Quoting Vivacious:" If id had my way id have had my second at 19. Im going to start ttc just after my 22 bday next Feb. my mom wants me to wait until I'm 30 -_-"
Our mothers must be on the same wave length.
Quoting .tay.:" When did you have your second? My mom insist I should wait till Jayden is 20. :roll: I am 18 now, and have plans to have another in like 7 years... not 20."
I would have had the second when Adrianna was about 2 years old. I would have been about 20-21.
Ended up having our 2nd when I was 23?
I got pregnant at 18 & had Adrianna at 19
1st baby at 16 and 2nd baby at 19 so I have a 5yr old step daughter
I had my first at 19 and got pregnant right after DS turned 2. The most important part isn't the gap it being able to handle another financially and emotionally.
Quoting WeenieMachine:" I couldn't do that- start all over again. I think having another around the age of 25 is reasonable as long as you're where you want to be financially and emotionally."
I think so.
And ya by then I should be graduated and a nurse. HOPEFULLY.
I also want to be legal to drink before I have the next one. :lol:
I was 18 when I had Landon. We waited until last January (6 months after being married) to start TTC. We're now pregnant, so we waited 5 years (but not completely my plan). Had all gone to plan we would've had them 4 years apart, not 5. But either way.... do it when you're ready. Noone is every truly "financially stable" unless they are rich, so just have your 2nd based off of when you think you're as ready as you can be.
was 18 when i had my first and a few days from turning 20 with my second.
I had my daughter when I was 18. We are planning within the next two years to start TTC so ill probably be around 22 before we have another. We were gonna plan on having another within the next 18 months, but I changed my mind. Id rather DD be potty trained and only have to buy 1 box of diapers lol
Wtf? Girl you are 18 years old with a baby and thinking of another? Your mom is right.
i was 16 when i had my first, 19 with my second, and 21 with my third.
I got pregnant with my first when I wa 18, had her just before I turned 19 and now at 20 I am having my second. No more babies for me after this! :D
had my first at 18 and had my second at 20. i personaly want to be done but my husband wants another lol. we will see how that works out in the future
Quoting Link:" if you READ.. her mom wants her to have another one when shes 20. SHE the OP wants to wait 7 years [give or take]."
Oh ok. Well let me rephrase what I said: Her mother is a dumb ass enabler.
Quoting Just Call Me Mommy:" She's not thinking about it right now, but even if she was......it's not all that uncommon on BG. "
I don't think it's that uncommon in general lol not even just on BG.