bia. 3 kids; ., ., Portugal 94870 posts
status Apr 26th '12
Quoting ★ Irishewwie
★ Irishewwie 1 child; Tokeland, Washington 67058 posts
Apr 26th '12
Quoting bia.:" Meh.."


Eh. I'm the odd one out. I'm used to it. lol

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
Apr 26th '12
Quoting ★ Irishewwie
★ Irishewwie 1 child; Tokeland, Washington 67058 posts
Apr 26th '12
Quoting Angie Mother of Boys:" Yes, it is her decision to keep her baby. It was not her decision to make to make a couple think they ... [snip!] ... them told them the bad new and was still there. That is what's wrong here. Not her keeping her baby. Her being a lying thief."


Yeah that's wrong. But f**k. Some of the shit I've seen people say to her isn't called for. I mean...I don't know. I haven't read a lot of her stuff. But get on her about that shit. Not about deciding to keep the baby.

Belle De Jour Due October 8 (boy); 2 kids; Kentucky 19287 posts
Apr 26th '12
Quoting ★ Irishewwie
★ Irishewwie 1 child; Tokeland, Washington 67058 posts
Apr 26th '12
Quoting Reilly and Lila's Mommy:" You know. I would be completely supportive if she had just decided to keep the baby. I could understand ... [snip!] ... it knocks some f**king sense into her and she pays those poor people back and is truthfully sorry for what she did to them."


I agree it sucks that she led them on. That was a horrible thing to do. Absolutely.

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
Apr 26th '12
Quoting ★ Irishewwie
★ Irishewwie 1 child; Tokeland, Washington 67058 posts
Apr 26th '12
Quoting Angie Mother of Boys:" She was financially using a couple. She has no way to pay back all that money. She openly said she said ... [snip!] ... for a free education? That is why she did it. From the very beginning. To get free money. Not earned money. Stolen money."


o.O I hadn't seen that part. Jeebus. Well hopefully for those people she pays them back one day.



The choice to keep the baby is hers, but to use people like fthat for money....yeah. Wrong.

Belle De Jour Due October 8 (boy); 2 kids; Kentucky 19287 posts
Apr 26th '12
Quoting ★ Irishewwie
Sock Lady 6 kids; 4 angel babies; Hell, ON, Canada 11758 posts
Apr 26th '12
Quoting Angie Mother of Boys:" She was financially using a couple. She has no way to pay back all that money. She openly said she said ... [snip!] ... for a free education? That is why she did it. From the very beginning. To get free money. Not earned money. Stolen money."


Omg. That is terrible!

user banned Due June 28 (girl); Japan 121 posts
Apr 26th '12
Quoting Just Ames:" I agree that if she had the slightest notion that she didn't want to give the baby up, she should have ... [snip!] ... to justify that part of the story. There just isn't. This goes beyond "it's her baby, her choice" to adopt out. I mean, really."


this was one of the biggest decisions of my life and i hate that ppl think its something so frivolous that i could make a decision in a day or a few minutes. it took me some time to know for sure that this is what i wanted to do. even now im still thinkin what if and could i and i've already made up my mind. i wanted to be absolutely positively sure that this was the right decision. im still not 100% sure but i know when lyric gets here i will be. i know that i was wrong, and im not lookin to justify what i did to these ppl and if needed i will pay them back every cent that i can but im not a scammer or a thief i was only confused.

★ Irishewwie 1 child; Tokeland, Washington 67058 posts
Apr 26th '12
Quoting Rebecca Bosh:" this was one of the biggest decisions of my life and i hate that ppl think its something so frivolous ... [snip!] ... did to these ppl and if needed i will pay them back every cent that i can but im not a scammer or a thief i was only confused."


I hope you do pay them back. Confusion is understandable. But you should have told them before hand. Give them some time and then call them up. Set up arrangements to pay them back. That's the only thing you can do to redeem yourself.

Monkey Nuts Australia 4572 posts
Apr 26th '12
Quoting Rebecca Bosh:" this was one of the biggest decisions of my life and i hate that ppl think its something so frivolous ... [snip!] ... did to these ppl and if needed i will pay them back every cent that i can but im not a scammer or a thief i was only confused."


There is no justification for what you have done.
None.
You really are a terrible human being who if their is a god....
You will go to hell for what you have done to those people.



God you even bitched about failing your finals.
You wouldn't even be taking finals if it wasn't for those people.
You deserve to fail, because you failed them and you will fail your child.

Kylie Rae 1 child; Powell, Wyoming 98 posts
Apr 26th '12

My aunt went through somethign exactly like this! (comming from the adoptive parent side)... They were adopting a beautiful baby boy had EVERYTHING ready for him to come home they moved states (because it was a semi open adoption and wanted to be closer to his bio mom) completly changed jobs, payed for EVERYTHING and sooo much more... The bio mom went into labor, agency called and told them they could come pick up their new little boy when all of a suddon bio mom decided she wanted to keep the baby. She had known the entire time she was keeping the baby she even told the doctors she was keeping him. My aunt's only dream was to become a mommy but after her accident couldnt have kids this was her last hope. Her husband has now said he will never go through with that again if they cant have a baby of thier own they wont have kids. Your decision OP could have just screwed their entire hopes and dreams of having a family. I strongly hope you have learned something and pull your head out of your ass and figure out how you plan on paying for your new child. Where are you going to live? Diapers? Her doctor bills? Her school bills? Food for her? I know where I live if you dont have a RESPONSIBLE place to live like you can t live in a shelter they dont let you take your baby home from the hospital. You better get your shit together....

Belle De Jour Due October 8 (boy); 2 kids; Kentucky 19287 posts
Apr 26th '12
Quoting Rebecca Bosh:" this was one of the biggest decisions of my life and i hate that ppl think its something so frivolous ... [snip!] ... did to these ppl and if needed i will pay them back every cent that i can but im not a scammer or a thief i was only confused."


It IS needed! You NEED to pay them back :?