Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
Nov 26th '12

I got pregnant on our first date.

He left me two nights ago.

Carissa_099 Due June 3; 19 kids; Newport, Washington 206 posts
Nov 26th '12

I got pregnant 3 months after we started dating. We've been together 5 years 8 months and have two lids together and one on the way

Ashley Zernell Due March 24 (girl); Delaware 233 posts
Nov 26th '12

me and so where officially together all of 2 or 3 weeks before i got is a very very rocky relationship and sometimes i wonder if we are gonna make all depends on the amount of effort yu both put the end of the day it will work if yu want it to but both of yu have to want it

BelleCurves Australia 1 posts
Jul 29th '13

Hi all,

I've been through a similar experience, pregnant after 2 months, stayed together another year & a half, just separated.

I was just wondering, when everyone talks about how hard & rocky it has been at times, what was it that helped you get through those times? Did either of you ever stop saying/showing you love one another and then start again?

My (recent) ex wanted to keep going, but couldn't say he loved me. I felt it was wrong to continue if he felt that way. Just hoping I made the right decision, instead of waiting it out and hoping he felt love again.

Also, does anyone know of any autobiographical books that are about this kind of experience?

user banned 1 child; Golden, Colorado 28482 posts
Jul 29th '13
Quoting Riley Elise:" Just wondering people's experiences. If you met someone and got pregnant by them within a short time ... [snip!] ... them within a short time or right away, what was the outcome? When did you get pregnant after meeting them/sleeping with them?"

I became pregnant shortly after getting in a relationship with Lilys father. It was a f**king tragedy to stay with him and Im glad that p***e o* s**t is out of our lives.

I dont regret my child again... if I did it all over again I wouldnt tell him I was pregnant.

Tasia Marie United States 1 posts
Apr 11th '16

My fiancé and I found out we were pregnant just under a month of dating but we'd fallen in love on our first date, by the following Sunday we told each other we were in love and two weeks later we found out we were pregnant. We were very happy and have a spiritual connection with God and each other so we feel it was all fate. We got engaged two months later and are due in 3 months! 

My only solace is that we were in love before we found out we were pregnant and how we've grown closer since finding out is a testament to the nature of our love. If you guys are truly in love then yes you can have a happy relationship. We look at it as I've been pregnant for our entire relationtionship and while our love and relationship will truly be tested once the baby comes, we still have something to look forward to. A mystery. Getting to know someone when you already love them is challenging but at least it's being done soberly and through a time when you really know whether or not you love someone. 

Time will tell. As some other women have shared, their parents are still together decades later, they're still with their partner and have even expanded their families. Just remember that your life journey doesn't have to be like the movies. My parents were high school sweethearts, got married after college and waited three years to have my oldest sister and they divorced after being together for only 12 years. You never know. There is no "by the book" way to start a family that works. The only thing that works is a willingness to try and a true love to give you strength. Best of luck!