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wigglewaddle 2 kids; Wichita, Kansas 2399 posts
May 26th '12

Good luck, I'm sorry that you're having a tough time. I know down in my heart of hearts as much as I wouldn't want to, I would either abort or adopt out, most likely adoption but like the ladies said, ultimately it is your decision and nobody should try to influence you unless they are being supportive. I really hope that everything works out for you and once again, good luck.

Thread Killa 3 kids; Ocala, Florida 9822 posts
May 26th '12

Personally I would choose abortion. Just because the kids are born doesn't mean he will pay child support. You have to decide if you want to take care of these kids by yourself. Sorry you are going through this.

ashortiz(3) 3 kids; Mt. Zion, IL, United States 284 posts
May 26th '12

Maybe think about adoption?

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37260 posts
May 26th '12
Quoting Thread Killa:" Personally I would choose abortion. Just because the kids are born doesn't mean he will pay child support. ... [snip!] ... pay child support. You have to decide if you want to take care of these kids by yourself. Sorry you are going through this."

this!



and lord only knows how much in CS if you choose to get CS you will get from him is.

Sarah #2 coming soon Due September 6 (boy); 1 child; Maryland 129 posts
May 26th '12

I also should say... My SO has another son... and the mother has constantly caused me and my family nothing but problems so I totally understand where you come from with her wanting to fight you and other childish things... Stay strong and message me if you need someone to talk to!

Thread Killa 3 kids; Ocala, Florida 9822 posts
May 26th '12
Quoting Link:" this! and lord only knows how much in CS if you choose to get CS you will get from him is. "

I know!!! She could get $1.49 like what that dumb ass with the 30 kids pays to some of his children a month. :roll:

user banned TTC since Feb 2012; 16 kids; Kapolei, Hawaii 56 posts
May 26th '12

This sounds nearly identical to what a friend of mine is going through right now although she already had the babies. Like everyone else has said, you are going to have to live with this decision for the rest of your life. Do what you feel is best.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37260 posts
May 26th '12
Quoting Thread Killa:" I know!!! She could get $1.49 like what that dumb ass with the 30 kids pays to some of his children a month. :roll:"


I would have only gotten like 25 bucks if I had kept ethan in CS from his dad. :roll:

P@m3L@!! 20 kids; De Land, Florida 3716 posts
May 26th '12

DONT ABORT!!!!!!!!!!!!



Give them to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37260 posts
May 26th '12
Quoting P@m3L@!!:"


Please remove this.



You are in AS.

Thread Killa 3 kids; Ocala, Florida 9822 posts
May 26th '12
Quoting Link:" I would have only gotten like 25 bucks if I had kept ethan in CS from his dad. :roll:"

Wow that's just ridiculous. Some people need to be castrated.

LolaMcKitten Due May 30 (girl); 27 kids; Beverly Hills, California 15496 posts
May 26th '12

If *I* were in your shoes, I would personally abort, but I'm not you - do you have a support system outside of this man? If he isn't supporting his other children, you most likely can write him off as a deadbeat.



But as others have said - it's a choice you will need to make quickly or you won't have a choice at all.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37260 posts
May 26th '12
Quoting Thread Killa:" Wow that's just ridiculous. Some people need to be castrated. "


yeah... so far we only know of 3 kids that he has... he loves to have sex... makes me pissed off.

Thread Killa 3 kids; Ocala, Florida 9822 posts
May 26th '12
Quoting Link:" yeah... so far we only know of 3 kids that he has... he loves to have sex... makes me pissed off. "

Yep castration!!! I can think of 2 people with multiple kids that need to be sterilized.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
May 26th '12

It's funny people always bring up adoption in abortion threads. I'm sure she knows adoption exists, she is obviously leaning toward abortion or she wouldn't have posted in Abortion Survivors. Why would you even feel the need to bring up adoption?