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11905 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" How can one say that they are going to be negligent while 7 weeks pregnant? I love psychics."

She isn't worried about while she is pregnant dumbass she is worried about when they come. Really??? You are a moron and need to get away from the southern religious bull shit and use your mother f**king brain once in a while. You don't have kids or even a kid yet. You don't know how draining it is. f**k if i got pregnant with twins I would abort. f**k that shit.

Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45725 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" Well how the f**k am I suppose to not like something I don't read? :idea: f**k outta here. b***h is ... [snip!] ... b***h is still knocked up but has the nerve to chime in about the stress of raising kids and shit. Have a couple of seats. "


she's in for a rude awakening when she pops out that crotch fruit huh Jas :D

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7911 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" oh and anybody that says they are blank years young is ignorant. "


Ouch, my feelings!

♔ BαtMαɳ Due April 8; Gotham, DC, United States 91032 posts
status Sep 18th '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" How can one say that they are going to be negligent while 7 weeks pregnant? I love psychics."


You obviously missed the part where she posted this:



"well drs said i would have a better chance at carrying near term. because my last single pregnancy i carried to 34 weeks. and he said with this one i would have much greater chance of going into pre term labor even sooner if kept at triplets. or they may not make it to age of viability at all."



It's a choice that might have to be made for the sake of her entire pregnancy. There is nothing ignorant or selfish about her (potential) decision at all.

Sep 18th '12
Quoting Brink:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Elaina Layden:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger ... [snip!] ... sacrifice one of my childrens lives for another."</blockquote> Someone else's infertility has nothing to do with OP."


lol. thats what i was thinking. i dont think this is posted in the TTC forum. if it was by all means b***h about fertility and my possibility of reducing.

Jacob & Caleb's mommy Due November 30 (boy); 2 kids; Wolcott, Connecticut 261 posts
Sep 18th '12

She can always chose adoption though if she can't handle three kids. I can't imagine how hard three kids are all at once but I think god gave her that gift and many other women would die to be so lucky.

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11905 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" What adult still says that?"


Exactly my point. lol