P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11904 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" They dont feel pain until 25 weeks. "


or later....they arn't sure if it is at exactly 25 weeks yet. I have heard things of it being at 29 weeks too because of something with certain neurons.

mommytomel(: 1 child; California 1274 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" They dont feel pain until 25 weeks. "


ok well then i take that part back :)

Not here to please you 3 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 2214 posts
Sep 18th '12

they feel pain at 20 weeks not that it makes a diffrence not trying agrue with anyone my friend had her baby at 20 weeks and we couldnt touch him do to it being painful . . .

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11904 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting Carla DiFiore:" they feel pain at 20 weeks not that it makes a diffrence not trying agrue with anyone my friend had her baby at 20 weeks and we couldnt touch him do to it being painful . . ."

A 20 week fetus isn't viable so he had to be older than that and her EDD had to be off.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting Carla DiFiore:" they feel pain at 20 weeks not that it makes a diffrence not trying agrue with anyone my friend had her baby at 20 weeks and we couldnt touch him do to it being painful . . ."

Yeah highly doubt that...



and 20 weeks isnt viable.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" A 20 week fetus isn't viable so he had to be older than that and her EDD had to be off. "


yurp.

Not here to please you 3 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 2214 posts
Sep 18th '12

i couldnt tell u im not doctor all i know is he was 20 weeks 2 days and they were suprised he lived because most die that early . .

mommytomel(: 1 child; California 1274 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" A 20 week fetus isn't viable so he had to be older than that and her EDD had to be off. "

my cousin delivered at 20 weeks and the baby was alive for 5 hours and we went to see him and be there for my cousin....

Not here to please you 3 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 2214 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting Isabel Avilez:" my cousin delivered at 20 weeks and the baby was alive for 5 hours and we went to see him and be there for my cousin...."


:( sorry hear that i wouldnt wish that on anyone

account is deleted Maine 3500 posts
Sep 18th '12

Personally, I wouldnt do it for fear of harming the other two. Is adoption an option, but even that would be a little hard because if the adopted one ever finds out that he or she was a triplet, they may have abandonment issues and wonder why you gave them up and not the other two. :/
Good luck though.

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75118 posts
Sep 18th '12

Man, a certain someone sure is nosy and judgmental when it comes to something other than her food stamps. Some quotes :lol: "How about you mind your OWN business and don't worry about what someone else" is doing with their own uterus. "You must feel so high and mighty on your white stallion, there. (;"

LynMarie.xo Due January 18 (boy); Ontario 113 posts
Sep 18th '12

I'm suprised to not see more people thinking about how the baby's would react after growing up all their life knowing only each other to find out there was one more of them, but they'd never have the chance (or even choice) to meet their other brother/sister because mommy and daddy decided it was best for for the babys to reduce. All they need is l o v e, not undivided attention! If you were blessed with three the world with bless you with the strength, will, and smarts to care for them, if you are willing to man up and accept what you've been blessed with. I feel for you, I really understand where you are coming from... But my mind is boggled as to how quickly people can have a such precious creation being weaved to their own measure, unlike any other creature to ever have been born taken away for their own human purposes. There is a bigger picture. To be blunt I think it is a selfish decision. At the very least give, it up for adoption to mothers who cannot bear their own beauties!

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting LynMarie.xo:" I'm suprised to not see more people thinking about how the baby's would react after growing up all their ... [snip!] ... I think it is a selfish decision. At the very least give, it up for adoption to mothers who cannot bear their own beauties!"


bahahaha....



really?

account is deleted Maine 3500 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting LynMarie.xo:" I'm suprised to not see more people thinking about how the baby's would react after growing up all their ... [snip!] ... I think it is a selfish decision. At the very least give, it up for adoption to mothers who cannot bear their own beauties!"


Actually, babies require money as well. If all my daughter needed was love, she'd be living in a mansion by now. lol But I agree with you, I dont know how I'd be able to decide which one or what to tell them when they got older that I either aborted one or gave one up. Personally, I think there are just too many variables for anyone to really decide on this matter unless its OP herself.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Sep 18th '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" I read that as "beat their own beauties." I need to go to sleep :lol:"


lol. Go to sleep woman! lol.