Quoting 624582:" YOU will be the one who has to live with your choice, do not let anyone pressure you into anything you do not want to do."
im sorry your going through what your going through. I couldnt imagine...my personal view is NOT abortion. But thats just my preference. At the end of the day you have to think about what is best for you and your child. If you keep the baby yes it will be hard but remember that is still your child. You necessarily dont need him there to raise the baby. If you do decide to abort you may regret it or become very emotional or you may be perfectly fine. YOUR the one that has to live with the decision not anyone else. its all up to you. I wish you the best with whatever decision you make. Everything happens for a reason. There's always a light at the end of the tunnel
Please people, read the entire thread before giving your input. :idea:
Ok first of all HOW DENSE CAN YOU BE LOOKING FOR THIS SHIT?!?!?! It is in somewhere called abortion survivors... and there is UP TOP called "Read BEFORE posting"... holy f**k. Read people.
I dont believe in abortion its killing ur babies if u dont want them i would prefer adoption there are alot of people that cant have babies that would love ur babies!!good luck & hope u decide to do the right thing!!
Quoting Maeby♥:" Oh my f**king God. The amount of complete idiots on this site astounds me."
Right?! I don't understand why people are commenting on an old post with 9 pages, without reading the whole story. :?
Quoting Vindictive:" Right?! I don't understand why people are commenting on an old post with 9 pages, without reading the whole story. :?"
Why would they go onto a thing called abortion survivors? ffs.
I wish I had not had one either I wish I were stronger and did what I wanted to do I were I were still pregnant and have chosen any choice but this but it's the past there's nothing I can do now but mourn the choices I e made I feel like I was in a lot of ways pressured to do this but I made the final decision by not saying this wasn't what I wanted... I know I could have done it and I'll have to suffer for that everytime I have to see soneone has their kid and I domnt I'll have to live with knowing I let my babies get murdered because that's what everyone said was the rigt thing to do I'm weak I'm stupid and not worth bring a mom to anyone they didn't deserve me.. They didn't deserve this a.d I'll have to pay for that somejhoow.. I am the only one shaken completely by tis incident and I deserve it... Because I put myself in this and decided to do what I did I know I don.t even deserve to live I know it was horrible but whatl's done is done I can't do anything but greive what I did.
Like I said I am here to talk. I had an abortion in May 2011. I didn't want it, but I felt pressured into it by my husband. He just wanted me to have it so he could move on to someone else and treat me like absolute shit. After I got it I cried and cried because we had both actively tried for that baby. I felt like I should've told him no because I wanted the baby. I ever had a last minute chance at the clinic to say no, but I didn't because he made me feel it was the right things to do. I seriously wanted to die. Now looking at all that he has put me through in the last year fighting for our son I am glad I went through with the abortion. I couldn't imagine putting two kids through all this court BS and drama. I know right now you feel guilty and think you made the wrong decision maybe one day you will see it was right. I really hope you heal from all of this.
Em, that is not tolerated here. Read the rules and follow them, please.
i didnt say anything wrong..i guess we can only have an opinion if we agree with everyone else! deleting my baby gaga right now!!! No worries
Opinions aren't welcome in the Abortion Survivors forum. It's a protected forum due to the sensitive nature of the topic for these women to be able to discuss what they need to without comments such as yours.
You can't delete it. Just log off and never come back if that's what you feel.
i DIDNT SAY ANYTHING WRONG! why not arm theses women with ALL the facts instead of just the ones this site sees fit??? i would never condemn someone bc of a choice..but she is 18 and its not the answer..she is over ten weeks these fetus' have a heartbeat(visible @6wks)...which makes them living..this is a fact no one has mentioned...and i think its important information to be armed with...im sure this will be deleted for even mentioning it!