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somethingcleveraboutleavi Harvard, Illinois 26541 posts
Jun 13th '12

:(
Sorry Honey, whether you tell her or not she will find out and it will hurt badly.
She's your mom. At least tell her now so that you won't delay the pain.

Best of Luck to you.

proud mommy86 3 kids; Kentucky 709 posts
Jun 13th '12

good luck to you and yeah just be honest and be the best mom u can be every body has a hard time sometime in there lives but we always find a way through it :)

TeamJumpingBean Due November 2 (boy); 3 kids; Illinois 14 posts
Jun 13th '12

You won't be able to ease the pain, but don't hold it in because that can cause stress to you and your baby. Take time to sit down and talk to your mom as soon as possible so that you can get the stress off of yourself and you'll feel a little better, she may be upset and maybe even get mad, but you won't be able to change the way she feels by waiting to tell her.

Best Wishes and Good Luck!

NinjaSAPIOSEXUALShahinda 5 kids; Strongsville, Ohio 34461 posts
Jun 13th '12

Oh honey, you're so young.
Please Please PLEASE stay in school. I can't imagine what she's already gone through with her other children. :(
Honestly, as a mother, I'd feel as if I'd done something wrong in raising my children if they all ended up as poorly as your siblings.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37260 posts
Jun 13th '12

You need to tell your mom. And I read on your profile that the father wont be involved because you wont tell him. I think that you should tell the father that you are pregnant.

Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Colorado Springs, CO, United States 5844 posts
Jun 13th '12

She's going to find out anyway, might as well just tell her and get it over with.



Stay in school.

Account Deleted101 Texas 14 posts
Jun 13th '12

Hey sorry.. but I accidentally sent it without finishing it.. There's A LOT more.... Please read again.... But Thank you all for the support. It really does mean a lot. Because Even though I don't Know yall, I really have no one. My bestfriend is also pregnant so our friends are focused on helping her... including me...

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37260 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting .::Mommy In 2013::.:" Hey sorry.. but I accidentally sent it without finishing it.. There's A LOT more.... Please read again.... ... [snip!] ... Know yall, I really have no one. My bestfriend is also pregnant so our friends are focused on helping her... including me..."

I did read again...



and I stand by what I said.



Tell your mom. Tell your "best friend" that he will be a father.

Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Colorado Springs, CO, United States 5844 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting .::Mommy In 2013::.:" Hey sorry.. but I accidentally sent it without finishing it.. There's A LOT more.... Please read again.... ... [snip!] ... Know yall, I really have no one. My bestfriend is also pregnant so our friends are focused on helping her... including me..."


You got pregnant by your sister's boyfriend?
Oh. Wow.
Okay, yeah, you defintely need to say something to him. That's his baby, and someone needs to help financially support it, at least until you get a job.



somethingcleveraboutleavi Harvard, Illinois 26541 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting Link:" I did read again... and I stand by what I said. Tell your mom. Tell your "best friend" that he will be a father. "


I agree.



7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8816 posts
Jun 13th '12

i totally agree...u need to tell your mom, the babys daddy, and your sister ! all u r doing is driving yourself crazy holding it all in.

NinjaSAPIOSEXUALShahinda 5 kids; Strongsville, Ohio 34461 posts
Jun 13th '12

So, your child and your sister's child are going to be half brothers and cousins?



Are you sure you're going to follow through with the pregnancy? I mean, are you open to other options?

Account Deleted101 Texas 14 posts
Jun 13th '12

But do I tell my mom that He's the father? Because my friends have other ideas on that. Like telling her it is another guy's but he moved away and i can't contact him. I HATE that. Because I don't want to destroy my family even more than it already is.. But I don't want my child to live a lie and I'm the reason why. I know I'm young. Perhaps TOO young. I just turned 15 a month ago and all this stress is causing me pain that I'm just not strong enough to handle...

~Elliott's.Mommy~ TTC since Dec 2015; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Eugene, Oregon 3814 posts
Jun 13th '12
Quoting .::Mommy In 2013::.:" I have a really hard life at home and school.I have 4 older sisters and im the youngest out of 5 girls. ... [snip!] ... and know that I'm pregnant. But if I do tell my family he's the father than he will lose his son. I never meant to hurt anyone!"

aww I'm so sorry you got in this situation. It has got to be very difficult. My advice to you, is when youre ready, you sit down or even write a letter to your family (i texted my mom and then called her because it was easier for me) and tell them your pregnant and very scared and need the support not someone to judge you. Do it when your ready but do it soon, because its going to be very noticeable soon... you can PM me anytime. Good luck