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Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37260 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting .::Mommy In 2013::.:" But do I tell my mom that He's the father? Because my friends have other ideas on that. Like telling ... [snip!] ... TOO young. I just turned 15 a month ago and all this stress is causing me pain that I'm just not strong enough to handle..."


yeah tell your mom that your sisters boyfriend is the dad.



You can get an abortion if you dont think yo ucan handle it.



I dont recommend adoption.

Account Deleted101 Texas 14 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting Ninja Shahinda:" So, your child and your sister's child are going to be half brothers and cousins? Are you sure you're going to follow through with the pregnancy? I mean, are you open to other options?"

I'm scared like hell... And I have considered ONE other option.. but I'm afraid that when it comes down to it... I wont be able to let go. But this woman at my step moms church said that this is God's blessing and adoption may be the choice and she thanks God that abortion is not even an option for me..!

Amber Herr Due September 22; Spring, Texas 14 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting .::Mommy In 2013::.:" But do I tell my mom that He's the father? Because my friends have other ideas on that. Like telling ... [snip!] ... TOO young. I just turned 15 a month ago and all this stress is causing me pain that I'm just not strong enough to handle..."

Maybe Im just not seeing your logic to this....but how is creating more lies going to help when telling your mom?

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37260 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting .::Mommy In 2013::.:" I'm scared like hell... And I have considered ONE other option.. but I'm afraid that when it comes down ... [snip!] ... that this is God's blessing and adoption may be the choice and she thanks God that abortion is not even an option for me..!"

Why is abortion not an option? Your baby will grow up with his half sibling / cousin...



And adoption isnt all that great.

NinjaSAPIOSEXUALShahinda 5 kids; Strongsville, Ohio 34461 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting Link:" Why is abortion not an option? Your baby will grow up with his half sibling / cousin... And adoption isnt all that great. "


I agree. OP if my daughter was in this position, I would hope that she'd abort, fast.

~Elliott's.Mommy~ TTC since Dec 2015; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Eugene, Oregon 3814 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting Link:" Why is abortion not an option? Your baby will grow up with his half sibling / cousin... And adoption isnt all that great. "

I know someone that had that happen to them. Doesnt mean they have to kill their baby because of it...

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37260 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting ~***MoMMy.tO.Be***~:" I know someone that had that happen to them. Doesnt mean they have to kill their baby because of it..."


it is not a baby yet...



is adoption so much better than abortion? Dont give me "at least its living, has a good life" blah blah blah.....

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8816 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting .::Mommy In 2013::.:" I'm scared like hell... And I have considered ONE other option.. but I'm afraid that when it comes down ... [snip!] ... that this is God's blessing and adoption may be the choice and she thanks God that abortion is not even an option for me..!"

Good can come out of any situation but you need to be truthful. If you want to keep your baby there r resourses to help u finish school , get a job & care for your child. If you want to bless another couple by allowing them 2 adopt your baby thats great also but you need to be honest with everyone invovled. Lying always causes distruction.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37260 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting Just Call Me Mommy:" I guess she's pro-life. But adoption isn't bad in this case.....the baby would be in a much better situation. ... [snip!] ... give you the best advice. If you decide to keep the baby you will need assistance for you and the baby for a long, long time."


Really?
Why is it ALL ABOUT THE BABY? Why isnt it about what the mom will go thru for her entire LIFE?
:roll:

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8816 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting Link:" Why is abortion not an option? Your baby will grow up with his half sibling / cousin... And adoption isnt all that great. "


if women dont have to defend their choice to abort then they shouldnt have to defend their choice not too.......

Amber Herr Due September 22; Spring, Texas 14 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting Link:" Why is abortion not an option? Your baby will grow up with his half sibling / cousin... And adoption isnt all that great. "


Just because you think adoption isnt right for you or isnt all that great for you, (maybe you had a bad adoption experience) doesnt mean it might not be the right choice for her. If the baby was adopted, it wouldnt grow up with half sibling/cousin. While yes, its a stickly situation, doesnt mean abortion is the answer either. OP please seek the advice from a professional regarding your feelings and choices as what to do, after you speak to your mother.

NinjaSAPIOSEXUALShahinda 5 kids; Strongsville, Ohio 34461 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting Link:" Really? Why is it ALL ABOUT THE BABY? Why isnt it about what the mom will go thru for her entire LIFE? :roll: "


It should be about the baby, the one having the baby herself, you're so right!
This thread makes me so sad.

NinjaSAPIOSEXUALShahinda 5 kids; Strongsville, Ohio 34461 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting 5 blessings so far....:" if women dont have to defend their choice to abort then they shouldnt have to defend their choice not too......."



Slow your roll, it was just a question, not an interrogation FFS.

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8816 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting Link:" Really? Why is it ALL ABOUT THE BABY? Why isnt it about what the mom will go thru for her entire LIFE? :roll: "


what about the women and girls who allow others to sway their decision & convince them to terminate when they really dont want to and they live w/the guilt and regret for the rest of there lives! If its a personnal choice what a woman does w/her body then it should be supported either way whether or not u agree w/the reasoning. Not just support the choice to abort........

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37260 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting Amber Herr:" Just because you think adoption isnt right for you or isnt all that great for you, (maybe you had a ... [snip!] ... please seek the advice from a professional regarding your feelings and choices as what to do, after you speak to your mother."


yeah I had an adoption experience. I also had an abortion.
Guess what... I didnt attach myself to my pregnancy with my youngest son, and guess what it tears me the hell up.
I have a 5 year old son. I am 25 years old. This girl is 15... NEWLY 15 at that. Why do you think that she has the guts to put a child up for adoption. Because I can tell you what, she will want to keep it. It takes a very head strong person to do adoption. You have to be prepared for it... It is a life long thing. That is what noone understands.



But whatever. Im done. OP GOOD LUCK.



ETA: I have a 5 year old that I am raising. I have another son who is 8 months old who I placed for adoption.