justme103 Due January 13; Japan 71 posts
Jul 18th '12
Quoting ✿LilyBear09✿:" <blockquote><b>Quoting justme103:</b>" well I don't plan to go to college either way ... [snip!] ... it on a forum. You obviously didn't want an opinion because all you're doing is defending your position. Good luck to you."


my only issue is my virginity and the fact that I don't want to have sex before 22. Also the standards I have. But, at same time, I want to have a child. That's really all that's stopping me... idk

1inpink3inblue Due December 7 (boy); 3 kids; Switzerland 13391 posts
Jul 18th '12
Quoting justme103:" my only issue is my virginity and the fact that I don't want to have sex before 22. Also the standards ... [snip!] ... before 22. Also the standards I have. But, at same time, I want to have a child. That's really all that's stopping me... idk"


If that is really all that is stopping you then you have far more serious issues that need addressed :roll:

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
Jul 18th '12

Judging from your post, you are far from ready to have a baby.



And I'm sure if you talked to most of the young moms on BG, they would tell you that they wish they had waited a few years.

justme103 Due January 13; Japan 71 posts
Jul 18th '12
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" :!: It takes so much more than you could ever imagine to be a mother. You don't get back 1/4th of the ... [snip!] ... so much with out a colledge education to make ends meat that you will probably hardly ever even get to see your kids right?"



well you said it in your post if ends didn't meet that's what I'd use. Likely though. There are these waitressing jobs that pay you lots of money down here I could work there if it came to it and yes I have a job... Also my body won't change that much. My mom gained 100 lbs and lost it all in 6 months when she had me at 19. Only bad thing is I might get fucked up b**bs but they're already messed up. So I'm not scared of the physicality of pregnancy.

justme103 Due January 13; Japan 71 posts
Jul 18th '12
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" If that is really all that is stopping you then you have far more serious issues that need addressed :roll:"


like what? Explain?

Done with Drama 2 kids; California 8183 posts
Jul 18th '12

Take your rose colored glasses off, go to college, meet a guy that will love you for YOU and then start a family. Dont gauge your life on other peoples goals and lives. 18 is WAY too young to have a baby, let alone take care of yourself fully.



As for the old and dumpy 'look', you know HOW mothers get like that...BEING MOTHERS!

Daryl Dixon 2 kids; North Carolina 1544 posts
Jul 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting justme103:</b>" like what? Explain?"</blockquote>




Issues... like.... YOU are f**king insane, and need a reality check.

Stu Padasso 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Summerlin, NV, United States 14655 posts
Jul 18th '12
Quoting justme103:" well you said it in your post if ends didn't meet that's what I'd use. Likely though. There are these ... [snip!] ... Only bad thing is I might get fucked up b**bs but they're already messed up. So I'm not scared of the physicality of pregnancy."


You do realize your mother's pregnancy will be nothing like your pregnancy, right?

justme103 Due January 13; Japan 71 posts
Jul 18th '12
Quoting Ryan Karlie:" Actually having a baby is a lot like a puppy. They pee and poop everywhere, you have to feed them and ... [snip!] ... is nothing like baby sitting. You can't give the kid back when it keeps you up all night and pours coffee on your lap top."


well I have a cat which by nature poops in the house all over everyday feed her clean up after her. And by nature of being nocturnal keeps me up at night because nighttime is her kind of daytime. I don't get much sleep and I don't even always sleep at night I could deal with that inconsistency. When she wasn't litter trained she'd poop in the sink or bathtub. That was really a test it seemed...

user banned Due September 18 (boy); 1 child; California 21617 posts
Jul 18th '12
Quoting justme103:" well I have a cat which by nature poops in the house all over everyday feed her clean up after her. ... [snip!] ... with that inconsistency. When she wasn't litter trained she'd poop in the sink or bathtub. That was really a test it seemed..."


taking care of a pet is nothing like taking care of a child.
You need to seek help. Seriously.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
Jul 18th '12
Quoting justme103:" well you said it in your post if ends didn't meet that's what I'd use. Likely though. There are these ... [snip!] ... Only bad thing is I might get fucked up b**bs but they're already messed up. So I'm not scared of the physicality of pregnancy."


Waitressing is an unstable job, with very low base rate pay. What until you are a few years older with a savings account and a more stable career before bringing another life into this world.

justme103 Due January 13; Japan 71 posts
Jul 18th '12
Quoting MissIsolde:" Take your rose colored glasses off, go to college, meet a guy that will love you for YOU and then start ... [snip!] ... let alone take care of yourself fully. As for the old and dumpy 'look', you know HOW mothers get like that...BEING MOTHERS! "


my mom doesn't.... She doesn't look old because she had me young and she doesn't look dumpy either

Stu Padasso 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Summerlin, NV, United States 14655 posts
Jul 18th '12
Quoting Ravey Candyass:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Stu Padasso:</b>" You do realize your mother's pregnancy will be nothing like your pregnancy, right? "</blockquote> No wai. It's always the same"


Oh ya I forgot, I took care of a tamagatchi when I was younger! I obviously am prepared to handle a large family of 7

meℓissa. Due November 5 (girl); 1 child; •, CA, United States 21059 posts
Jul 18th '12
Quoting justme103:" well I have a cat which by nature poops in the house all over everyday feed her clean up after her. ... [snip!] ... with that inconsistency. When she wasn't litter trained she'd poop in the sink or bathtub. That was really a test it seemed..."


having a cat is MUCH easier than having a baby. trust me.

meℓissa. Due November 5 (girl); 1 child; •, CA, United States 21059 posts
Jul 18th '12
Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:" taking care of a pet is nothing like taking care of a child. You need to seek help. Seriously. "


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